I was actually dating this guy for like almost 2 and half years and my first exception with him was marriage and i really loved him, so i have been patiently waiting for him to actually marry me until quiet recently. We had a lot of issues that not just me and my friends as well thought of as red flags, we had communication issues, he used to always out with his friends, all nice tbh. I tried stopping him but he never really cared honestly always would be like..I'll do it after a month or something and he would continue in Ramadan too. He started lying to me about talking to other girls, he used to tell me that after weeks of talking to them and he would say that he is sorry he wasn't talking to his first but this specific girl, even if i emotionally needed him cuz some family passed away or something he would neber be there. All our conversations would end in arguments and constant bickering. He stopped being Islamic like he used to be, he stopped encouraging me and i stopped feeling happy and good about this connection it was like i was just there with him so i don't leave him alone and hurt him. But i felt trapped and a marriage alliance came up and at that point, he is 24 so i asked him to bring his family to fix our marriage but he started saying that his family isn't agreeing and i did an istiqara.. after the istiqara his family kept disagreeing and my mom suddenly went against it and then i stopped feeling anything and i was like i just need to let this go and let him go. And i ended things for good but now he keeps bothering me, it's been a month, he is threatening me, that he will ruin my life and is cursing me and he says that God will never forgive and that i ruined his life but everything was so toxic honestly speaking. He hasn't settled and now he says that he wants to get back sometimes and sometimes he says there is nothing anyways good about me, and tells all rude things and swears at me and says he doesn't want me anyways. He just wants to talk until he feels like he can move on. Idk what to do..i didn't hurt him, i just did my istiqara and closed this door which i was afraid to regardless of me being the one getting hurt. Please guide me through this.

I am currently trying to catch up because I neglected allot of the new systems over the years and just kept playing with what I had.
One thing of such is kuva lich and sister of pavos hunting. Allthough I enjoyed it at first it gets rather tiresome especially when you have killed 10 sisters and 10 liches and none of them had a ephemra. The chance to get one is 20% and I expect atleast 1 out of 5 to atleast have one. I would also be cool for it being 1 out of 10 but I killed 10 and none had one thats just not a rewarding cycle.
I dont mind refreshing the "encounter" for the weapon I want 100 times as its rather fast but having to go through a cycle of none ephemra sister 10 times is a bit discouraging especially when you hit the point of having to refarm reqium mods.
I dont even want all right now I just want to get my hands on the toxin sister of pavos one for my Vauban and the electro one for Volt and Gyre ^^
A pity system would help out that with each kill the chance of that lich or sister having a ephemra increases by 20% (as the base chance is 20%) and so you definetly get 1 out of 5 liches/sisters and after you got an ephemra this would reset back to 20%

I had the opportunity to test the two devices side by side, so i wanted to share my thoughts. I paid 90 Euros more for the Xiaomi (850 vs 940 Eur).
Display (Honor): I like the Honor display more. It looks more edge to edge and is nicer to look at probably because of the very high PWM. Both are great displays, xiaomi is more narrow, so it's easier to work with one hand. However it's easier to type on Honor.
Battery life (Honor): Honor has a slightly lower resolution, bigger battery and runs less hot (more throttling probably) and lasts quite a bit longer. Both are pretty good, but Honor is great. Probably gets like 1-2 hours more SoT.
Speakers (Xiaomi): I just like the speakers on Xiaomi more. They have more bass and depth. Also one of them is firing forward. On Honor both of them fire sideways and that's not optimal.
Cameras (Xiaomi): This is my focus, so i spend a bit more time on that topic.
Cameras general: In general Honor has capable HW that is let down by weak software and processing. There are also not many settings to adjust the picture and filters are reset when you restart the app. Problems with processing - too vivid colors (not always), but specifically green and red pops too much. Heavy (and i mean HEAVY) noise reduction - Honor doesn't allow any noise to be in the picture (probably good for DxO mark score), so prepare for the water paining effect. Xiaomi's processing is pretty mature. Colors in Leica authentic mode are true to life and Leice vivid is vivid in a very sensitive manner.
Selfie camera (Honor): Honor's selfie camera is just much better quality. It's super wide, nice and crisp, has 4k and 3d face unlock. There's no competition here. Xiaomi's is like a mid range phone.
Main camera (Xiaomi): Honor has a stronger background blur (faster aperture). HW wise they're on par, but Honor's consistency is bad. The motion capture on Honor I consider a gimmick. It only captures some very clean action like jumping. It didn't capture 80% of what I tried. Xiaomi's focus and shutter is super fast. I've never had phone that can capture action like Xiaomi. It catches faces, eyes, movement almost like a Sony camera. Xiaomi however has a bit weaker HDR (it's better in Vivid profile) and much worse portrait mode cutouts. But I think the most important think is to actually capture the moment.
Telephoto (Honor): I really like Honor's tele camera. It has a bit more reach and therefore better compression and better natural background blur. The 10x digital zoom is also better, but both are pretty mediocre in this regard. I have to repeat again that Honor is inconsistent. When it hits, it's one of the best photos on a phone zoom camera, but you have to be lucky. Xiaomi has also the superior focus on the tele. Similarly fast like the main cam. Also colors are more consistent across the lenses on Xiaomi.
Ultrawide (Tie): This is the smallest sensor on Honor, which you see right away. Xiaomi uses the same JN1 as the zoom, so it's pretty consistent. I would say they are on par in terms of quality. Not the best on the market. Bettery than let's say S22/23, but worse than vivo x80 pro, x90 pro plus or S23 Ultra.
Software (Xiaomi): Look, both Xiaomi and Honor are know for mediocre software, so the winner is like "one eyed among blind". I lean toward Xiaomi. Much more customizable, better security and I had the latest security patch (on Honor it was 2 months behind).
Anything else you can probably look up. As for performance, they're both 8 Gen 2, so day to day task differences will be marginal. If you game....check out some throttling tests.
Overall I'll stay with Xiaomi, but Honor is pretty damn close. If camera is not your number 1 priority, you will most probably get the Honor cheaper, which makes it basically the price/performance winner.

The Sherriff and a Deputy were riding through the country one day when they pass the Old McMackson farm. The deputy notices that farmer Old McMackson is using a fertilizer banned by local ordinance. They pull up to the farm, but by the time they get there, they realize Old McMackson has put away his fertilizer bags. The sheriff asks if they can look inside his shed. Now Old McMackson knows his rights, but also likes to have fun. He tells the Sherriff they can look all they like, if they bring him 3 badgers.
This seems strange to the officers, but it's easier than getting a warrant. They drive around, and after about three hours, they find some badgers. The deputy gets out to chase some. Now badgers are harder to catch than most people realize, but eventually the deputy wins the struggle. He gets the Mustelidaes in the patrol car. Now what they notice until than is how bad these badgers smells. Even with the windows down it's awful. Eventually the sheriff can take it anymore, so he lets the badgers out.
The officers return to the farm, and Old McMackson is waiting for them expectantly. The Sheriff walks past him, and kicks open the shed door.
Old McMackson angrily says "We had a deal! Where are my badgers?"
The Sherriff looks back, and replies "Badgers? We don't need no stickin' badgers!"

I have been dating this guy (let's call him G.) for some months, things are getting serious and I really really like him. At this point I don't know if I should tell him that I went on two dates with one of his friend. Nothing happened between us two, we didn't even kissed as I realized I didn't like him and stopped seeing him. Also, while I was tipsy at a party another friend of him came up to me and started kissing me, I kinda liked him so I didn't back up but we haven't met / talked after that. I also want to highlight that these things happened some months before I met G and I would have never went on those dates nor kissed his friend if I had already met G, because I would have been interested in him only. I feel so bad cause I look like an easy girl but I'm not, it was the first time I kissed a guy at a party and I wasn't going on dates with guys for months when I accepted the invite of his friend. I am 100% sure his friends haven't told him about this, should I?

Early in my marriage the struggle of finances was real and so was my faith. We literally ended up with $3 in our account after we paid tithing and fast offerings one month, including no assurance of another paycheck as I was self employed. We put our faith in the lord by trusting that our money was better ‘used’ by his church. It was a faith promoting story that makes me shudder now as I look back and can see how much life can really throw at you in terms of financial wrenches.
In the voice of William Dozier: Can TSCC actually exercise its own faith these days? Is it now too large to fit through the eye of a needle? Find out next GC to learn how they will continue to disappoint its members.

The world is currently undergoing a mass pro-consumption and pro-natalism campaign spearheaded by CPC and GOP. They view humanity as nothing but a golem to work to death and sell overpriced shite to. This is where the "depopulation" fearmongering comes from. It's heartbreaking to hear working poor people in real life mention "the elite conspiracy to depopulate us" when the complete opposite is happening. The world population has increased from 1 billion to 8 billion in a century. Wealth inequality, too, has increased.
The more population increases, the more we suffer, and the more it decreases, the better it is for us. That's one less worker to compete against us and one less scab for the boss to hire. That means wages go up. The only people harmed by this are the owning class, whose entire profits depend on selling shit to an ever growing market. They don't care if we go hungry, if less and less funding goes towards supporting more and more services for the burgeoning population. All that matters to them is the numbers on the graph going up.
So, take corporate propaganda with a grain of salt, and understand the true profit-driven intentions behind social movements against feminism, abortion, LGBT, etc. It's all a ploy to keep birthrates and consumption high, so they can continue lining their pockets with the stolen wages of toothless illiterate rеtаrdѕ. They want YOU to have 10 kids and die of overwork at age 45 after a long life of consuming nothing but corn syrup and whatever the "anti-woke" corporations told you to buy.

I just got back from Scotland, and spent several nights out listening to local roots music being played in pubs. One thing that surprised me is I saw almost nothing playing in standard tuning. Mostly it was DADGAD. I can play in DADGAD, but mostly only play songs you're "supposed" to play in DADGAD (e.g. "Kashmir"). These guys would play anything there. If you wanted to play something in a key that wasn't one of the obvious ones you do in DADGAD, just capo up.

I'm starting a new job next week after being laid off for 6 months. By the time I apply to schools, I would only be 2-3 months into the job but many schools seem to prefer a current manager's recommendation.
My only other option is to ask my last boss but I realized that she's horribly flakey. In order to get this job, I needed her reference and she agreed enthusiastically then promptly vanished off the face of this earth. I had to ask someone else from my last job who I was not close to at all. I was going to count on her for my letter of recommendation for grad school too since she used to seem so enthusiastic about referring me and helping in any way possible but now I'm not too sure.
So the question is - do I go back and drag my old boss to show up and write me one or this new boss of 2/3 months? And if I do choose to ask my old boss, what if in the future the school calls her for whatever reason and she doesn't pick up or doesn't do a good job conveying our relationship over the call?

As the title suggest, she seems to care more about video games rather than me, like most of our arguments are from games.
Me and my gf have been in a long distance relationship for 1,5 years. We are from the same country, but she moved with her parents in another country when she was in middle school. We still live with our parents, but we were planning on moving in together. We mostly hang out on discord, playing video games with our friends. Last month we were playing a competitive game and a friend A was watching when we started losing and my gf started screaming at me because I was not listening to her apparently and that bothered her because when I dont do exactly what she says I make her feel as if her opinion does not matter. She left, texting me “tonight i wont talk to you”, so I did not reply to her, assuming she wants to be left alone to calm down.
We had similar arguments before but this time she started complaining to A, calling me abusive. A tried to convince her to talk to me but she didn’t want to, saying that it’s my fault because I did not text her to apologize for not listening to her, since she said that she won’t talk to me, but that should not stop me from talking to her. So I apologized to her and she told me that it is too late now.
The next day we were hanging out again with A and F. F noticed that my gf is in a bad mood so he asked her what is wrong. She started complaining about the game to F, expecting him to understand since he is very good at that game, but he took my side and told her that what I did in game was correct and she shouldn’t have made a big deal about a video game anyway. A also said that it is not fair to scream at others because of just video games. My gf started screaming at them, punching the table and calling them names, telling that their opinion was uncalled for and that F is just a “male with opinions”. My gf stopped talking to both of them as well.
The story repeated and she started screaming again, not willing to talk to me and telling me that only her friend S, who was a random guy he met on the game, understands her more than I do and I should go to him to ask for advice.
I asked A for advice regarding the second argument and she told me that it is pointless to have arguments about video games.‌ She is the one that also suggested openly communicating to my gf about how I feel. I gave up on the idea since, in the past, when I brought up something that bothered me she told me to “suck it up”. For example, my gf is bi and I have nothing against that, but she started flirting with A, telling her how much she loves her and some explicit things as well while I was around them. I told my gf that it bothers me and she just told me that I cannot control her and that I am gaslighting her. The rest of my friends and A think that my gf is abusive and she is treating me like a doormat. After I told my gf that she asked me how dare I say such atrocity since she is the one that always sacrifices time and energy for me.
After another argument I decided to break up with her. She was playing a game with S and left me on seen a couple of hours until she realized that I was serious and that is when she started crying and having trouble breathing because of that. Later on, her mother called me to tell me that “We should stop with this stupid arguments and she is in exams and she doesn't need this right now.”.
I decided to take her back, under the condition that she will listen to all of the double standards that I noticed in the relationship and avoid them. For 2 days it was fine, but soon she came back to her old self.
I started doubting myself, thinking that maybe I am wrong, but I don’t know how to fix the relationship and if I can do something about it. I don’t want to lose the time, energy and emotion I invested in this relationship.
At the same time, I always had certain expectations from the future and when we started talking about the future I assumed we would both be employed, but she told A and F back when she was still talking to them that she does not plan on getting a job because she wants to focus on college(which is fully online and she expects me to be the sole provider which would be more doable in the country we are both from but she and her mom want her to stay there and be close to her mom. Her mom also asked me a few times about marriage and she demands we get married there so I can be “legally forced to financially support” my gf if we ever divorce. Also lately every time I bring up a subject we went over before she changes her mind.)
I have my doubts that she will actually focus on studying since she is still in school now and she plays video games all night and then complains that she has a lot to study and her teachers are against her. She even asked me to talk to my boss to ask if there is a need for a graphic designer and my boss offered her a job offer that she refused because she wants to focus on studying and she is afraid the government will make her go to jail because she doesn’t know what paperwork she has to fill for income taxes. When I told A about it she laughed because she told me it is a 5 minute google search.

Hi all. I have the Surprise package which would normally include a night in Brussels following the festival. However due to work I am going to skip that and fly back to the US on Monday afternoon, from Amsterdam (cheaper and better flight vs from BRU).
I’m trying to figure out the best way there. I have a couple options, including using the Boom train to Antwerp and from there to AMS vs taking the Dreamland airport shuttle to BRU and taking a train.
If I take the BRU shuttle it is going to wrong way so some wasted time.
The thing is I’m not sure if I’m up for a hike all the way from Dreamville to Boom station.
Does anyone know if there are shuttles to Boom station from Dreamville on Monday? And if so when they start running?

I recently replaced my iPhone and set it up as usual from my last backup. All settings are the same but since then, my notification summary (scheduled notifications) just don’t show up any more. I tried everything from restarting, to turn off notifications and back on. Everything is set correctly but the just don’t show up at all.
Has anyone experienced this and can help out? Thanks!

My 9 unit building just sold and the LL if offering everyone 5k to end their lease and leave in 3 months.
They are stating that they need to do repairs that could take up to 3 months and will need everyone out while the repairs are done.
I would rather just find somewhere for 3 months and move back in ,but I had a few questions.
*Am I 100% allowed to move back in once the repairs are done?
*Is there any way my LL can screw me out of returning back?
*Does my LL have to compensate me while the repairs are being done?
*Anything you can suggest I do ahead of time to help myself?
Thanks in advance, any advice helps.

I’m not sure if it’s been posted already (probably) but with half the AEW crowd mutinying over his upcoming return, I thought it would be a good time to remind anybody who forgot that Punk was, despite what some fans would have you believe, on possibly the best in-ring run of his career before being hit with back to back injuries.
4.25 - vs Moxley, All Out. 4.50 - vs Hangman Page, Double or Nothing. 4.75 - vs MJF, Revolution 4.50 - vs Eddie Kingston, Full Gear 3.75 - vs Darby Allin, All Out ‘21
For comparison, here are the averages for the 5 guys he wrestled in their last 5 PPV singles matches…
4.5 - Jon Moxley 4.8 - Hangman Page 4.4 - MJF 4.35 - Eddie Kingston (includes NJPW and ROH) 3.95 - Darby Allin
Is his stamina what it used to be? Hell no, he’s 44 years old and he was never freakishly athletic like your Omega’s, Mysterio’s, etc. But if anything, Punk’s shown how to overcome that by working smarter and planning better.
And just to be clear, I’m not saying he’s better than anybody - just that he’s still a great pro wrestler and an amazing promo, and I think that it’s silly how many people are upset that he’s coming back because he was an asshole at a press conference and punched another wrestler. We’ve seen far worse in wrestling, it’s really not that big of a deal.
Have a nice day and try to love your wrestling!

[RANT] for people looking to get outta sales.
I was interviewing for a Sr SDR role at a climate tech org. They're a rather small org and are growing their team. I was absolutely shook by the way the interview was done.
Context: Iv been having my doubts with a career in sales for sometime now. I have 1 year BDR exp at a large software org and am wishing to get out of here cause I wanted better pay and a wlb.
1st round was with a Sr Product Manager in the team and our conversation basically turned into a career advice session. He told me you left consulting and went for a job in sales which is ok but you seem like a bright kid why are u wasting time with sales cause it doesn't look like you yourself are very into it. I told him my hopes were to work in sales for a bit and move into product. He said sales experience is kinda useful for GTM stuff but you need to get outta sales asap if u want to get into product. He said sales skills are shallow and u have to be solely driven by money and u don't seem like someone who's desperate for money. Prefacing everything with "ofc iv only known u for 15 mins, so this is just some personal advice"
He said leave ur sales job, spend majority of your time upskilling and get an internship or something. You will thank yourself years down the line for taking this up. He said product people cannot be easily replaced and tho sales people make absolute bank, I'd recommend you to take a step back and really understand what you're getting into with sales as a career.
I was kinda shook and realized that he's absolutely right. Iv loved and hated sales but I think this was the reality check I needed to reassess what my core values are and what I want in life. If anyone who's in my position and looking to get outta sales, if you financially have the capability to handle it, quit, learn and make a career you want to be proud of while also enjoying everyday.
Don't get me wrong, I still think sales is an incredibly important job and one which can make u v rich, but I personally can't take it anymore.

Well you see, nearly 10 years ago, my grandmother called CPS on my mother, for weed of all things. She was a good mother, she was nice, and CPS decided to take away her rights to me and my siblings.
I'm the oldest, I spent my life so far in 3 different foster homes, 2 mental hospitals, and 12 different schools. My father left when I was 4.
My life got fucked up, at the first mental hospital, it was like forced Christianity. They were psychotic.
Second one was my aunt and uncle's, aunt was just fucking rude, uncle was a drunk asshole.
Then a the first mental hospital, it was alright. Once got my toenail pushed in from a pull out chair there. A few days later I was tosses into an ambulance (not for the pushed in nail) and sent to another mental hospital, with a bunch of other kids up in North Dakota.
One girl there ripped her toenail off, me and another kid got someone's key card and ran to the door and nearly got out.
They got me, I had the card and they took it. Half a year later and I got let out and sent to the third foster home, good foster mom and great foster dad, and I loved my foster sister. Closest person I had. Things were great for 2 years, then a new kid game, a girl, an asshole named Marissa.
She played football, once I accidentally hit her leg, she got pissed, I ran all the way up to my room, she caught me and threw me at my wall and started just kicking me, full force. I hated her with all my being.
Then A got a boyfriend, (not even gonna censor his first name) Lee, I hated him. He drank and smoked all fucking day, and got A to start as well. S started becoming cold to me, and Bitch (Marissa) always hung out with her.
They hated me together. One day A blamed me for taking Lee's microphone for his headset, I didn't, they found it in my room. S and Bitch planted it in my room to get me in trouble. They took my Chromebook, I needed it for school work and without it I had nothing to do. And when I tried explaining why I wouldn't take it, because my Xbox controller was taken by them, they didn't care.
I ran away that day, it was raining. All I had was an umbrella, a hoodie, sweatpants, and my shoes that I'd worn all day. It was starting to become nighttime, and I had nowhere to go. So I started yelling, asking people passing by to call the police.
Eventually the cops got to me and brought me back to Hell, ("home") and I was shivering half to death, I got a warm shower, and S said "oh, so now he gets special treatment?!" By the way this was the early days of TikTok, after it was changed from Music.ly.
and BOOM! TIME TRAVEL!
A few years before things got fucked upside down and up the ass, they asked if I wanted to be adopted, I said yes. Then things got fucked upside the ass and then I didn't. The last year, okay, short part of the year, I was asked by a new social worker (old one was a bitch who cares only for money) if I wanted to go back to my grandmother, I said yes.
Then when it was time, I said my goodbyes, Sis didn't care, and A was crying, oh and Lee was gone at the time, main reason I left then was because I didn't have any reason left to stay.
Anywho, then I was back with my grandmother and grandfather, things were okay. My mom came back and I cried then, tears of joy. We all were living okay. But I still didn't get to see my siblings.
My blood sister, I missed the most. I still do. I've been here for five years... closest I've gotten was talking with her father, Steve Litzau. I remember my mother's Boyfriend (I like him, he's cool) asking him when a good time is. Steve's answer was "never, he's never gonna see her." And Steve can kill himself for all I care. Oh, and my sisters grandmother is Lori La Bey. She may seem like a kind lady, founder of Alzheimer's Speaks, truth is she's a terrible person. She's the reason I can't see my siblings, she fed lies to CPS and they believed her. Or she paid them. One of the two.
Family is supposed to help each other, so why did my aunt adopt my brothers and my grandmother adopt me?! My mother's brother died at 9 years old, hit by a train. Grandmother recently said to my mother in one of their thousand arguments, which granny cries for sympathy after each one, she said to my mom "I wish you died instead of [uncle's name here]!"
I dislike my grandmother greatly, and she's always rude to my grandfather who is currently on oxygen, he has to sleep on the couch apparently. Many inconsistencies in my life story because I've stuffed those memories deep, deep down, I'd rather not remember.
Oh, and S died in 2021. (If you want the obituary link, ask) I cried for the rest of the year. And all the ones after. (Let's just say that Pneumonia and Asthma are not a good combination) I'm still fucked up, depressed, damn near suicidal. And I feel miserable, empty. I rarely eat. I don't cry anymore.
OH! and I know why things got fucked at my old foster home. Marissa Jasso or some shit, she fucked with everything, IF SHE DIDNT SHOW HER UGLY ASS FUCKING FACE THINGS WOULD'VE TURNED OHT GREAT! I WOULDNT BE SO FUCKING MISERABLE RIGHT NOW! EVERY OUNCE OF HAPPINESS THAT I USED TO HAVE IS GONE! I'M FUCKING EMPTY! and that emptiness is overwhelming...
I visited FMom, she was doing much better, and she knows she did wrong back then, plus she lost her foster license...
Steve still hasn't gotten any reprocussions, but he will... one day.
Welp, that's my life story! Do with that as you will.
Sorry if you read this and wasted your time.
-My Life Story (so far, no TLDR) by V.

all my coworkers really buy into his “we’re a family” thing at my company (it’s a small business) and they constantly go above and beyond for the company, when none of us ever receive any meaningful recognition for our work. our bosses almost never even say “thank you.”
we’re chronically understaffed and people just take on additional responsibilities when people quit without questioning it. or even questioning why we might have such a high turnover rate. they constantly speak very highly of the company, and act like theyre coworkers rather than just employees. even though our salaries are way below market value and we have ZERO benefits
for example one coworker is obviously doing the job of like 3 people and instead of speaking up about this, she just constantly asks for more overtime to get everything done. she looks perpetually exhausted, and EVERY DAY she says me that she’s overwhelmed. but this just makes the bosses favour her more for working so hard
whenever anyone even mentions being overwhelmed in a way that could mean “something needs to change,” the bosses react so awkwardly. i’ve been in dozens of meetings about how unmanageable my workload is, and every time, the boss gets so agitated and looks so stressed, like he’s mad at me for ruining his illusion of everything being fine bc i’m the only one who consistently speaks up. one day someone mentioned that she was stressed out by how much she has to do and one of the bosses responded “stressed already? it’s barely lunchtime yet!” and breezily continued walking into her office. after that comment, the coworker was obviously upset but seemed to just brush it off and kept overworking herself
one time someone fainted at work when we were particularly understaffed. while they were recovering in the break room one of the bosses awkwardly asked “so… what are you going to do” (essentially asking “are you going to go home?”) he was pale as a sheet and breathing shallowly. i just feel like anyone with a shred of empathy would see that he clearly needs to go and rest
but then bosses will give us things like pizza at work, or pay for after-work dinners and everyone literally falls at their feet in gratitude. i’m like, this is NOTHING compared to how much they are underpaying and mistreating all of us. why are you all acting like a free meal makes up for the shitty treatment?
i thankfully have one other person at work who i’m pretty close to and agrees how toxic the company is. but back when i first started here, even she acted like being allowed to work at this company was some privilege - it was only after i started complaining to my boss about my workload pretty consistently that she started to realise there were a lot of issues with the way the business operates
this was really long but i just feel so exhausted by it all. especially since everyone just acts like everything is fine. for a long time i gaslit myself into thinking i was being oversensitive due to my trauma, but the reality is almost worse. how are so many people so OK with such poor treatment?