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Feetr is an algorithm which analyses momentum, looking for stocks which have the potential for massive gains today. Please see here for more information.
 
Here are today's top picks:

Stock	Impressions	Average Daily Volume	Current Volume	Link
HOTH	1.58	232.11K	7.09M	Click
FRZA	6.38	1.71M	6.87M	Click
TOP	124.02	2.15M	236.22K	Click
NVOS	4.02	18.91M	7.53M	Click
CJET	1.04	726.91K	199.74K	Click
ZURA	1.91	585.65K	1.42M	Click

 
Here is the Feetr Screenr; a collection of stocks with higher than average volume

CODE	VOLUME (%)	IMPRESSIONS	MARKET CAP	YDAY INCREASE (%)	CURR. PRICE CHANGE (%)	Link
VEDU	5722.71		16.21M	9.11	40.41	Click
GNLN	4605.52		4.51M	1.63	1.14	Click
BREA	3372.36		28.28M	14.34	69.35	Click
HOTH	1513.25		6.21M	22.25	60.11	Click
TTOO	532.15		1.74M	6.14	22.57	Click
VEEE	382.22		17.71M	14.29	5.91	Click
FRZA	369.39	6.38	30.51M	23.34	25.68	Click
ZURA	196.23		206.40M	4.78	17.10	Click
COEP	90.01	2.55	36.84M	24.52	8.77	Click
HOLI	67.32		979.92M	1.76	6.08	Click
SECO	61.99	2.01	5.65M	2.92	12.53	Click
HTGM	56.13		3.72M	6.64	-38.01	Click
PDSB	54.10	2.11	201.28M	1.65	17.15	Click
THMO	53.79		2.00M	3.25	8.57	Click
CYXT	52.41	2.11	15.51M	4.22	5.00	Click
GROV	52.04		75.08M	3.57	478.57	Click
DUO	50.92		46.68M	13.67	6.10	Click
BRSH	44.76		3.83M	20.65	8.35	Click
RETO	41.11		8.28M	12.33	-2.60	Click
SASI	40.00		3.34M	0.44	-10.73	Click
LVTX	38.75		49.95M	1.17	4.74	Click
SEV	37.45	2.64	28.53M	179.12	-11.48	Click
AGRI	35.35	2.02	3.52M	0.35	10.25	Click
BVXV	33.65	2.11	5.02M	9.13	-6.54	Click
WEJO	32.91		9.34M	27.32	0.12	Click
KTTA	32.79	2.10	13.06M	14.41	-8.02	Click
TOI	32.59		26.37M	34.04	3.71	Click
KPRX	31.79	2.03	1.71M	1.91	-2.62	Click
QMCO	30.75	3.31	129.41M	2.13	-12.07	Click
CONL	29.91		N/A	2.50	-22.34	Click
BLPH	29.73	3.78	9.85M	3.08	-3.09	Click
ONCR	29.13		2.99M	7.78	-3.93	Click
NVOS	27.53	4.02	18.31M	1.92	18.20	Click
NOVN	25.64		32.22M	4.31	4.35	Click
AKA	22.45		51.65M	0.00	15.00	Click
MGM	20.87		14.83B	0.98	-0.00	Click
BIOL	16.92		2.54M	0.00	-9.48	Click
GROMW	16.82		N/A	0.00	15.75	Click
COIN	16.15	20.22	13.77B	1.68	-15.02	Click
U	14.71		13.75B	26.81	3.72	Click
ATXG	14.37		25.52M	0.00	2.68	Click
ZFOX	13.81	3.31	123.41M	0.89	8.65	Click
ASST	12.60		15.30M	22.64	7.14	Click
NAVB	12.42		3.16M	1.83	-2.22	Click
YJ	12.22	2.03	41.38M	6.68	-3.61	Click
CHEK	11.69		10.69M	4.42	9.44	Click
AUMN	10.53	2.17	20.16M	1.06	-1.15	Click
GTLB	10.22	14.30	5.41B	4.94	29.49	Click
INVO	10.13		2.79M	95.45	-2.90	Click
TOP	7.23	124.02	297.92M	43.27	3.65	Click
ASO	6.39	7.38	3.74B	0.47	-3.13	Click
MULN	5.86	5.34	120.24M	0.08	-5.16	Click
WLDS	4.38	5.34	32.57M	9.61	-7.94	Click
MARA	3.73	5.41	1.54B	2.57	-1.96	Click
AA	3.52	12.38	6.03B	0.00	0.06	Click
BUD	3.46	6.04	107.63B	1.48	0.33	Click
FFIE	3.37	5.83	348.24M	12.73	0.33	Click
RIOT	3.17	6.34	1.90B	2.83	-5.99	Click

Note that VOLUME (%) is the current premarket volume as a percentage of the average daily volume
 
Disclaimer: Feetr is an algorithm. It's math, not magic. You are responsible for any trades that you choose to make. A stock pick by Feetr is not a guarantee of a price increase. If you are new to day trading, I would recommend using these stocks to practise on a demo account or simply on paper, writing when you'd buy or sell and analysing why you made each decision.
You can view all previous stock picks at feetr.io/history and the leaderboards can be seen at feetr.io/leaderboard

Working from home has become more common these days, but finding a suitable space to work can be challenging. If you have a basement that is unused or cluttered, you can transform it into a functional and comfortable home office with some creativity and effort. Here are some tips to help you with the renovation process.
1. Figure Out the Space You Need
Before you start renovating your basement, you need to determine how much space you need for your home office. Consider the size and number of your office equipment, such as your desk, chair, computer, printer, etc. Also, think about any other functions you want to include in your office, such as a meeting area, a storage area, or a coffee station. This will help you plan the layout and budget of your project.
2. Choose Office-Friendly Paint Colors
The color of your walls can affect your mood and productivity. To create a professional and calming atmosphere in your basement office, opt for light and neutral paint colors, such as beige, gray, or white. Avoid dark or bright colors that can make the space feel dull or distracting.
3. Upgrade the Lighting
Basements tend to be dark and gloomy, which is not ideal for working. To brighten up your space and make it more inviting, invest in high-quality lighting fixtures that provide adequate illumination. You can also use natural light if you have windows in your basement. Add desk lamps and other task lighting to enhance your work area, and use ambient lighting, such as recessed or floor lamps, to create a cozy ambiance.
4. Insulate Your Walls
Insulating your basement walls is essential for making your home office comfortable and energy-efficient. Proper insulation can prevent drafts and keep the room warm during winter. It can also help reduce noise from other parts of your home, making your work area quieter and more conducive to concentration. You can also use thick rugs and solid core doors to improve insulation.
5. Divide Your Space into Work Zones
If you have a large basement, you can divide it into different work zones to optimize your productivity and organization. For example, you can have a main work zone with your desk and computer, a meeting zone with a sofa and a coffee table, a storage zone with cabinets and shelves, and a relaxation zone with a mini-fridge and a snack bar. This way, you can have everything you need within reach and switch between tasks easily.
6. Add Some Personal Touches
To make your basement office feel more like your own, you can add some personal touches that reflect your style and personality. For example, you can hang some artwork or photos on the walls, display some plants or flowers on your desk, or use some colorful accessories or cushions to add some flair. These details can make your space more enjoyable and inspiring.
7. Maintain Your Basement Office
Once you have renovated your basement into a home office, you need to maintain it regularly to keep it clean and tidy. Dust and vacuum the floors and surfaces frequently, organize your files and documents properly, dispose of any trash or clutter promptly, and sanitize your keyboard and mouse often. By keeping your basement office in good condition, you can work more efficiently and comfortably.

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	CAMPEAO
1	PALMEIRAS	47,17%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	15,38%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	13,79%
4	FLAMENGO	12,95%
5	FLUMINENSE	5,78%
6	SAO PAULO	2,37%
7	FORTALEZA	1,22%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	0,39%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	0,29%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	0,23%
11 ( ⬇️1 )	BRAGANTINO	0,20%
12 ( ⬇️3 )	INTERNACIONAL	0,19%
13 ( ⬆️2 )	SANTOS	0,03%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	CORINTHIANS	0,01%
15 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	0,01%
16	BAHIA	0,01%
17 ( ⬆️3 )	CUIABA	0,01%

​

	REBAIXAMENTO
1	CORITIBA	88,03%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	GOIAS	80,94%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	AMERICA-MG	58,05%
4	CUIABA	40,35%
5	BAHIA	36,56%
6	CORINTHIANS	27,03%
7 ( ⬆️1 )	VASCO	25,97%
8 ( ⬇️1 )	SANTOS	16,16%
9 ( ⬆️2 )	BRAGANTINO	6,86%
10 ( ⬆️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	5,71%
11 ( ⬆️2 )	CRUZEIRO	5,07%
12 ( ⬇️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	3,77%
13 ( ⬇️3 )	GREMIO	3,56%
14	FORTALEZA	1,18%
15	SAO PAULO	0,55%
16	FLUMINENSE	0,18%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	0,03%
18 ( ⬇️1 )	FLAMENGO	0,01%
19	BOTAFOGO	0,01%
20	PALMEIRAS	0,01%

​

	PONTUACAO MEDIA
1	PALMEIRAS	72,15
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	66,39
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	65,69
4	FLAMENGO	65,15
5	FLUMINENSE	61,89
6	SAO PAULO	59,04
7	FORTALEZA	57,17
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	53,76
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	53,30
10 ( ⬇️1 )	INTERNACIONAL	52,15
11 ( ⬇️3 )	CRUZEIRO	52,12
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	51,52
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	47,89
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	45,84
15	CORINTHIANS	45,48
16	BAHIA	43,75
17	CUIABA	43,16
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	40,06
19 ( ⬇️1 )	GOIAS	35,83
20	CORITIBA	33,71

​

	G4
1	PALMEIRAS	89,98%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	67,65%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	64,68%
4	FLAMENGO	61,75%
5	FLUMINENSE	41,83%
6	SAO PAULO	25,23%
7	FORTALEZA	16,13%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	7,92%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	7,32%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	5,21%
11 ( ⬇️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	5,04%
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	4,34%
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	1,17%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	0,74%
15	CORINTHIANS	0,47%
16	BAHIA	0,30%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	CUIABA	0,20%
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	0,04%
19 ( ⬇️2 )	GOIAS	0,01%

​

	G6
1	PALMEIRAS	96,80%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	86,28%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	84,31%
4	FLAMENGO	82,31%
5	FLUMINENSE	67,11%
6	SAO PAULO	49,67%
7	FORTALEZA	36,73%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	20,83%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	20,22%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	15,38%
11 ( ⬇️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	14,93%
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	12,69%
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	4,95%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	2,64%
15	CORINTHIANS	2,35%
16	BAHIA	1,40%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	CUIABA	1,01%
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	0,34%
19 ( ⬇️2 )	GOIAS	0,03%
20	CORITIBA	0,01%

​

		Pontuacao minima	Pontuacao maxima
1	PALMEIRAS	44	99
2	ATLETICO-MG	40	91
3	BOTAFOGO	42	90
4	FLAMENGO	37	93
5	FLUMINENSE	36	89
6	SAO PAULO	33	87
7	FORTALEZA	32	83
8	GREMIO	30	81
9	ATHLETICO-PR	29	83
10	INTERNACIONAL	24	76
11	CRUZEIRO	29	81
12	BRAGANTINO	27	78
13	SANTOS	20	73
14	VASCO	19	74
15	CORINTHIANS	21	71
16	BAHIA	21	77
17	CUIABA	22	70
18	AMERICA-MG	17	69
19	GOIAS	14	64
20	CORITIBA	11	61

​

	POWER RANKING
1	PALMEIRAS	100.0
2	ATLETICO-MG	82.79
3	FLAMENGO	81.35
4 ( ⬆️1 )	FLUMINENSE	67.36
5 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	65.31
6 ( ⬆️1 )	FORTALEZA	62.86
7 ( ⬇️1 )	SAO PAULO	62.61
8	INTERNACIONAL	49.72
9 ( ⬆️1 )	CRUZEIRO	44.56
10 ( ⬆️1 )	BRAGANTINO	42.7
11 ( ⬆️1 )	ATHLETICO-PR	41.33
12 ( ⬇️3 )	VASCO	40.88
13 ( ⬆️1 )	GREMIO	34.87
14 ( ⬇️1 )	CORINTHIANS	33.48
15 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	31.55
16 ( ⬇️1 )	BAHIA	30.36
17	AMERICA-MG	21.59
18	CUIABA	15.79
19 ( ⬆️1 )	CORITIBA	7.47
20 ( ⬇️1 )	GOIAS	0.0

​

	PERFORMANCE
1	BOTAFOGO	109.37
2	PALMEIRAS	96.16
3	ATLETICO-MG	95.23
4	FLAMENGO	90.85
5	FORTALEZA	90.23
6	SAO PAULO	74.23
7	CRUZEIRO	73.21
8	FLUMINENSE	71.83
9	BRAGANTINO	63.0
10	ATHLETICO-PR	43.61
11	SANTOS	30.15
12	CUIABA	25.95
13	GREMIO	23.78
14	VASCO	23.41
15	BAHIA	18.75
16	INTERNACIONAL	18.38
17	CORINTHIANS	6.62
18	AMERICA-MG	-8.56
19	GOIAS	-11.93
20	CORITIBA	-16.03

​

	xPts
1	PALMEIRAS	17.33
2	FLAMENGO	16.4
3	BOTAFOGO	16.12
4	FORTALEZA	15.24
5	ATLETICO-MG	14.88
6	SAO PAULO	14.77
7	CRUZEIRO	14.35
8	FLUMINENSE	14.19
9	BRAGANTINO	13.65
10	ATHLETICO-PR	12.68
11	GREMIO	11.54
12	SANTOS	11.41
13	BAHIA	10.67
14	CUIABA	10.51
15	INTERNACIONAL	10.18
16	VASCO	9.39
17	CORINTHIANS	9.24
18	AMERICA-MG	9.02
19	GOIAS	8.2
20	CORITIBA	6.95

​

	G7
1	PALMEIRAS	98,25%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	91,37%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	89,98%
4	FLAMENGO	88,62%
5	FLUMINENSE	76,64%
6	SAO PAULO	61,17%
7	FORTALEZA	48,12%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	29,66%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	28,99%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	22,98%
11 ( ⬇️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	22,28%
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	19,05%
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	8,16%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	4,88%
15	CORINTHIANS	4,22%
16	BAHIA	2,71%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	CUIABA	2,05%
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	0,72%
19 ( ⬇️2 )	GOIAS	0,10%
20	CORITIBA	0,04%

​

	G8
1	PALMEIRAS	99,03%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	94,80%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	93,77%
4	FLAMENGO	92,97%
5	FLUMINENSE	83,99%
6	SAO PAULO	70,79%
7	FORTALEZA	58,80%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	39,58%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	38,54%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	31,86%
11 ( ⬇️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	30,82%
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	27,35%
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	12,62%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	8,15%
15	CORINTHIANS	7,14%
16	BAHIA	4,43%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	CUIABA	3,56%
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	1,43%
19 ( ⬇️2 )	GOIAS	0,28%
20	CORITIBA	0,10%

​

	G9
1	PALMEIRAS	99,50%
2 ( ⬆️1 )	ATLETICO-MG	96,82%
3 ( ⬇️1 )	BOTAFOGO	96,14%
4	FLAMENGO	95,66%
5	FLUMINENSE	89,44%
6	SAO PAULO	79,04%
7	FORTALEZA	68,25%
8 ( ⬆️3 )	GREMIO	50,03%
9 ( ⬆️3 )	ATHLETICO-PR	48,66%
10 ( ⬇️2 )	CRUZEIRO	41,77%
11 ( ⬇️2 )	INTERNACIONAL	40,36%
12 ( ⬇️2 )	BRAGANTINO	36,06%
13 ( ⬆️1 )	SANTOS	18,65%
14 ( ⬇️1 )	VASCO	12,55%
15	CORINTHIANS	10,93%
16	BAHIA	7,02%
17 ( ⬆️1 )	CUIABA	5,86%
18 ( ⬆️1 )	AMERICA-MG	2,58%
19 ( ⬇️2 )	GOIAS	0,46%
20	CORITIBA	0,24%

A preview of the offline maps. This area was 4.75GB to download. It mostly functions the same as online, except for indoor maps and exact timetables for local transit.

• EndeavourOS
• GE 8-8 & 8-7

Problem: Some games launch without audio and they don't create a entry in pavucontrol.
In the case of Diablo IV

• BattleNet launcher plays audio and registers in pavucontrol when doing so.
• Diablo IV does not pass audio when launched.

MGS V also behaves the same on lutris, but when launching on steam audio works. So I assume its something to do with the winecfg?
winecfg

• Selected Driver - winepulse.drv
• Outputs - Default
• Test audio works.

Lutris Logs for D4:

lutris-wrapper: Blizzard Battle.netStarted initial process 49545 from gamescope -w 3440 -h 1440 -W 3440 -H 1440 -f -- gamemoderun /home/altereddata/.local/share/lutris/runners/wine/lutris-GE-Proton8-8-x86_64/bin/wine /home/altereddata/Games/battlenet/drive_c/Program Files (x86)/Battle.net/Battle.net Launcher.exeStart monitoring process.No CAP_SYS_NICE, falling back to regular-priority compute and threads.Performance will be affected.wlserver: [backend/headless/backend.c:68] Creating headless backendvulkan: selecting physical device 'NVIDIA GeForce GTX 1070': queue family 2vulkan: physical device supports DRM format modifiersvulkan: vkGetPhysicalDeviceFormatProperties2 returned zero modifiers for DRM format 0x3231564E (VkResult: 0)vulkan: vkGetPhysicalDeviceFormatProperties2 returned zero modifiers for DRM format 0x48344241 (VkResult: 0)vulkan: vkGetPhysicalDeviceFormatProperties2 returned zero modifiers for DRM format 0x48344258 (VkResult: 0)vulkan: vkGetPhysicalDeviceFormatProperties2 returned zero modifiers for DRM format 0x38344241 (VkResult: 0)vulkan: vkGetPhysicalDeviceFormatProperties2 returned zero modifiers for DRM format 0x38344258 (VkResult: 0)vulkan: supported DRM formats for sampling usage:vulkan: AR24 (0x34325241)vulkan: XR24 (0x34325258)vulkan: AB24 (0x34324241)vulkan: XB24 (0x34324258)vulkan: AB30 (0x30334241)vulkan: XB30 (0x30334258)vulkan: AR30 (0x30335241)vulkan: XR30 (0x30335258)wlserver: Running compositor on wayland display 'gamescope-0'wlserver: [backend/headless/backend.c:16] Starting headless backendwlserver: [xwayland/sockets.c:63] Failed to bind socket @/tmp/.X11-unix/X0: Address already in usewlserver: [util/env.c:9] Loading WLR_NO_HARDWARE_CURSORS option: 1wlserver: [types/output/output.c:382] WLR_NO_HARDWARE_CURSORS set, forcing software cursorswlserver: [xwayland/server.c:108] Starting Xwayland on :2wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa370c90 (res 0x55e6aa72d820)wlserver: [xwayland/server.c:273] Xserver is readypipewire: stream state changed: connectingpipewire: stream state changed: pausedpipewire: stream available on node ID: 131gamemodeauto: fsync: up and running.wine: Using setpriority to control niceness in the [-11,11] rangewlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa183b20 (res 0x55e6aa72ebe0)xwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.The XKEYBOARD keymap compiler (xkbcomp) reports:> Warning: Unsupported maximum keycode 708, clipping.> X11 cannot support keycodes above 255.Errors from xkbcomp are not fatal to the X serverxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_DEMANDS_ATTENTIONwlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa7ad820 (res 0x55e6aa747930)xwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _KDE_NET_WM_STATE_SKIP_SWITCHERxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_ABOVExwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_VERTxwm: Unhandled NET_WM_STATE property change: _NET_WM_STATE_MAXIMIZED_HORZxwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa7add20 (res 0x55e6aa749b70)wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa7ae2f0 (res 0x55e6aa74baf0)xwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa7ae720 (res 0x55e6aa74eb50)xwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6aa7aea80 (res 0x55e6aa74baf0)xwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.xwm: error 3: BadWindow (invalid Window parameter) request 20 minor 0 serial 14751xwm: error 3: BadWindow (invalid Window parameter) request 20 minor 0 serial 14752xwm: error 3: BadWindow (invalid Window parameter) request 20 minor 0 serial 14754xwm: error 3: BadWindow (invalid Window parameter) request 15 minor 0 serial 14755xwm: error 3: BadWindow (invalid Window parameter) request 20 minor 0 serial 14756wine client error:634: write: Bad file descriptor3814.598:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_instance_apply_application_workarounds: Program name: "Diablo IV.exe"3814.598:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_instance_deduce_config_flags_from_environment: shader_cache is used, global_pipeline_cache is enforced.3814.598:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_config_flags_init_once: VKD3D_CONFIG=''.3814.599:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_get_vk_version: vkd3d-proton - applicationVersion: 2.9.0.3814.599:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_instance_init: vkd3d-proton - build: 6365efeba253807.3814.773:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_memory_info_upload_hvv_memory_properties: Topology: Device heaps are split. Assuming small BAR situation. Using HOST_COHERENT only.3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_get_bindless_flags: Device does not support VK_EXT_mutable_descriptor_type (or VALVE).3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.775:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_bindless_state_add_binding: Device supports VK_EXT_descriptor_buffer!3814.778:077c:0780:fixme:vkd3d-proton:d3d12_device_caps_init_feature_options1: TotalLaneCount = 1920, may be inaccurate.3814.778:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_init_disk_cache: Remapping VKD3D_SHADER_CACHE to: vkd3d-proton.cache.3814.778:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_init_disk_cache: Attempting to load disk cache from: vkd3d-proton.cache.3814.779:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Performing async setup of stream archive ...3814.780:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_cache_merge: No write cache exists. No need to merge any disk caches.3814.780:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_cache_initial_setup: Merging pipeline libraries took 0.270 ms.3814.780:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_cache_initial_setup: Mapping read-only cache took 0.337 ms.3814.786:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_cache_initial_setup: Parsing stream archive took 6.562 ms.3814.786:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Done performing async setup of stream archive.wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6a9d186a0 (res 0x55e6aa744a80)xwm: Unhandled client message: _NET_WM_FULLSCREEN_MONITORSxwm: got the same buffer commited twice, ignoring.3815.028:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:dxgi_vk_swap_chain_init: Creating swapchain (3440 x 1440), BufferCount = 3.3815.029:077c:0780:info:vkd3d-proton:dxgi_vk_swap_chain_init_sync_objects: Enabling frame latency handles.wlserver: [types/wlr_compositor.c:681] New wlr_surface 0x55e6a9d18a00 (res 0x55e6aa7464f0)3819.396:077c:0820:info:vkd3d-proton:dxgi_vk_swap_chain_recreate_swapchain_in_present_task: Got 4 swapchain images.3819.456:077c:0820:info:vkd3d-proton:dxgi_vk_swap_chain_recreate_swapchain_in_present_task: Got 4 swapchain images.3872.901:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.3874.002:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Flushing disk cache (wakeup counter since last flush = 73). It seems like application has stopped creating new PSOs for the time being.3875.207:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.3877.959:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Flushing disk cache (wakeup counter since last flush = 102). It seems like application has stopped creating new PSOs for the time being.3880.212:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.3881.211:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Flushing disk cache (wakeup counter since last flush = 4). It seems like application has stopped creating new PSOs for the time being.3883.972:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.3884.971:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Flushing disk cache (wakeup counter since last flush = 4). It seems like application has stopped creating new PSOs for the time being.3901.401:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.3904.323:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Flushing disk cache (wakeup counter since last flush = 150). It seems like application has stopped creating new PSOs for the time being.3904.848:077c:0818:info:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_pipeline_library_disk_thread_main: Pipeline cache marked dirty. Flush is scheduled.(EE) failed to read Wayland events: Broken pipeX connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).X connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).X connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).X connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).X connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).X connection to :2 broken (explicit kill or server shutdown).Initial process has exited (return code: 0)XIO: fatal IO error 110 (Connection timed out) on X server ":2" after 503 requests (502 known processed) with 0 events remaining.3914.556:077c:07c8:err:vkd3d-proton:vkd3d_allocate_device_memory: Failed to allocate device memory (size 13312, type_flags 0x1, type_mask 0x82).wine client error:2c0: write: Bad file descriptordouble free or corruption (!prev)Monitored process exited.Exit with return code 0 

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I've double checked dependencies from here: https://www.gloriouseggroll.tv/how-to-get-out-of-wine-dependency-hell/ and other 'help threads' making sure 32bit variants are installed also.
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Any help is appreciated.

Some background, I (36F) and my husband (40M) have been together for 7 years. I was married before and brought my two kids from my first marriage into the relationship, my husband had never been married and no kids. We got pregnant pretty quickly and it was a whirlwind. When we were together in the beginning we spent a lot of time with his family. I'm talking almost every weekend, holiday, pizza nights, birthdays ect. It was amazing, they accepted me and my kids right in and I felt just like family.
When we first got married his brother moved in with us for a little while. When he moved out he had left some stuff in our house, which was fine. One weekend when my husband was out of town he decided he needed his stuff right then and there. My husband and him have purchased some of the things he wanted to pick up so I asked if he could wait to come get his things until my husband got home the next day so they could go through it together. This set him off, he flipped out to the point where my husband told me to change the locks and call the cops if he showed up. I was about 7 months pregnant and had my two kids home with me while my husband was out of town. Due to previous issues with abuse from men this really terrified me. He threatened to sue us for withholding property ect. It was bad. His parents got involved and we all sat down and resolved that issue.
Fast forward to about 6 months later, my husband was out of town again. His family was going hiking so I joined with my now 3 kids. It was a pretty long hike, I drove so when I brought my FIL home I parked in his driveway, not intending to stay long but to let everyone use the bathroom and then head home. While inside my BIL, who we had the issue with earlier, came in and started saying that I have no idea how to drive and how I "parked in his spot". He lived with his parents at the time. He angrily started gathering his things to leave again, his anger making me uncomfortable I decided it was time to go. When I got out to the driveway I saw that BIL decided to park as close as he could to my driver's side door blocking me from getting the carseat and myself in on that side. I did not want to confront him, because again men terrify me. I just got the kids in on the other side and climbed in through the passenger side door, while he stood there and watched this all happen without even offering to move his car. I called my husband, who was out of town, and vented about the situation. He was upset and called his brother and his brother told him it was my fault and I should learn how to drive.
This blew up into getting his parents involved again. We tried to work it out and my husband demanded an apology for how I had been treated, but his parents and brother both thought this was a dumb "high school issue" and that he did nothing worth apologizing for. This went to the point where we went no contact with his entire side of the family. It has been about 4 years since this incident with very little contact from his side of the family. Here is where I might be the asshole, I have been trying to convince my husband to reach out to his parents. His dad has had health issues in the past and I don't want him to regret not talking to them because of me. I feel like maybe I should push the issue with him more and make him reach out. I dont know if I should be putting that on me, but I feel responsible for this whole situation and I have never had anyone stick up for me like this. So am I the asshole?

Hi everyone,
I've been posting on the dedicated threads recently, about my recent sense of achievement on my results, and I thought that I could create a bigger post with an overview of my progress so far. Brace yourselves, it's probably going to be a long post. Sorry in advance.
The beginnings:
I actually started weightlifting at the beginning of 2018. I was fresh out of my PhD, where I had gained 10kgs thanks to a burnout and anti-depressant medication. This was followed by a bad breakup where I lost those 10kgs in one month as I just could not eat. I went from 55kgs to 65kgs at my heaviest, back to 55 kgs. While in the end, I was happy to be back at what I considered my regular weight, I was very much skinny fat: https://i.imgur.com/5dJPvCt.jpg
In April 2018, I enrolled in the gym next to my new job. Started with a short program for my back paired with a few cardio classes, then transitionned to weightlifting, following PHUL(power, hypertrophy, upper lower, 4 days a week). At the time, I had gone back to 58kgs after a month with my parents and wanted to go back to 55kgs, so I was cutting and eating 1600 cal a day.
I was kind of consistent, until mid 2019. Went back to 56kg at my lowest and looked like that:
https://imgur.com/N2eKGPn
https://imgur.com/UoJi2aD
https://imgur.com/Qtjfih5
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Then, I suffered an overuse injury in my hip, and everything went to hell. Combined with Covid, moving to a different country, doing online classes and project to try to shift carreers, I neglected a bit the gym.
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2022-2023: 11 months of treating the gym like a job
In July 2022, coming back from our holidays, I decided I wanted to focus again on weight lifting after weighing myself at 63 kgs, which was really close to my all time heaviest. At started back on a cut, aiming for 1500 cal a day and at least 100g proteins (but really aiming for 120g), going to the gym 4 days a week with my trusted PHUL, without being able to squats because of my old hip injury which never really healed and liked to flare up for no reason.
I tried to be cautious, but still injured my shoulders along the way, so I had periods where I focused more on legs, and others where I focused more on upper body, depending on which part of my body needed extra nursing. From july 2022 to end of september 2022, I went back to 58 kgs. At some point in the middle, I started to add stationary bike everyday and it really helped me shed the weigh faster.
In October, we moved to a different town. For one month, the kitchen was split in two apartments, so we ate out a lot of the time and I stopped tracking calories, still going to the gy, thinking that it would be a good opportunity to lean bulk.
It wasn't a lean bulk. It wasn't dramatic, but between this and the end of the year, I ended up taking a month out of the gym in December and went back to 61.5 kgs at the beginning of January 2023. I decided that to ease back into my routine, I would start by going back to the gym and count my calories, without restricting. Trying to go for 2 months of maintenance, before going for 3 months of cut for summer.
I was kind of disapointed at first as after 2 months of what should have been a recomp, I didn't really looked different, but I kept on going. Mid January, I invested in a fitbit watch, and it really helped me be more active in general by encouraging me to walk my 10 steps a day, logging my water and food consumption and be more mindful of my sleep hygiene.
I effectively maintained at 61.5kg in January and February, eating at 2100 cal a day. In March, I cut to 1500 cal a day, started doing 45 minutes of stationary bike after each gym session and the weight just dropped like a stone. I was thinking that it was a bit too quick, so Iauthorized myself to eat a bit more, upping at 1700 to 1800 most of the days for the 2 next months, and ended my cut a few days ago at 58 kgs:
Here is a summary of my appearance throughout the 11 months: https://i.imgur.com/2k7E3QS.jpg
I now have:

• abs: https://i.imgur.com/f29WoiC.jpg
• big shoulders: https://i.imgur.com/Olw13IV.jpg
• big arms: https://i.imgur.com/1n51HNt.jpg https://i.imgur.com/igkfJmW.jpg
• big back: https://i.imgur.com/kcNRcNi.jpg
• kind of a booty: https://i.imgur.com/QXrdoJ9.jpg

What I did:
I took a bit of time to find my preferred program and frequency for the gym, but ultimately, I settled down on a Pull/Push/Legs split, going to the gym 6 days a week. This one specifically.
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Now, I usually spend 30 minutes warming up and doing mobility exercises to minimize the risks of injuries, then for the first big lift of the day, I would make a pyramide to work up to ny working weight to the day and warm up the joints for the specific moves. Except for a few occasions where the ego lift got the better of me, it's worked pretty well to help me lift injury free since I started doing that. However, I end up spending at least 2 hours just for the lifting session, which is followed then by my 45min to 1h15min (depending on the series I watch during my bike session) of cardio. Definitely too much time and I need to find a way to cut a bit of time. Now that I am not cutting anymore, I am cutting the cardio: not everyday, and not for as long.
My lifts have progressed, even thought I was cutting and I am now at:

• Benchpress: 42.5 kgs for 5*5 reps
• OVH press: 27.5 kgs for 5*5 reps
• Deadlifts: 75 kgs for 5*5 reps
• Squats: 40 kgs for 5*5 reps
• Pull ups: can rep 4 strict pull ups

My squats are very weak compared to my other lifts, but because of old injuries from 2018, I had been unable to squat pain free for years, even with just my body weight, so I am actually very happy with this number. Now that I am eating more, I hope it will go up and catch up with the others.
Nothing really impressive, but I am quite proud and stronger than I've ever been.
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What I learned/Impact:
Tracking my weights, calories and heart rate in addition to my menstural cycle haa been eye opening to me on the impact my cycle has on me.
For example:
Weight loss and period
Resting heart rate and period
When I started doing cardio, my resting heart rate dropped dramatically. However, when it started rising again, I was worried and thought that I was overtraining or something. Turns out, not only do I have water retention around my ovulation and periods, my resting heart rate is also very much cycling and is at its lowest at the end of my period and at its highest a few days before them. And I don;t even know why I was surprised. A week before my period, I am always plagued by fatigue and spend just so much time in bed! Turns out it's not just in my head, or me being lazy. I actually have physical symptoms that explains it.
I have also learned to work around my injuries to keep training, while leaving my problematic joints/muscles resting, which helped me be more consistent and i think it really helped with the results I can see now. I have lost of little painful things that are slowly starting to disappear:

• the sole of my left foot was really painful and prevented me to run for the longest of time: now that I do calf raises without using my hands to stabilize my self, my left ankle that I had strained a few years ago is getting stronger and this pain has disappear.
• my hyperlaxed wrists are finally strong enough for me to do push ups where i was previously able to hurt myself carying the laundry or brushing my hair.
• as mentionned. earlier, I can finally squat pain free after years of instant pain each time I would attempt a body weight squat.
• I used to have worrying chest pain where I would be unable to take deep breaths without pain, which looked to me like I had a pinched nerve in my shoulder that would run through my whole chest (medical exams didn't show anything): now that my chest and back have more muscles, i haven't feel this in months).

And finally, of course: My confidence is through the roof. I'm very happy with the way I llok right now and very happy with the sun allowing me to finally only wear minishorts and crop tops XD.
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Now what?
It's been a week since the end of the cut. I'm aiming to eat 2000 to 2100 calories a day, still going to the gym 6 days a week for 1h30/2h00 and scaling back on the stationary bike to only 35 minutes maybe everyother day. My weight is already up to 59kgs, but I'm guessing it's just the water retention of eating more carbs and more in general. If I maintain at 59kg for the next months, it will be good enough for me. At the end of summer, I'll try to bulk again until march of next year for a new cut and I hope bigger muscles for next summer :).
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I hope this was interesting for you. If you have questions, dont hesitate. And again, sorry for the length of the post!

I've only just noticed the great power above the nation tab. Has it always been there?

The original post was here:
https://www.reddit.com/sysadmin/comments/13lz9wc/cisco_ucaas_vs_ucm/
I decided to go though that post and delete all my followup comments and summarize everything here.
I'm no longer mad at Cisco I'm more philosophical about it. I can't be mad at a lamprey for being a lamprey, it's just in their nature to survive by providing very little and then continuing to take and take and take, forever. Cisco, sadly, is running hell's bell's to turn into that kind of company, right after Microsoft. Unlike Microsoft, though, Cisco is NOT a monopoly. Monopolies like Microsoft are government regulated and slapped down when they get too greedy. So, they don't do disgusting things like release HARDWARE products that stop functioning if you stop paying monthly subscription fees. (so far, at least) But Cisco, well they haven't been slapped down yet. I'm sure they will sooner or later.
But to work. After further investigation I found that most of the 300+ phones on this system are 6921's 8945's and other variations of the x9xx series of phones. (no 7940's, though, for some reason)
All the x9xx phones are all running Unified IP aka Enterprise firmware. They are running the SCCP variant.
I did find that it is possible to reflash those phones with SIP firmware that Cisco wrote for them. Whether or not doing this is a license violation I don't know. Whether Cisco would give a tinker's damn I don't know. But, that firmware is _not_ Multiplatform firmware, so using it with Cisco's UCaaS is a nonstarter with any of the GUI tools. While it might be possible to roll your own TFTP server and create 300+ individual configuration files, then define "generic" phones in UCaaS that would work, I'll leave that to someone with more time on their hands than I. While I might spend the time for 8945 video phones I certainly won't for 3 display line 6921s As a sidebar, there ARE people who have reflashed 6921's with SIP firmware and gotten them to work with Asterisk. But, even the 3rd party on-premise phone system people (like Sangoma) don't offer support for this, you are totally on your own doing it.
There ARE some of the newer x8xx series phones like the 8845's in the system. These all run Unified/Enterprise firmware not MPP firmware and were NOT sold with MPP firmware. 3rd party phone system vendors (Sangoma, 3CX, etc.) _do_ eagerly offer support for these phones, both the Enterprise ones and the MPP ones. I DON'T know if running a Unified x8xx series phone like an 8945 running Enterprise firmware with a 3rd party on-premise phone system is a license violation or not. The licensing seems to say nothing about this nor does the Cisco documentation, which only says what the Enterprise license is NOT for. And it's apparently not allowable to run an Enterprise licensed phone with a 3rd party Cloud phone system provider. The documentation gladhands running a Unified licensed phone with a 3rd party on premise phone system but I haven't found anything prohibiting it.
Fortunately, however, it does appear Cisco has an "out" It appears that under Flex licensing, if you show up at Cisco's door with a site full of enterprise licensed phones that can run MPP firmware (like 8845's) that you can put everything under Flex subscription and they will let you firmware update your phones to MPP. In "the olden days" under "traditional" licensing you had to pay a fee.
The UCS that the company has is running 10.5 Call Manager. And it has a large number of Basic licenses most of which are used. And an equal number of Enhanced licenses of which around 30 are still unused.
So the way forward is pretty clear for them.
They will buy 6920's off the used market until all Basic licenses on the UCS are used up
They will buy 8845's off the used market running Unified firmware until all Enhanced licenses on the UCS are used up.
They will shut down Cisco Jabber since Jabber is sucking up some of the Enhanced licenses to free those for desk phones. Jabber will be replaced with an ejabberd server and pidgin and deployed to all desktops instead of a minority. Whether it ends up that softphones on the PC desktop outpace the hardware desktop phones, who knows. Maybe it will maybe it won't. Jabber / IM is not mission critical for them. Webex is - but Webex has always been flex licensed and every other video conferencing app in the market is as well. Including Microsoft Teams.
This should keep them going for another 3-4 years at the current rate of extension growth.
When the UCS is full, at that time the option will be to preserve the x8xx phones by reflashing to MPP and going to UCaaS or dumping Cisco and it's ridiculous and expensive licensing scheme and going to Polycom desktop phones with a complete software phone system on an on-premise server. Or, if enough people have migrated over to an XMPP client - many of the free XMPP clients are beginning to include SIP phones in them - then dumping desk phones and going 100% soft phones, or going to 3rd party on premise PBX. Or, going to cloud calling with another provider who does not feel they have the right to charge a monthly subscription on hardware you have purchased like Cisco does.
The bright spot in all of this is that Cisco x8xx Unified phones are dirt cheap on the secondary market and likely to get cheaper as more organizations outgrow UCS's and their systems are broken up and sold on the used market. So there is that.
Of course, I would like to dream that SOMEONE from Cisco reads this and realizes that they do have competition and can't just charge ridiculous amounts. Bah ha ha ha ha!! I'm a funny guy!
But the key to all of this seems to be to acknowledge that the IT Director who bought into the Cisco ecosystem made a mistake. Even back during the heyday of the SCCP phones, SIP was around and Cisco was selling those models of phones with SIP firmware on them. The wise thing to futureproof the enterprise would have been to make a commitment to open network standards, and look under the covers and pay attention to what protocol your phones were speaking with each other. Then insist on all Cisco phones brought into the building be running SIP firmware and the UCS be configured to run them on SIP. Then when the x9xx series of phones was replaced by the x8xx series of phones, buy MPP variants. That would have preserved the option to replace the UCS with another vendor's on premise PBX.
But, I also realize that phone systems have had a LONG history of making things proprietary. Back in "the olden days" phones did run POTS. And for many years some vendors like Mitel did produce PBXes (mainly for the hotel trade) that would run POTS phones. But the phone system manufacturers have always hated the Carterphone decision and constantly worked to undermine it with their digital phone standards and so on. And despite VoIP and SIP standards, they are still at that old game.

"Would you like to have a near-death experience? By crossing the boundary between life and death."

Yukari Yakumo

Themes:

• Necrofantasia:
  
• Night Falls ~ Evening Star: 7.5, 10.5, 15.5
  
• Yorimashi Between Dreams and Reality ~ Necro-Fantasia
  

Yukari Yakumo is a legendary youkai with the ability to manipulate boundaries. She is one of the sages who created Gensokyo in the first place, and a good contender for its most powerful resident. Despite this she is also exceptionally lazy, spending most of her time sleeping and foisting most of the problems off on Reimu or Ran. Still, her incredible intelligence and completely inhuman nature means one can never tell quite what she's thinking, and making her angry is a very bad idea.

Notes

• Source Index
  
• Perfect Memento in Strict Sense and Symposium of Post Mysticism is an in universe book written by Hidea no Akyuu. She has a tendency to exaggerate and speculate, so her claims should be taken with a grain of salt.
  
• Yukari herself is noted to lie quite a lot, so her own claims should also be taken with a grain of salt.
  
• In 15.5 Yukari makes use of the urban legend Teke Teke, but her attacks while using this urban legend are fairly in line with her normal capabilities. As it's unclear what effect the Urban legend is having, these feats will be included in this section but marked with Occult
  
• Yukari scales to a large number of characters, so here is every Touhou respect thread for the games
  

Defining Some Terms

Spell Card System: The Spell Card Rules were put in place by Reimu Hakurei in order to make duels between everyone fair, formalized, and safe. It is also the method nearly all Touhou characters will use in-character. Spell card battles have very clearly defined rules and attacks that are agreed upon before a duel with the purpose being that the most beautiful attacks win. In general Spell Cards are characters going easy on the foe, with ZUN outright stating they're not something the characters would ever use if they were serious.

• Given the original rules of spell card battles and a characters being introduced to the spell card system stating it would prevent useless bloodshed, there is at least a decent amount of implication that Spell Card battles are inherently non-lethal.

Danmaku: Danmaku are the "bullets" fired in a bullet hell, take many different forms, and are able to be fired by most Gensokyo citizens. They're an essential part of duels in Gensokyo, being used to control an opponent's movement and overwhelm them. They can either be fired in intricate patterns, or just fired rapidly from a single point.

• Danmaku is intentionally not efficient or effective for serious combat
  
• Danmaku in general can be lethal to normal humans
  
• Danmaku from major characters is very consistently able to break rock
  
  • Seija is considered notably weak
  • Sanae is considered nothing special as far as humans in Gensokyo are concerned

Youkai: Supernatural beings typically born from humanity's fear of the unknown, and the primary residents of Gensokyo. Youkai can be highly varied, but tend to be highly resistant to physical attacks while far more weak to spiritual attacks, such as names and traditions.
Gensokyo: Genoskyo is the region Touhou takes place in, and is a small landlocked region of Japan. It is fully enclosed by the Great Hakurei Barrier (more information bellow). The clearest picture of it shows it containing a few mountains, with it also being noted Gensokyo is small enough to see almost all of it from the Hakurei shrine

• The Sages of Genoskyo (of which Yukari is a member) are the beings responsible for the creation and maintenance of Gensokyo

Urban Legend Incident: Due to the occult balls various Urban Legends begin to manifest in Gensokyo, and some characters are capable of controlling an urban legend in battle that matches their tempermant. It's worth noting that the effects are present even after the occult balls are removed from Gensokyo though Reisen notes it will soon settle down.

Boundary Manipulation

General Description: Summarized, Yukari's power allows her to manipulate the boundary between any two things.This can apply both to physical boundaries (such as between Gensokyo and the outside world), or even the boundary of concepts (such as human and youkai or night and day).

• Both her profile and she herself state that she can manipulate the boundary between any and all things
  
• An official magazine says her power can affect anything, and that for narrative purposes she has to limit herself to the spell card rule or it wouldn't even be a game
  
• The manual states the danger and potency of her power is beyond imagination
  
• Akyuu states that her power fundamentally undermines reality. She states that it can create new existence and reject existence, is the most powerful ability held by any youkai. Additionally she states it can be applied to pictures, peoples dreams, and even stories
  

Direct Combat Usage

• Feats/Statements
  
  • Being able to draw boundary lines along surfaces means there is nothing she can not split in two
    • Sumreiko comments on her seemingly cutting space, with opening gaps in space also being her main method of transportation (see below)
  • Her barriers can destroy large amounts of enemy danmaku and damage her foes
  • Creates a large boundary around the entirety of Suika's mist form, and then suddenly makes it much smaller to force her back into her physical form.
    • Suika's mist form covered all of Gensokyo
• General
  
  • Uses a barrier to block enemy danmaku and strikes
  • Creates a boundary line with her strikes to hit her foe
  • A fan granting her powers is able to crash through all obligations, directly hitting a foe while they're guarding
• Skills
  
  • Boundary of Intellect and Feet: Runs a straight boundary to split her foe
  • Universe of Matter and Antimatter: Creates two gaps that do nothing on their own, but when they collide they create a huge distortion attack
• Spell Cards
  
  • Border Sign "Quadruple Barrier": Creates several overlapping boundaries to produce a barrier that can strike foes
  • Sign I "Quadruple Barrier": Another version of the above spell card
  • Barrier "Charming Quadruple Barrier": A larger version of quadruple barrier that sucks the foe in
  • Boundary "Quadruple Barrier of the Imperishable Night": Creates a larger quadruple barrier to protect herself and attack her enemy
  • Border Sign "Boundary of 2D and 3D": Creates a boundary that travels along the screen edge and changes directions to follow the movements of the screen
  • Barrier "Objective Barrier": Fires off four linked borders that travel along the edges of the screen
• Last Word
  
  • [Occult] Lend Me Those Beautiful Legs!: Locks her foe in place with boundary lines and then uses a gap to split them in two before putting them back together

Gaps and Warping

• Feats/Statements
  
  • General
    • Able to travel to entirely different locations by opening up gaps in space, with (according to Akyuu) it being said that this can also access pictures, dreams, and even stories
    • Can open gaps in thin air
    • Opens up a large gap, and is gone when it clears away
    • Repositions a gap to use as a seat
    • Spiriting away Kosuzu doesn't leave a single trail any other youkai can follow to locate her, not even leaving a trace of her soul behind
  • Travel/Range
    
    • Uses gaps in space as her main means of transportation, with her warping around Gensokyo, up youkai mountain, and even to and from heaven (though how direct these trips are isn't clear given how the time of day changes)
    • Reimu states Yukari can travel anywhere she wants to in a flash
    • Is able to freely travel past the Great Hakurei Barrier into the outside world, and pulls Rinnosuke back into Gensokyo after he's accidentally pulled into the outside world
      • Casually travels out of Gensokyo to see cherry blossoms
      • Comments to Mamizou about what's currently going on in Sado
      • Sends Sumireko and dream Sumireko from Gensokyo to the outside world
    • Off screen travels overseas and brings back a Hobgoblin, which she states are a Western creature
    • Instantly sends Marisa from the Hakurei shrine to the forest of magic
    • Easily travels to the netherworld (though in Gensokyo the netherworld is a location you can physically travel to
      • Summons Ran and Chen to her while within the netherworld
    • Suddenly goes from behind Luna to in front of her
    • Disappears to somewhere... literally
    • Placed a gap in a doorway so that Flandre traveled from the Scarlet Devil mansion to deep underground without even realizing she had done so
    • Pulls Sumireko out of the dream world (though Doremy implies this isn't something she's supposed to do normally)
      • Reimu refers to the dream world as another reality that is two sides of the same coin with the real world
      • Is often lurking in the dream world
  • Utility
    
    • Claims to have an undending supply of electricity, kerosene, and nitroglycerin, and fills up Rinnosuke's heater with fuel while having a conversation with him, without him even realizing she had done anything
    • Covertly drops money into the shrine's donation box while having a conversation with Reimu
    • Puts a hand through a gap to block a hammer and grab a gameboy
    • Makes food disappear from right out from under Reimu's nose
    • Summons other characters like Reimu or Chen
    • Reimu implies Yukari can send just some body parts through the Great Hakurei Barrier
    • Left her arm dangling through a gap while asleep, and then puts her hand through another gap to douse a candle
    • Hid some of her own energy inside of a gap to revive herself after having all of her magical energy drained by Mizuchi's possession. Though she states it will soon run out and she needs to rest after. Also sticks her hands through gaps to grab cookies and wave at Reimu independently of her body
• General
  
  • Warps from one side of the screen to the other and grants Reimu the ability to do the same
  • Vanishes to dodge a spell card
  • Leans back into a gap while firing projectiles
  • Sticks her arm into a gap to strike her foe with an umbrella from another location
  • Drops into a gap and then appears in midair
  • After being knocked to the ground, creates a gap below and above her to redirect back to standing up
  • Opens a gap through which several pieces of wood fly out at her foe
  • Spawns street signs to attack her foe
  • Opens gaps through which rapid fire danmaku and lasers fire out
  • Summons a monstrous arm out of her gap to grab or strike her foe
• Skills
  
  • Rest on Stone, Rinse in Rivers: Opens up a hole that swallows up projectiles and stores them
  • Rinse with Stone, Rest in Rivers: Fires off stored projectiles
  • Chimera's Wings: Places a gap that she can then warp back to.
  • Fantasy Maniacal Rift: Disappears into a gap and keeps moving, before coming out to strike her foe
  • Flesh Dismantler: Drops down into a gap before leaping out while spinning her umbrella
  • Urashima's Box, Filled With Lament: Opens a gap in the sky to drop debris on her foe
  • Home is Where One Lays to Rest: Hits her foe with several pieces of wood
  • [Occult] World's Most Agile Torso: Uses a gap to send her upper body forward to attack her foe while her lower body remains in place
• Spell Cards
  
  • Evil Spirits "Yukari Yakumo's Spiriting Away": Repeatedly teleports around while firing off danmaku
  • "Boundary of Humans and Youkai": Vanishes entirely and attacks the foe with danmaku patterns while not physically present
  • Splitter "Thing That Splits All Into Two": Repeatedly jumps in and out of and moves through gaps while spinning her umbrella
  • Fantasy Nest "Flying Noctilucae's Nest": Opens up several gaps that fire danmaku forwards, always in the direction of the foe
  • Boundary "Overflowing Flotsam": Sends several pieces of wood flying at her foe
  • Abandoned Line "Aimless Journey to the Abandoned Station": Opens a gap through which an abandoned train comes from, though (in gameplay at least) it takes time to open the gap
  • "Unmanned Abandoned Railroad Car Bomb": Summons three train cars that fly into her foe before exploding

Great Hakurei Barrier

• The Barrier Itself
  
  • Feats/Statements
    • The Great Hakurei Barrier is a barrier of sense that surrounds all of Gensokyo, and keeps living creatures and their tools from passing through while allowing non-living things to pass through without issue. Via non-Euclidian space a person attempting to pass through the barrier will find themselves wandering endlessly, and they will find themselves back where they started upon turning around.
    • Even when Reimu and Marisa traveled to the moon they never left the barrier, and they consider getting through the barrier to be harder than going to the moon
    • Gensokyo is designed to be the opposite of the outside world, and things that contradict that concept cannot pass through the barrier
    • Akyuu states the barrier is a barrier of common sense and keeps the outside world's common sense outside, and that it's composed of multiple smaller barriers, but that it periodically weakens every 60 years
    • There is at least some difference in the seasons between Gensokyo and the outside world
    • Sumireko was unable to fully penetrate the barrier from the outside
  • Limits
    • Non-living things and certain creatures are able to pass through the barrier more easily
    • It's noted Remilia's scarlet mist would have spread past the boundary into the human world
    • Objects that violated common sense from the outside world being used on the barrier would threaten its very existence
• Manipulation
  
  • Yukari was one of the sages to suggest the creation of the Great Hakurei Barrier, though whether she's the actual creator is unclear. Reimu refers to her as the original creator but Yuyuko thinks the barrier is too strong for Yukari to make
  • States that she has torn holes in the barrier
  • Creates a powerful distortion in the barrier
  • Repairs the barrier after Reimu does something to weaken it
  • Whenever a human from the outside world wanders into Gensokyo, it's because of fluctuations in the barrier caused by her

Gensokyo's Boundary of Reality and Illusion

• General
  
  • Created a boundary of illusion and reality around Gensokyo, defining Gensokyo as illusionary and the outside world as real, so anything that becomes viewed as fantasy is pulled into Gensokyo, even from outside Japan. This was performed 500 years ago and still going strong.
  • Yukari seems to have at least some amount of awareness of those who enter and leave Gensokyo through this method
• Living Things
  
  • A snake wakes up in Gensokyo as soon as he transforms into a youkai, with Mamizou stating that when you turn into a youkai you wind up in Gensokyo. Said snake is potentially originally from India
  • When there's a demand for Zashiki-Warashi in the outside world they start vanishing from Gensokyo, and later return when that demand fades
  • New youkai created in the outside world immediately appear in Gensokyo as well, but due to not having a clear form they disappear just a quickly
  • Rinnosuke notes that Gensokyo is rather multicultural, as youkai brought with them foreign cultures as they were pulled into Gensokyo
  • A real life human shows up in Gensokyo after becoming a god
  • Animals that become endangered or extinct (at least in Japan) are more prevalent in Gensokyo
  • A completely ordinary seal winds up in Gensokyo after being forgotten while a youkai well integrated in human society could remain in the outside world
• Nonliving
  
  • Items that fall out of use in the outside world wind up in Gensokyo
  • People doubting or forgetting the moon landing is enough to cause several magazines about it to appear in Gensokyo as well as the Soyuz spacecraft
  • Lyrica implies that instruments and even noises can fall into fantasy
• Buildings
  
  • The Scarlet Devil Mansion is a western style mansion housing multiple powerful youkai that is assumed to have arrived in Gensokyo fairly recently, with Akyuu also noting that it seemingly wasn't designed for Japanese climates
  • Another western style mansion housing the Prismriver sister also exists in Gensokyo
  • Unused radio towers occasionally appear in Gensokyo
  • After Miko is forgotten by the outside world, her entire mausoleum arrives in Gensokyo
• Large Scale
  
  • Due to Kanako making it fall into fantasy the Moriya shrine and the nearby lake move to Gensokyo
  • According to legend the Bamboo Forest of the Lost appeared in Gensokyo after being washed away by a tsunami
  • It's thought (according to Keine) that Youkai Mountain in Gensokyo is the original mythical form Yatsugatake, before it had been torn down by a god, back when it was taller than Mt. Fuji

Misc

• Boundary of Reality and Illusion - Moon
  
  • Erases the boundary between the real and illusionary moon, turning a reflection of the moon in the water into a portal to the moon itself that allows for instantaneous travel
  • Can return to Earth by doing the same thing to a reflection of the Earth
  • Leaves the portal open by shoving an umbrella into it
  • The Watatsuki sisters state she can freely travel between the Earth and moon, and that she once brought a throng of youkai to the moon with her
  • Implies this can only be performed when the moon is completely full, and that she was trapped on the moon when the full waned more quickly than expected
• Netherworld
  
  • Weakened the barrier between Gensokyo and the Netherworld so Yuyuko could more easily enter Gensokyo. She is also responsible for its repair
    • The Netherworld's barrier weakening causes the boundary between life and death to become vague, with Youmu wondering if it's okay to leave the boundary between this world an the next so ambiguous, though Youmu also notes it hasn't changed up the natural order too much
  • States that she caused the borders between Hell and the Netherworld to fade
    • Both the Netherworld and Hell are massive, but it's not clear to what extent she actually merged them
• Lunar Capital
  
  • Breaks through the barrier of the lunar capital, but it takes her a while due to the complexity
    • This barrier separates the living fantastical moon from the scientific dead one, and requires a specific route in order to reach the capital
  • Opens a whole in the barrier hiding the house of the Lunar sage with her thumb, and leaves her glove in the gap so that Yuyuko and Youmu can later use it to enter the Lunar Captial
• Misc Conceptual
  
  • States she can manipulate the boundary between Gensokyo and the outside world, the worlds of the living and the dead, human and youkai, or even day and night
  • Claims she can give the immortal Mokou a near death experience by manipulating the boundary of life and death
  • States she thinned the barrier between human and youkai, possibly making Reimu a youkai temporarily
    • States she could set the boundary between human and youkai for Mai and Satano to make them one or the other
  • Manipulates the boundary between daylight and moonlight to cause both to happen at the same time
  • Makes the moon as bright as daytime by manipulating the boundary between day and night
  • Marisa speculates that Yukari manipulated the border between danmaku for play and danmaku for combat for one of her attacks
  • States she can easily manipulate the boundary between spring and winter
  • States she causes noctambulism (sleep walking) in humans by manipulating the boundary between asleep and awake
  • Manipulates the boundary of master and slave, causing both teams using perfect possession to swap said roles
    • Doing this required interfering with the dream world

Other Abilities

Note that a number of feats here potentially involve boundary manipulation, but it's less explicit
Energy Projection

• Feats
  
  • Individual needles can break rock, and destroy a large boulder with sustained fire
  • Effortlessly defeats the three fairies of light, throwing out projectiles made of light and non-light
  • Marisa considers Yukari's danmaku harder to deal with than Yuyuko's
  • Surrounds herself with rings of danmaku
• General
  
  • Fires out large amounts of danmaku in various patterns
  • Fires off danmaku in front of her with a swing of her fan
  • Attacks with lines of energy
  • Fires off several orbs trailed by lines of energy
  • Creates spirals of energy around her body
  • Using a bomb, unleashes a pulse of energy that knocks back her foe
• Skills
  
  • Purple Needles of Painful Reproach: Rapid fires needles in front of her
  • Bewitching Bait: Creates a bird's eye that high speed projectiles then fly through at random paths
  • Spacetime Seam: Creates a pulse of energy projectiles in all directions around her, possibly by cracking space
• Spell Cards
  
  • Standard Danmaku Pattern
    • Barrier "Curse of Dreams and Reality"
    • Barrier "Balance of Motion and Stillness"
    • Barrier "Mesh of Light and Darkness"
    • Evil Spirits "Dreamland of Straight and Curve"
    • Evil Spirits "Bewitching Butterfly Living in the Zen Temple"
    • Sinister Spirits "Double Black Death Butterfly"
    • Barrier "Boundary of Life and Death"
    • Yukari's Arcanum "Danmaku Barrier"
    • Outer Force "Infinite Superspeed Flying Object"
    • Border Sign "Boundary of Form and Emptiness"
    • Border Sign "Boundary of Wave and Particle"
    • Photon "Doppler Effect"
    • Aerial Bait "Hyperactive High Speed Flying Object"
    • "Yakumo's Nest"
    • "Impossible Danmaku Barrier"
    • "Casebook of Luck, Resilience and Perseverance"
  • Combo Attack with Others
    • "Perfect Possession and Dream Seal": With Reimu
    • "Boundary of Spirit Medium and Divine Spirit": With Reimu
    • "Secret God Barrier": With Okina
    • "Shoot the Danmaku Barrier!": With Marisa
    • "Unauthorized Danmaku Photography is Strictly Prohibited": With Reimu
    • Paper Sign "Barrier-Enclosed Zener Card Shuriken": With Sumireko
  • Misc
    • Aerial Bait "Addictive Bait": Opens several locations through which high speed projectiles travel from
    • Fantasy "Perpetual Motion Machine of the First Kind": Creates a perpetual motion device that automatically fires danmaku without her input
    • Spirit Medium's Melancholy: Fires off danmaku that only hits one part of a perfect possession duo
• Last Word
  
  • "Profound Danmaku Barrier -Phantasm, Foam and Shadow-": Creates an everlasting bullet pattern with her finger deciding its life and death

Shikigami: Shikigami are spirits that have been turned into tools via a patter, that have software installed to control them

• Feats/Statmenents
  
  • Has the ability to control shikigami, which like computers will follower her commands exactly. Her primary shikigami is Ran, who herself has her own shikigami Chen
  • Has shikigami possess various crows which she uses for scouting
    • A crow rapidly flies over large swaths of the lunar surface in what is implied to be a short span of time. Its flight is also described as unnaturally straight, with it following the special path required to reach the Lunar Capital with computer-like accuracy
    • [Limit] A crow is killed by being possessed exposed to the vacuum of space
  • Has eyes all over Gensokyo... literally, with this eyes noted to be her familiars
• Skills
  
  • "Apparotation Needle": Has Ran chase after he foes while firing off danmaku
  • Eyes that View Change: Opens a gap holding an eye, which attacks the enemy when it sees a weakpoint based on specific programming
• Spell Cards
  
  • Summoning Rand and or Chen to attack enemies
    • Shikigami "Ran Yakumo"
    • Sign III "Ran Yakumo"
    • Shikigami "Ran Yakumo +"
    • Shikigami "Chen"
    • Shikigami "Ran Yakumo & Chen":
  • Other
    • Magic Eye "Laplace's Demon": Opens up several gaps holding eyes which attack when they see an exploitable weak point

Umbrella

• General
  
  • Hits her foe by spinning her umbrella
  • Creates spirals of energy around her umbrella
• Skills
  
  • Bewitching Butterfly Lurking in the Zen Temple: Envelopes her umbrella in energy and spins it while slamming into her foe
  • Fantasy Manji-Parasol: Gathers spiritual energy on her umbrella, then spins and fires it off as a projectile
  • Full Moon Umbrella: Creates a ring of energy around herself with a swing of her umbrella
• Spell Cards
  
  • Sign II "Manji-Parasol of Yakumo"

Senses

• Sees the human village despite Keine attempting to hide it by trying to make it appear that nothing had ever been there by eating its history
  
• Youkai can see perfectly by moonlight
  
• Claims to see the backside of the moon bathed with sunlight, even during a new moon
  
• Detects that a tree is from the outside world
  
• Eavesdrops on Sakuya's conversation while not physically present, and speaks to Reisen before warping to the location
  
• Claims to clearly see the launch of the Scarlet Devil Mansion's rocket from a ways away
  
• Senses Eiki's presence
  
• Senses the weakening of the Great Hakurei Barrier while presumably asleep
  
• Realizes the Shinmyoumaru in front of her isn't the normal one
  
• Sees the outside world beyond the Great Hakurei Barrier
  
• Sees the flow of energy from living things and helps Youmu to understand it
  
• Able to see the god that Utsuho had absorbed the power of
  

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We just celebrated our 7 year anniversary and he had proposed about 8 months ago. We were planning on buying a house so we had moved into his parents house a few weeks after the engagement to save up and because our rental property lease was up. A couple months after that he had just started a new job in the city and that's when cracks stated to show. We were commuting in together but because his parents lived a little far out we were losing a lot of sleep with these commutes and not only that, he started to lose a lot more patience I think just being around his parents all the time - I think he felt like he had lost a lot of his independence. The purchase of the house was also taking a lot longer than we expected which was also taking a toll on the both of us because we just really wanted to move to get our lives back. We spoke about and it was difficult for the both of us but we were kind of struggling together so I was never truly worried that we were going to break up. We did start to fight a little more but we always figured things out and still wanted to just focus on the future. But then about 4/5 months into his new job he tells me that he has a crush at someone at work and that there was a conversation where they were discussing who they would sleep with in the office and they both said each other. I was a little taken aback but he assured me that there was nothing to worry about and as we both had dealt with crushes before I wasn't too worried. But then more started to happen with this girl. She was in a long term relationship too which put me at ease but there was one night that he stayed over at hers after a work do because it would have been difficult for him to get home (I didn't have an issue because I trusted him) and after that night she was apparently super cold and mean to him. He was DISTRAUGHT I had never seen him this upset about the "potential loss of a friend" and so I had to talk to him a lot to help him through this as I thought it was just his anxiety getting the better of him. But then she came to him apologising for the coldness and basically told him that it had "messed with her head" the night he stayed over so then, the first betrayal, he told her that he also felt the same way but wanted to keep things as they were at work. He didn't properly close the door on her until after we had discussed it ourselves which really hurt because he couldn't even see why he was playing with fire. I didn't tell him to cut contact or anything, I was actually trying to help him figure out how he could still be friends with her without it becoming anything more. But then after he closed the door on her saying that he didn't want anything to happen between them, they ended up getting closer at work and his feelings started to develop. During this time we were trying to plan the wedding, we were sorting out the invites and were hoping to send them off within a month or so. But whenever we sat down to sort out the wedding he would get super stressed and so I asked him what was going on and he said he was starting to have doubts and he was worried about his feelings for this girl. These conversations about doubts etc went on for a few weeks but I always tried to reassure him that doubts were normal and that actually I had had most of the thoughts that he was having and I had come through the other side. I had also had a crush at someone at work which highlighted to me some aspects that I didn't like about our relationship but then we/I worked through them and I thought we were in a much better place. I told him about my crush at the time but didn't tell him to the full extent about my doubts of the relationship because I have anxiety so didn't want to talk about them until I was sure because I didn't want to ruin what we had. But then I had come out the other side and was super happy with my choice so I was trying to tell him that he just needs to make a conscious choice about who he wants (I was presuming he still wanted me) and then set the appropriate boundary with this new girl so that he can still be friends but we would be committed to each other. We had lots of conversations about how love was a choice and that commitment was a choice and we usually ended those conversations saying that we ofc want to still be together and that he was choosing us and me. And I believed him - I always asked him to be totally honest even if it was difficult to say so that it wouldn't eat him up and I always gave him the space to not judge his true feelings etc so yes I believed him. But then about a week ago he comes home after a night out where he had gone to dinner with this girl and another friend from work and just tells me that he doesn't think he can marry me anymore. It turned out that she was still super into him and had left her boyfriend (who was supposedly abusive so probably for the best) but wanted to be my fiancé. And he told her that basically he was confused but has feelings for her too. And then they shared an intimate moment of holding hands as if they were a couple.
This was all devastating to hear but the only thing I needed to know was what did he want - me or her. And thus began the longest week of my life. He couldn't choose between us and kept making up his mind back and forth which was so painful because every time he would say he wants us to get back to where we were he just seemed so distant and was basically thinking of her the whole time. We had a weekend away planned together so we thought it was a good idea to go on that to salvage our relationship but he was still in turmoil about his decision I was just in tears the entire time we were there. So we get back home and he finally says that he chooses me 100% and that he's going to work on us to get us back but I could see it in his eyes and the almost resentment he had towards me that he still didn't know what he wanted. So we decided to give each other space for a few days so he could stop being distracted and start to focus on us. After no contact for 2/3 days he says that he's found his truth and comes to me and says that he's not leaving me for her but he's leaving me because he doesn't see a future with me anymore. He says that he feels that we had everything he wanted but that there was something missing but nothing he could tangibly tell me of and that he's been putting off these thoughts/doubts for a long time even before the proposal.
So now I feel so lost and broken because in my mind we were a team we always tackled everything together and I still don't understand how he was sure enough to propose to me 8 months ago and saw the life he wanted with me but now absolutely nothing. I refuse to believe that this girl had nothing to do with it because despite him saying that he's not leaving me for her, he had reinitiated contact with her over the week where we were giving each other space, and just 24 hours after we broke up when I went back to his parents house to start packing up, he leaves the house and spends about 5 hours with the new girl. He said that it was none of my business because we had broken up but it just felt like he threw me away so easily and had no respect left for the relationship we had. He said that he still loves and cares for me and that he was very ashamed of how this all turned out because he told me that I had done nothing wrong but he just seems like a completely different person to me now. I can't see the person I fell in love with anymore and it breaks my heart. He also said that he still wants to be friends in the future after a long period of no contact so we can move on from each other but I don't think I can just from how much he has hurt me and how quickly it feels that he threw me away and the 7 years we were together. I think he is definitely going to regret his decision of leaving me but I think with the damage done and how clearly he says he is thinking I don't think it will be any time soon enough to ever make it work between us again. I am in so much pain and hurt and he says he is too but i still don't think I have properly processed everything that's happened because I was so happy with us just 2 weeks ago. Maybe I was being delusional too but I just still can't believe that we were planning our lives together and now it's just gone. I needed to post this because I don't know how he can just switch like this - I need to know why he did this because I don't understand if he loves me why he wouldn't want to fight for us through either taking a step back from the relationship or through couples therapy.
I think we did get together too young (we were both 19) and so I think we didn't learn what kind of life we individually wanted so I think he feels lost because of that and the stress of commitment brought out a lot more of these doubts. But then I still don't know why he proposed when I didn't ask at all for it and he was also the one keen to buy a place together. I suggested that maybe we should live separately for a while and just go back to dating so we could figure out how we actually wanted to live our lives (together and separately) but he said that his heart just wasn't in it anymore. Because of how quickly I feel this all happened I honestly refuse to believe that he's not leaving me for her but he's just not seeing it himself yet. But I guess it doesn't matter anymore because I don't think he ever wants to get the life we planned together back.
TLDR - My fiancé breaks up with me 8 months after proposing saying that he doesn't see a future with me anymore. During those 8 months we were living at his parents, trying to plan the wedding, trying to buy a place and he developed a crush at work. He says he still loves me but there's something missing and insists that he's not leaving me for her but I don't see how it could be any other way. Why did he do this is, is he just that delusional? Do you think he'll ever realise the mistake he made and how much he hurt me?