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TIL: The "Leatherman" was a person dressed in a leather suit who would repeat a 365 mile route for over 30 years. He would stop at towns for supplies and lived in various "Leatherman caves". When archeologists dug up his grave in 2011, they found no remains, only coffin nails.
2023.06.09 20:31 Flares117 TIL: The "Leatherman" was a person dressed in a leather suit who would repeat a 365 mile route for over 30 years. He would stop at towns for supplies and lived in various "Leatherman caves". When archeologists dug up his grave in 2011, they found no remains, only coffin nails.
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2023.06.09 20:20 trimminator [RF] A pair of soldiers raid an enemy trench in the dead of night. But instead of finding enemy combatants, they find something much worse.
“Tonight’s the night”. Sergeant Muller said to himself as he was staring over the entrenchments across the field.
Tonight he would embark on a daring raid across the battlefield from his own trenches to the enemies. It was not his first raid and by this point in the war he was a profesional in the regard of wreaking havoc upon the enemy trenches when the moon is full and night falls on the land. What was once a daunting task when he was a private was nothing to him now as a Sergeant. Even the prospect of death did not scare him.
His thoughts were broken when his good friend Corporal Webb approached him from behind “It’s almost time, are you ready?” He asked.
Muller used the moonlight shining above them and checked his pocket watch and nodded. “Of course”.
Muller then followed Webb towards the firing line of the trenches and they spoke as they passed by soldiers getting on or getting off shifts of mending wire, digging more trenches, or simply going about their own business.
“Why do you think the Bluecoats have been so quiet lately anyways? Today I stood straight up after coming out of my dugout and none of them dared even shoot me”. Webber asked.
Muller simply shook his head “Hopefully they’ve lost their stomach for this war and went home. Any sane man would have at this point anyways. We’ve been fighting over this stretch of dirt for months now without the battle lines changing”.
Webb nodded “Not us of course, we’re perfectly sane aren’t we?”
Muller chuckled slightly “As sane as we can be”.
As they continued to walk towards the firing line Muller thought about Webb’s question. “Surely we’ll find out soon enough what’s happening over there”. He said to himself.
Once they finally reached the firing line they hailed the sentry and they recognized him as Henderson from his broad mustache “Another night on the job then?” He asked earnestly as Webb and Muller past him.
“There’s nothing quite like it Henderson. Keep them all safe back here won’t you?” Muller said as he rubbed some dirt on his face.
“Will do”. Henderson said in reply.
With that, they then made their way across no man’s land.
The area between the Ticonderoga and Ulsterian trenches was a mess of shell holes, stumps, and dead carcasses scattered about the land. Every feature Muller and Webb knew like the back of their hands and they constantly used them for cover and concealment as they crawled across the field. No lantern was necessary for the moon was full that night and shined like a candle upon them and lit their way. They then came upon the outskirts of the Ulsterian lines when Webb reached to Muller and whispered. “Blue coat straight ahead”.
Muller then looked over and saw a sentry at his post leaning against his rifle. “He’s asleep”. Muller said. “His head is facing the dirt anyways”.
Webb then took a more stern look and drew his dagger from his scabbard and whispered “It's best not to take the chance.”
They then crawled to an empty section of the trench and Muller cut the wire and they crawled into the ditch. Their boots made a splash in what they assumed was a mud puddle and they made their way along the firing line until they spotted the sentry. Webb then made quick work of him and carefully stretched his hand over the sentry's mouth and drove his dagger deep into the man’s back. The blow would have been fatal if he was still alive.
When Webb threw him into the mud he realized he was dead and his throat slit. Muller then gave a confused look “What the Hell is this?”
Webb shrugged in reply.
They then made their way carefully along the trench but their subtly was unnecessary. It became apparent the trenches were guarded by dead men. Every soldier they came across was ripped apart with cuts and stabs covering their uniforms and Muller became puzzled. “My God what happened here”.
The trail of bodies ended at a dugout where a lantern was burning bright from inside. “Lower enlisted first”. Muller jested at his seniority while Webb growled.
Webb then carefully went into the dugout with dagger and pistol drawn while Muller waited outside. When Webb came into the dugout he discovered an officer’s quarters along with a hole freshly dug into the ground and a silver coffin with the lid fully pushed open from the inside. “What the fuck is this?” Were the last words Webb said before his throat was slit open and he fell to the ground with a thud.
From up top Muller nearly shouted “Webb?! Webb! What’s happening down there?!” Muller didn’t wait for a response when he heard movement coming from down the trenchline and looked to see Webb laying dead on the ground with a red eyed beast looking back at him from within the dugout.
Muller’s instinct to survive overcame his need to enact revenge and he ran for his life. By now he cared nothing for crawling on the ground or stealth at all as he ran past the dead sentry and bodies and onto the field. He could feel whatever had murderer Webb chasing him. He sprinted past the shell craters, stumps and dead corpses he had come to memorize and every step of the way he could feel the beast come near him at an inhuman speed.
He then tripped and fell into a shell crater and knew it was too late. Muller then drew his pistol in a panicked frenzy and turned to face the beast. However it was gone. He then peered across the field to find whatever was chasing him was gone and wondered if he had gone mad.
Muller waited a few moments more before he holstered his pistol again and ran towards his own trench line and hailed Henderson as he came near “Henderson! Henderson! Awake the commander! somethings terribly wrong!”
However, Henderson did not respond and Muller did not understand why until he came near and realized his neck had been slit ear to ear and he was only propped up by the rifle he was leaning on.
He then came into the trenches to find all his comrades were slain just the same as his enemies were and the culprit of it all standing at the end of the trench with claws extended and eyes as red as blood.
Muller however was out of breath and had nowhere to run even if he wanted to. He then drew his pistol again and faced the beast who had murdered Webb.
Either he would kill this beast, or join his friend in death.
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Tonight he would embark on a daring raid across the battlefield from his own trenches to the enemies. It was not his first raid and by this point in the war he was a profesional in the regard of wreaking havoc upon the enemy trenches when the moon is full and night falls on the land. What was once a daunting task when he was a private was nothing to him now as a Sergeant. Even the prospect of death did not scare him.
His thoughts were broken when his good friend Corporal Webb approached him from behind “It’s almost time, are you ready?” He asked.
Muller used the moonlight shining above them and checked his pocket watch and nodded. “Of course”.
Muller then followed Webb towards the firing line of the trenches and they spoke as they passed by soldiers getting on or getting off shifts of mending wire, digging more trenches, or simply going about their own business.
“Why do you think the Bluecoats have been so quiet lately anyways? Today I stood straight up after coming out of my dugout and none of them dared even shoot me”. Webber asked.
Muller simply shook his head “Hopefully they’ve lost their stomach for this war and went home. Any sane man would have at this point anyways. We’ve been fighting over this stretch of dirt for months now without the battle lines changing”.
Webb nodded “Not us of course, we’re perfectly sane aren’t we?”
Muller chuckled slightly “As sane as we can be”.
As they continued to walk towards the firing line Muller thought about Webb’s question. “Surely we’ll find out soon enough what’s happening over there”. He said to himself.
Once they finally reached the firing line they hailed the sentry and they recognized him as Henderson from his broad mustache “Another night on the job then?” He asked earnestly as Webb and Muller past him.
“There’s nothing quite like it Henderson. Keep them all safe back here won’t you?” Muller said as he rubbed some dirt on his face.
“Will do”. Henderson said in reply.
With that, they then made their way across no man’s land.
The area between the Ticonderoga and Ulsterian trenches was a mess of shell holes, stumps, and dead carcasses scattered about the land. Every feature Muller and Webb knew like the back of their hands and they constantly used them for cover and concealment as they crawled across the field. No lantern was necessary for the moon was full that night and shined like a candle upon them and lit their way. They then came upon the outskirts of the Ulsterian lines when Webb reached to Muller and whispered. “Blue coat straight ahead”.
Muller then looked over and saw a sentry at his post leaning against his rifle. “He’s asleep”. Muller said. “His head is facing the dirt anyways”.
Webb then took a more stern look and drew his dagger from his scabbard and whispered “It's best not to take the chance.”
They then crawled to an empty section of the trench and Muller cut the wire and they crawled into the ditch. Their boots made a splash in what they assumed was a mud puddle and they made their way along the firing line until they spotted the sentry. Webb then made quick work of him and carefully stretched his hand over the sentry's mouth and drove his dagger deep into the man’s back. The blow would have been fatal if he was still alive.
When Webb threw him into the mud he realized he was dead and his throat slit. Muller then gave a confused look “What the Hell is this?”
Webb shrugged in reply.
They then made their way carefully along the trench but their subtly was unnecessary. It became apparent the trenches were guarded by dead men. Every soldier they came across was ripped apart with cuts and stabs covering their uniforms and Muller became puzzled. “My God what happened here”.
The trail of bodies ended at a dugout where a lantern was burning bright from inside. “Lower enlisted first”. Muller jested at his seniority while Webb growled.
Webb then carefully went into the dugout with dagger and pistol drawn while Muller waited outside. When Webb came into the dugout he discovered an officer’s quarters along with a hole freshly dug into the ground and a silver coffin with the lid fully pushed open from the inside. “What the fuck is this?” Were the last words Webb said before his throat was slit open and he fell to the ground with a thud.
From up top Muller nearly shouted “Webb?! Webb! What’s happening down there?!” Muller didn’t wait for a response when he heard movement coming from down the trenchline and looked to see Webb laying dead on the ground with a red eyed beast looking back at him from within the dugout.
Muller’s instinct to survive overcame his need to enact revenge and he ran for his life. By now he cared nothing for crawling on the ground or stealth at all as he ran past the dead sentry and bodies and onto the field. He could feel whatever had murderer Webb chasing him. He sprinted past the shell craters, stumps and dead corpses he had come to memorize and every step of the way he could feel the beast come near him at an inhuman speed.
He then tripped and fell into a shell crater and knew it was too late. Muller then drew his pistol in a panicked frenzy and turned to face the beast. However it was gone. He then peered across the field to find whatever was chasing him was gone and wondered if he had gone mad.
Muller waited a few moments more before he holstered his pistol again and ran towards his own trench line and hailed Henderson as he came near “Henderson! Henderson! Awake the commander! somethings terribly wrong!”
However, Henderson did not respond and Muller did not understand why until he came near and realized his neck had been slit ear to ear and he was only propped up by the rifle he was leaning on.
He then came into the trenches to find all his comrades were slain just the same as his enemies were and the culprit of it all standing at the end of the trench with claws extended and eyes as red as blood.
Muller however was out of breath and had nowhere to run even if he wanted to. He then drew his pistol again and faced the beast who had murdered Webb.
Either he would kill this beast, or join his friend in death.
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2023.06.09 20:11 Affectionate-Law8234 AITA for refusing to do nails for my friend anymore?
I(29F) am a nail tech who specializes in extensions, acrylics and more recently gel x. I’ve been doing it since 19 and I used it to pay my way though college and now I do it part time. My friend has been a long time client of mine and I’ve done nails on her since college (we were college friends). She always gets acrylics and pays cash so I give her a bit of a discount. I do a full set with gel color and an accent nail which I charge her $50 for.
I’m known for my really fast and precise work. Most people will take almost 2h to do a set with a design. I can get it done is around an hour. My friend usually gives me a 10–15% tip which is good to me. She asked me to do nails for her and her bridesmaids. I was also a guest. We negotiated the price as $40 flat for nails as some people just wanted gel with no extensions. There were 8 people in total.
We were suppose to do the nails the day before but only 3 bridesmaids and the bride showed up as they said a plane with the other 4 (all from Miami where we went to school) got delayed. This is not according to plan but she begged me to come the next morning and I did as a favor for a friend. I had to wake up at 5 am to get there at 7 am to do nails for the other 4 bridesmaids and it was exhausting. I had to rearrange things and rush back home to change and get ready for the party.
The wedding went well but she didn’t pay me for the nails. Originally she said she was going to pay me but then she said she was going to get the bridesmaids to pay me. It’s been 3 months since the wedding and I still didn’t get 2 of the bridesmaids payments. She also didn’t tip even though I drove an extra 1.5h to the hotel and back to do their nails on sight which is very expensive service normally. I asked her about it and she said she thought the tip was my wedding gift to her. That’s fine but I also bought her a gift for the wedding costing $120 and she didn’t volunteer it back. We also didn’t agree beforehand that my tips would be my wedding gift to her.
I am getting a lot more requests for nails and am able to change $70-80 for my services. My friend saw the new prices and asked for a discount. I use to do it because she’s a friend but after the wedding fiasco I told her because Im part time (I have another full time job) Im taking the high paying clients and with food prices going up I need to eat too. She got mad and called me greedy for not giving her the $50 rate I’d always let her pay even when my normal rates went up
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I’m known for my really fast and precise work. Most people will take almost 2h to do a set with a design. I can get it done is around an hour. My friend usually gives me a 10–15% tip which is good to me. She asked me to do nails for her and her bridesmaids. I was also a guest. We negotiated the price as $40 flat for nails as some people just wanted gel with no extensions. There were 8 people in total.
We were suppose to do the nails the day before but only 3 bridesmaids and the bride showed up as they said a plane with the other 4 (all from Miami where we went to school) got delayed. This is not according to plan but she begged me to come the next morning and I did as a favor for a friend. I had to wake up at 5 am to get there at 7 am to do nails for the other 4 bridesmaids and it was exhausting. I had to rearrange things and rush back home to change and get ready for the party.
The wedding went well but she didn’t pay me for the nails. Originally she said she was going to pay me but then she said she was going to get the bridesmaids to pay me. It’s been 3 months since the wedding and I still didn’t get 2 of the bridesmaids payments. She also didn’t tip even though I drove an extra 1.5h to the hotel and back to do their nails on sight which is very expensive service normally. I asked her about it and she said she thought the tip was my wedding gift to her. That’s fine but I also bought her a gift for the wedding costing $120 and she didn’t volunteer it back. We also didn’t agree beforehand that my tips would be my wedding gift to her.
I am getting a lot more requests for nails and am able to change $70-80 for my services. My friend saw the new prices and asked for a discount. I use to do it because she’s a friend but after the wedding fiasco I told her because Im part time (I have another full time job) Im taking the high paying clients and with food prices going up I need to eat too. She got mad and called me greedy for not giving her the $50 rate I’d always let her pay even when my normal rates went up
2023.06.09 20:11 Unicornfart2023 Hopefully the Last Update to: A newborn, reddit posts, and grandparents rights
TRIGGER WARNING: Abuse, Traumatic Childbirth, Violence, Legal Happenings, Police
Hello Reddit, it’s me again. Strap in – it's gonna be a long one bb. So - TLDR: MIL made another post after DH tried to give her another chance, she went psycho, broke into our house, we got granted a PO.
Sorry if this is all over the place. I also will probably not be replying to many comments, but thank you in advance for all of the support.
As I’m sure many of you have guessed – my life has been crazy lately. I last left you with my family & I being no-contact, MIL calling CPS on us, and the police on me, and I was planning to buy a new house away from where we currently live.
I deleted my previous posts after many of you kind people sent me links to her posts, and had told me that my post had been linked in the comments. Honestly, I don’t know why I did. She can read it all she wants – it really changes nothing, and our lawyer assured me we were doing nothing wrong. We packed all of our things and listed our house for sale shortly after my last update and put most of our things in a storage unit and moved in with my parents until we sell our house and find another. I wasn’t staying in my house any longer, and my parents are absolutely wonderful and let us live in their guest house they had built a few years back. I know I am extremely blessed for this.
So, first of all, she dropped the GPR case (I don’t remember if this was in my last update or not?). My husband had kept a strong shiny spine up until she did this. He really felt like this was her moving in the right direction and that she wanted to rectify things. She called him and told him how she just wanted things back to normal, and that she was sorry for the rift she had caused by doing this, and that she just felt like she was being cut off from our lives and couldn’t bare to live without the girls. She was ‘so sorry’, and learned from this and wanted things to be better. DH wanted to take steps to help rebuild the relationship, but I saw through this and did not.
We got into a big fight when I wanted us to have nothing to do with her – I told him he could have a relationship with her, but me and LO would not, and I doubted SD’s mom would want her to have one either. He countered that LO was his child too (this is definitely an undeniable fact – as she looks just like him despite me carrying her for 9 months and almost dying *insert eyeroll*). In the end, I gave in. However, I asked for marriage counseling if we were going to have any type of communication with her – because this felt extremely unfair to me. I also said that I would be going to this dinner, she was not to hold LO, and there were to be 0 pictures of her. I also said he needed to have my back through this and help me enforce boundaries. He agreed to all of the above and felt it was all fair for a first meet up, but did have some reservations about marriage counseling. We managed to get in to see someone before the meeting, but we didn’t really get too deep since it was our first appointment. We had seen someone in the past, but they weren’t available for months – which was a bummer.
My husband put the stipulation of not being on Mother’s Day – as that was now my day. She did not take this well AT ALL. This should have been DH’s sign that the dinner would not go well, but he was adamant that it would all be fine.
All was not fine. The passive aggressive nonsense started from the minute we walked in. She sat the highchair for LO right next to her, and asked my husband to sit on the other side. LO isn’t quite ready for a highchair yet, so I simply walked to the other side of DH and sat next to him. This pissed her off.
MIL: “Oh, Unicornfart, just set her in here, I need some bonding time.”
OP: “No. She isn’t ready to be in a highchair. I will hold her.”
M: “I’m sure she’ll be fine! Or I can hold her.”
OP: “No thank you.”
DH: “Mom, drop it.”
M: Long, heavy sigh, followed by a “whatever” under her breath.
Next, she wanted to take pictures. DH immediately said LO was not going to be in any pictures today. When she asked why, DH was honest with her and told her there needed to be trust built back because she had posted pictures on social media without our permission already and we didn’t trust her. Then he dropped another bombshell on her: “I also don’t want to be in any pictures. I don’t want to be on your Facebook like everything is okay. I just want to have a dinner with all of us without there being any photos.”
She snorted at his comment, and I could feel DH deflate a little. He was trying ya’ll. She continued to try and hold LO, and DH would shut her down. She tried to ask about daycare arrangements while I was at work, and we greyrocked her. I wouldn’t conversate with her (not that she genuinely tried), and instead just made small talk with SIL. At the end of dinner while we were all walking out and saying goodbyes, she decided she needed to make some more digs.
M: “I’m proud of you for standing up to your wife and coming to dinner. Hopefully you get better at it and things can be normal again.”
DH: “Are you serious?”
SIL jumped in and quickly ended the visit – which I was grateful for, because we didn’t want LO around any fighting just like I’m sure she didn’t want her LO’s around any fighting. Before we walked away, she tried to sneak in one more picture, and DH literally shoved his hand over her camera and I tucked LO into my chest so she couldn’t.
Later that night, DH called MIL and told her he couldn’t have a relationship with her. He told her he tried to give her a second chance, but he couldn’t deal with her inappropriate behavior and that he had to put me and the girls first, and he wanted absolutley no contact from her unless it was an emergency on his sister's part. She did not handle this gracefully as she made it sound in her post. She tried to get different family members to attack us, and some did and stood by his mom even when we explained our side, but many of them told her she was wrong. She told them they were being manipulated by me. She decided to “cut DH from the will” and tell him about it – he wasn’t mad that she did this (actually he was grateful, being left her house was a big fear of his lol), he was just mad that she contacted him.
After her post and several comments linking my previous posts, she realized (obviously) that we had moved and listed our house. She really ramped up at this point – she called and left DH VM’s until his box was full, most of them were just her telling him she was ‘sorry’ and crying about missing him, and then she continued to spam call him. She called his sister (who knew we were doing this, but doesn’t know where we are), then she showed up to DH’s and my job. She wasn’t able to confront DH at his job, but she came right down to my office at mine and was screaming at me. She tried to close my door, but I told her no and my coworkers quickly heard the commotion and came to help me. She was screaming at me about stealing her family, she called me an evil bitch, told me she wished I would have died during childbirth and the doctors should have just sent me home to die, and a lot of other stuff - security ended up escorting her off the premises because she wouldn’t leave on her own. I was completely humiliated, but most of my coworkers already knew what was going on since I have a solid relationship with them.
At this point, I was ready to get a PO, and I began collecting evidence to do it. Our lawyer was upfront with us that it can be a challenge to get a PO in our state, and our best evidence was her coming to our jobs and being told she had to leave and what she screamed at me.
Once we filled out the paperwork, the courts had 30 days to get us a hearing, and we all had to be there. She was served a few days after filing the paperwork, and that same night she broke into our empty pending-sale house. I put up surveillance cameras, and they caught her. DH was working a very late job, and I was hanging out with my mom when I got the movement notification. I was devastated she was doing this, but I knew it would be the nail in her coffin.
I called the police and reported a break-in, left the baby with my step-dad, and my mom and I drove down to the house. She was telling the police her name was on the title (lol – my premarital asset), she had rights to the house and forgot her key, that she lived there and we would have to evict her before she could sell, all the good stuff. I told the police I was the sole owner of the house, she never lived here, and that she broke in. The police listened to both of us, and I even told them about our pending PO, and I was absolutely dumbfounded when they decided that this was a civil matter and they ‘couldn’t do anything’. I was irate. My mom was probably even more irate. MIL was smug, oh so smug.
It was around this time that DH showed up, and MIL went right up to him and tried to hug him. He told her to get off him, and to never ever touch him again. She tried to say that he couldn’t tell her she wasn’t allowed to hug him, and an officer quickly assured her that he could in fact tell her that, and if she didn’t listen, she would end up in the back of his patrol car. She asked him if we were separated since we showed up separate, and he told her no. She asked if we were staying with my mom and he told her that we bought a home, and she didn’t get to know where. She burst into tears.
At this point, a cop pulled DH aside and asked if he was “maybe being a little too harsh on her?”. DH. Was. Pissed. He let the cop (respectfully) have it. He told her we have been dealing with her harassing us, showing up at our jobs, trying to sue for GPR, turning his family on us, and he was absolutely not being “too harsh”. I think something clicked hearing DH say it, and they told her she needed to leave and not return to the property. They told her she could receive a summons for breaking and entering still.
Now, to today.
We had our PO hearing. MIL represented herself. We spoke honestly about everything that had happened up to this point, and how we didn’t understand what made her do what she was doing because we were never keeping the girls from her. I was just recovering, and then out of nowhere she went crazy. She told the judge that all she wanted was a relationship with her family, and I was preventing that. She told the judge that I was abusive and was keeping my DH from his family, and that he didn’t want this, but was afraid to tell me no. She said I had isolated him from his family, and was surrounding him with mine to keep him doing what I tell him to do, and us living with my parents wasn’t healthy for DH or LO. It hurt to hear someone accuse me of being an abuser, and it really ticked me off to hear her speak poorly of my family who have been nothing but loving and supportive of us.
The judge asked DH if he felt unsafe, and he said no. He said that he wanted this because his mom just would not stop, and now he feared what her next steps would be. He said he was tired of her acting this way, and he didn’t understand why she was doing it. The judge asked him if he would be willing to speak to counselor who specializes in DV, just to prove to his mom that he was not being abused and he agreed.
She granted our PO, but told MIL if DH was being abused, she would terminate it. She explained to her that she needed to leave us alone. She couldn’t contact us in anyway including a third party (this includes a PI – I asked). She asked if she could write letters to the girls, and the judge told her absolutely not. She explained (again) that she could not have contact with any of us, including SD, in any form what-so-ever.
She waited for us outside of the courthouse. I saw her and told one of the officers, and they took us to a different exit, and we quickly made a mad-dash to our car. I decided to WFH today, and I still feel on edge. I’m not sure if she will follow the order or not, but at least if she doesn’t follow it there will be legal consequences, and she doesn’t have long to break it before we move any ways.
We are about to close the sale on our old house (thank God Step Dad is handy and was able to replace the window she broke – window replacement companies are like WEEKS out). I recently accepted a new job in a new state. Our offer was accepted on a new place in said state just last night. My parents are even wanting to move there with us and exploring their options.
I can’t thank the (probably 100) people who reached out to me when she made her other post enough, and thank everyone who validated me through both my posts and her posts. Its been really nice to be able to vent about this and write my thoughts down. Hopefully this is the last time you hear from me – good luck!
MIL, if you’re reading this, get bent.
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Hello Reddit, it’s me again. Strap in – it's gonna be a long one bb. So - TLDR: MIL made another post after DH tried to give her another chance, she went psycho, broke into our house, we got granted a PO.
Sorry if this is all over the place. I also will probably not be replying to many comments, but thank you in advance for all of the support.
As I’m sure many of you have guessed – my life has been crazy lately. I last left you with my family & I being no-contact, MIL calling CPS on us, and the police on me, and I was planning to buy a new house away from where we currently live.
I deleted my previous posts after many of you kind people sent me links to her posts, and had told me that my post had been linked in the comments. Honestly, I don’t know why I did. She can read it all she wants – it really changes nothing, and our lawyer assured me we were doing nothing wrong. We packed all of our things and listed our house for sale shortly after my last update and put most of our things in a storage unit and moved in with my parents until we sell our house and find another. I wasn’t staying in my house any longer, and my parents are absolutely wonderful and let us live in their guest house they had built a few years back. I know I am extremely blessed for this.
So, first of all, she dropped the GPR case (I don’t remember if this was in my last update or not?). My husband had kept a strong shiny spine up until she did this. He really felt like this was her moving in the right direction and that she wanted to rectify things. She called him and told him how she just wanted things back to normal, and that she was sorry for the rift she had caused by doing this, and that she just felt like she was being cut off from our lives and couldn’t bare to live without the girls. She was ‘so sorry’, and learned from this and wanted things to be better. DH wanted to take steps to help rebuild the relationship, but I saw through this and did not.
We got into a big fight when I wanted us to have nothing to do with her – I told him he could have a relationship with her, but me and LO would not, and I doubted SD’s mom would want her to have one either. He countered that LO was his child too (this is definitely an undeniable fact – as she looks just like him despite me carrying her for 9 months and almost dying *insert eyeroll*). In the end, I gave in. However, I asked for marriage counseling if we were going to have any type of communication with her – because this felt extremely unfair to me. I also said that I would be going to this dinner, she was not to hold LO, and there were to be 0 pictures of her. I also said he needed to have my back through this and help me enforce boundaries. He agreed to all of the above and felt it was all fair for a first meet up, but did have some reservations about marriage counseling. We managed to get in to see someone before the meeting, but we didn’t really get too deep since it was our first appointment. We had seen someone in the past, but they weren’t available for months – which was a bummer.
My husband put the stipulation of not being on Mother’s Day – as that was now my day. She did not take this well AT ALL. This should have been DH’s sign that the dinner would not go well, but he was adamant that it would all be fine.
All was not fine. The passive aggressive nonsense started from the minute we walked in. She sat the highchair for LO right next to her, and asked my husband to sit on the other side. LO isn’t quite ready for a highchair yet, so I simply walked to the other side of DH and sat next to him. This pissed her off.
MIL: “Oh, Unicornfart, just set her in here, I need some bonding time.”
OP: “No. She isn’t ready to be in a highchair. I will hold her.”
M: “I’m sure she’ll be fine! Or I can hold her.”
OP: “No thank you.”
DH: “Mom, drop it.”
M: Long, heavy sigh, followed by a “whatever” under her breath.
Next, she wanted to take pictures. DH immediately said LO was not going to be in any pictures today. When she asked why, DH was honest with her and told her there needed to be trust built back because she had posted pictures on social media without our permission already and we didn’t trust her. Then he dropped another bombshell on her: “I also don’t want to be in any pictures. I don’t want to be on your Facebook like everything is okay. I just want to have a dinner with all of us without there being any photos.”
She snorted at his comment, and I could feel DH deflate a little. He was trying ya’ll. She continued to try and hold LO, and DH would shut her down. She tried to ask about daycare arrangements while I was at work, and we greyrocked her. I wouldn’t conversate with her (not that she genuinely tried), and instead just made small talk with SIL. At the end of dinner while we were all walking out and saying goodbyes, she decided she needed to make some more digs.
M: “I’m proud of you for standing up to your wife and coming to dinner. Hopefully you get better at it and things can be normal again.”
DH: “Are you serious?”
SIL jumped in and quickly ended the visit – which I was grateful for, because we didn’t want LO around any fighting just like I’m sure she didn’t want her LO’s around any fighting. Before we walked away, she tried to sneak in one more picture, and DH literally shoved his hand over her camera and I tucked LO into my chest so she couldn’t.
Later that night, DH called MIL and told her he couldn’t have a relationship with her. He told her he tried to give her a second chance, but he couldn’t deal with her inappropriate behavior and that he had to put me and the girls first, and he wanted absolutley no contact from her unless it was an emergency on his sister's part. She did not handle this gracefully as she made it sound in her post. She tried to get different family members to attack us, and some did and stood by his mom even when we explained our side, but many of them told her she was wrong. She told them they were being manipulated by me. She decided to “cut DH from the will” and tell him about it – he wasn’t mad that she did this (actually he was grateful, being left her house was a big fear of his lol), he was just mad that she contacted him.
After her post and several comments linking my previous posts, she realized (obviously) that we had moved and listed our house. She really ramped up at this point – she called and left DH VM’s until his box was full, most of them were just her telling him she was ‘sorry’ and crying about missing him, and then she continued to spam call him. She called his sister (who knew we were doing this, but doesn’t know where we are), then she showed up to DH’s and my job. She wasn’t able to confront DH at his job, but she came right down to my office at mine and was screaming at me. She tried to close my door, but I told her no and my coworkers quickly heard the commotion and came to help me. She was screaming at me about stealing her family, she called me an evil bitch, told me she wished I would have died during childbirth and the doctors should have just sent me home to die, and a lot of other stuff - security ended up escorting her off the premises because she wouldn’t leave on her own. I was completely humiliated, but most of my coworkers already knew what was going on since I have a solid relationship with them.
At this point, I was ready to get a PO, and I began collecting evidence to do it. Our lawyer was upfront with us that it can be a challenge to get a PO in our state, and our best evidence was her coming to our jobs and being told she had to leave and what she screamed at me.
Once we filled out the paperwork, the courts had 30 days to get us a hearing, and we all had to be there. She was served a few days after filing the paperwork, and that same night she broke into our empty pending-sale house. I put up surveillance cameras, and they caught her. DH was working a very late job, and I was hanging out with my mom when I got the movement notification. I was devastated she was doing this, but I knew it would be the nail in her coffin.
I called the police and reported a break-in, left the baby with my step-dad, and my mom and I drove down to the house. She was telling the police her name was on the title (lol – my premarital asset), she had rights to the house and forgot her key, that she lived there and we would have to evict her before she could sell, all the good stuff. I told the police I was the sole owner of the house, she never lived here, and that she broke in. The police listened to both of us, and I even told them about our pending PO, and I was absolutely dumbfounded when they decided that this was a civil matter and they ‘couldn’t do anything’. I was irate. My mom was probably even more irate. MIL was smug, oh so smug.
It was around this time that DH showed up, and MIL went right up to him and tried to hug him. He told her to get off him, and to never ever touch him again. She tried to say that he couldn’t tell her she wasn’t allowed to hug him, and an officer quickly assured her that he could in fact tell her that, and if she didn’t listen, she would end up in the back of his patrol car. She asked him if we were separated since we showed up separate, and he told her no. She asked if we were staying with my mom and he told her that we bought a home, and she didn’t get to know where. She burst into tears.
At this point, a cop pulled DH aside and asked if he was “maybe being a little too harsh on her?”. DH. Was. Pissed. He let the cop (respectfully) have it. He told her we have been dealing with her harassing us, showing up at our jobs, trying to sue for GPR, turning his family on us, and he was absolutely not being “too harsh”. I think something clicked hearing DH say it, and they told her she needed to leave and not return to the property. They told her she could receive a summons for breaking and entering still.
Now, to today.
We had our PO hearing. MIL represented herself. We spoke honestly about everything that had happened up to this point, and how we didn’t understand what made her do what she was doing because we were never keeping the girls from her. I was just recovering, and then out of nowhere she went crazy. She told the judge that all she wanted was a relationship with her family, and I was preventing that. She told the judge that I was abusive and was keeping my DH from his family, and that he didn’t want this, but was afraid to tell me no. She said I had isolated him from his family, and was surrounding him with mine to keep him doing what I tell him to do, and us living with my parents wasn’t healthy for DH or LO. It hurt to hear someone accuse me of being an abuser, and it really ticked me off to hear her speak poorly of my family who have been nothing but loving and supportive of us.
The judge asked DH if he felt unsafe, and he said no. He said that he wanted this because his mom just would not stop, and now he feared what her next steps would be. He said he was tired of her acting this way, and he didn’t understand why she was doing it. The judge asked him if he would be willing to speak to counselor who specializes in DV, just to prove to his mom that he was not being abused and he agreed.
She granted our PO, but told MIL if DH was being abused, she would terminate it. She explained to her that she needed to leave us alone. She couldn’t contact us in anyway including a third party (this includes a PI – I asked). She asked if she could write letters to the girls, and the judge told her absolutely not. She explained (again) that she could not have contact with any of us, including SD, in any form what-so-ever.
She waited for us outside of the courthouse. I saw her and told one of the officers, and they took us to a different exit, and we quickly made a mad-dash to our car. I decided to WFH today, and I still feel on edge. I’m not sure if she will follow the order or not, but at least if she doesn’t follow it there will be legal consequences, and she doesn’t have long to break it before we move any ways.
We are about to close the sale on our old house (thank God Step Dad is handy and was able to replace the window she broke – window replacement companies are like WEEKS out). I recently accepted a new job in a new state. Our offer was accepted on a new place in said state just last night. My parents are even wanting to move there with us and exploring their options.
I can’t thank the (probably 100) people who reached out to me when she made her other post enough, and thank everyone who validated me through both my posts and her posts. Its been really nice to be able to vent about this and write my thoughts down. Hopefully this is the last time you hear from me – good luck!
MIL, if you’re reading this, get bent.
2023.06.09 20:00 pukipuko are these foot problems related to each other?
17F, celiacs, ibs, pots diagnosed. i’ve been having some food problems for a few months. it started with both of my big toes being infected, then one of them became loose for the most part and the other for about half of the nail. i get blisters on my heels even tho i’ve never had that problem with the shoes i wear (i’ve had them for over 2 years) and my toes turn blue and i loose feeling in some of them even when it’s not cold. sometimes they turn red and a bit flakey. im wondering if these are probably all separate problems, or if these things all relate to each other? thanks in advance for anyone replying :)
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2023.06.09 18:45 Gelukzak Blue Lips?
 | Hi all! I’m still waiting to get assessed by a dysautonomia specialist. But the other doctors I’ve seen say it’s not POTS but a different type of dysautonomia I have. Has anyone experience blue lips like this? It will happen out of nowhere or when I use cannabis (vape). When my lips turn blue so do my nail beds (fingers and toes). My face goes super pale and I look a bit like corpse bride when it happens. The worst it’s been has been with cannabis, but I had been using it on and off for 8 months prior with no issue. I stopped using it in January but these discolorations still occur. Any thoughts, advice, or personal experience is appreciated! submitted by Gelukzak to dysautonomia [link] [comments] |
2023.06.09 18:02 SistersAntzy 'Blue Monday', By me, Acrylic on paper, 2023
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2023.06.09 17:56 desertkynes How to make the natural nails underneath look better
Hi, I got acrylics for the first time and I’ve had them maintained for 2 months. I really like them but I don’t like how it looks underneath and I’m insecure that it looks like I have dirty nails. They’re not(I use a nail brush to scrub them), but the color of the natural nail and the nail glue just looks ugly to me? Is this normal?
It could be that the black makes it look worse. My nail tech says it’s better to leave the natural nail long for the acrylic’s integrity which I understand. Anyway, is this just something to live with or how can I make them look cleaner?
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It could be that the black makes it look worse. My nail tech says it’s better to leave the natural nail long for the acrylic’s integrity which I understand. Anyway, is this just something to live with or how can I make them look cleaner?
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IN THIS TOP-SELLING PROGRAM, YOU’LL GET ACCESS TO: 2 “Core” ModulesThat will initiate you into the “Coaching The Conversion™ method, and how to leverage a new, more empowering definition of “direct response” that opens up the floodgates to greater intimacy, empathy, and conversions.5 “Launch” Modulesbreaking down every single phase of your launch or funnel in full detail (including some you didn’t even know existed). You’ll learn exactly what’s at play during the Segmentation & Confirmation, Pre-Launch, Launch, Sales and Closing phases of your funnel and how to quickly craft the messaging that coaches your prospect into the final conversion in a powerful, non-sleazy way.25+ Email TemplatesNone of that BS “plug’n’play” or “swipe and deploy” stuff that shoehorns your message into lifeless boxes that robs it of all life and power.Instead, you’ll get FULL breakdowns and walkthroughs of the go-to templates I turn to over-and-over again in 6 and 7-figure launch campaigns. Meaning, you get to craft your OWN high-converting launch emails in about 25 minutes flat and fire them into ConvertKit, ActiveCampaign (or wtv you’re using) while your coffee’s still hot. Program #2CTC Sales Pages(to master your long form sales page)This is it. It’s where the best paid copywriters, coaches and course marketers on the planet earn their keep. It’s where the conversion either happens or it doesn’t. In cold hard numbers that don’t care how many Clif bars you stress-ate in the process. It’s where the most admired online business owners transform interest, desire, and engagement and into what you actually want: Sales. So what is “it”? It’s your long-form sales page. And the truth is… most copywriters and marketers avoid long-form sales pages like the plague… treating it like a close-talking lepper with coffee breath… instead of the 24/7 salesperson your sales page – that final step in your marketing funnel – should be. So why do marketers (and even pro-level copywriters) avoid sales pages? Because writing a long-form sales page is intimidating AF. It’s the Night King of the Whitewalker army. It’s the Beef Wellington on Hell’s Kitchen. It’s the Lord Voldemort of your marketing funnel – aka the funnel asset that shall not be named. A long-form sales page is where you’ll spend dozens of hours writing THOUSANDS of words that will either confirm your claim as a top player in your space… Or will tell you with Gordon-Ramsay-esque candor that your marketing wasn’t as good as your business coach told you it was. There’s real pressure in that. But there’s even real-er payoff in being able to do it faster – and more profitably – than anyone else in your industry. A payoff that even affords you the right to make up words like real-er Confronting, yep? Conquerable. Absolutely. In CTC Sales Pages, you’ll go through the exact process I’ve used to write over twenty 6 and 7-figure sales pages for the likes of Amy Porterfield, Copyhackers, and many more. Program #3 & #4Six Figure Emails & Seven Figure Emails(for even more email conversion badassery)Welcome to the “Johnnie Walker Blue” of our email template series. This is the premium blend for more advanced marketing palates. All pulled straight from my highest-performing launches for industry titans like Amy Porterfield, Todd Herman, Traffic & Funnels, and Copyhackers. What you’re getting are 13 advanced email templates that you can use in a pinch when you need to write a standalone sales email, a webinar invitation, a post-webinar replay, downsell, or flash sale. To be clear, these aren’t those sketchy and lifeless “swipe and deploy” templates you may have seen swimming around the shadier parts of the online marketing cesspool. These are loose, flexible templates that guide you through deep-dive masterclasses teaching you the advanced psychology behind each one. Meaning, you actually understand WHY they work, and are fully empowered to engineer them to best serve your audience. Program #5Minimum Viable Launch 2.0(to quickly rock profitable and lean email launches)We’ve taken the single most impactful part of 10x Launches; the part that countless students have credited with producing game-changing ROI in record time… And given it a fresh-for-2022 facelift. Not only will you be getting access to a stack of NEW templates that we’ve added to the stack based on repeated tests and real-world results. But we’ll be offering you the one-click automation uploads to bring the whole sequence straight into your ActiveCampaign to save you and your team about 5+ hours of heavy-duty integration time. Program #6Application Funnel Amplifiers(for creating powerful pre-call enrollment experiences)Fact: The enrollment experience begins the moment your prospect books a call. If you mail it in for those 12-72 hours between when they book the call — and show up to it, you’re missing a golden opportunity to begin coaching the necessary transformations. In this brand new program, you’ll learn how we to consciously engineering your entire application experience to pre-empt objections, create magnetism, and stack the odds in favor of having a successful enrollment conversation You’ll get practical answers to:
Program #7Next-Level Automation & Optimization Stack(upcoming and ongoing automation tutorials)As the CTC Membership evolves, our resident Wizard, Philip Powis will be actively adding a library of importable one-click automations (into ActiveCampaign), leveraged software playbooks, and a running list of the most advanced (and cost effective) tools and systems that he recommends for fast-scaling course and coaching businesses. Courses proof (screenshots for example, or 1 free sample video from the course) are available upon demand, simply Contact us here |
2023.06.09 17:48 Competitive-Army7264 Need help identifying them please
Found in cow manure. The second one is kinda old with some insects bites or something (if it is cubensis can i still eat the old one?). Tried to bruise them but no blue color.
https://reddit.com/link/1458sd6/video/7ys2kuuri05b1/player
There is some blue at the base but idk if that counts because i didnt bruise it, it was there before
The little spot i pointed at is what i bruised with my nails, kind of a brownish color
Also how long does it take to bruise blue? I bruised it like 1 hour or 45 mins ago
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https://reddit.com/link/1458sd6/video/7ys2kuuri05b1/player
There is some blue at the base but idk if that counts because i didnt bruise it, it was there before
The little spot i pointed at is what i bruised with my nails, kind of a brownish color
Also how long does it take to bruise blue? I bruised it like 1 hour or 45 mins ago
2023.06.09 17:26 SistersAntzy 'Blue Monday', By me, Acrylic on paper, 2023
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2023.06.09 16:52 AutoModerator [Genkicourses.site] [Get] RY Schwartz – Coaching The Conversion CTC Circle (10/2022) - Full Course Download
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IN THIS TOP-SELLING PROGRAM, YOU’LL GET ACCESS TO: 2 “Core” ModulesThat will initiate you into the “Coaching The Conversion™ method, and how to leverage a new, more empowering definition of “direct response” that opens up the floodgates to greater intimacy, empathy, and conversions.5 “Launch” Modulesbreaking down every single phase of your launch or funnel in full detail (including some you didn’t even know existed). You’ll learn exactly what’s at play during the Segmentation & Confirmation, Pre-Launch, Launch, Sales and Closing phases of your funnel and how to quickly craft the messaging that coaches your prospect into the final conversion in a powerful, non-sleazy way.25+ Email TemplatesNone of that BS “plug’n’play” or “swipe and deploy” stuff that shoehorns your message into lifeless boxes that robs it of all life and power.Instead, you’ll get FULL breakdowns and walkthroughs of the go-to templates I turn to over-and-over again in 6 and 7-figure launch campaigns. Meaning, you get to craft your OWN high-converting launch emails in about 25 minutes flat and fire them into ConvertKit, ActiveCampaign (or wtv you’re using) while your coffee’s still hot. Program #2CTC Sales Pages(to master your long form sales page)This is it. It’s where the best paid copywriters, coaches and course marketers on the planet earn their keep. It’s where the conversion either happens or it doesn’t. In cold hard numbers that don’t care how many Clif bars you stress-ate in the process. It’s where the most admired online business owners transform interest, desire, and engagement and into what you actually want: Sales. So what is “it”? It’s your long-form sales page. And the truth is… most copywriters and marketers avoid long-form sales pages like the plague… treating it like a close-talking lepper with coffee breath… instead of the 24/7 salesperson your sales page – that final step in your marketing funnel – should be. So why do marketers (and even pro-level copywriters) avoid sales pages? Because writing a long-form sales page is intimidating AF. It’s the Night King of the Whitewalker army. It’s the Beef Wellington on Hell’s Kitchen. It’s the Lord Voldemort of your marketing funnel – aka the funnel asset that shall not be named. A long-form sales page is where you’ll spend dozens of hours writing THOUSANDS of words that will either confirm your claim as a top player in your space… Or will tell you with Gordon-Ramsay-esque candor that your marketing wasn’t as good as your business coach told you it was. There’s real pressure in that. But there’s even real-er payoff in being able to do it faster – and more profitably – than anyone else in your industry. A payoff that even affords you the right to make up words like real-er Confronting, yep? Conquerable. Absolutely. In CTC Sales Pages, you’ll go through the exact process I’ve used to write over twenty 6 and 7-figure sales pages for the likes of Amy Porterfield, Copyhackers, and many more. Program #3 & #4Six Figure Emails & Seven Figure Emails(for even more email conversion badassery)Welcome to the “Johnnie Walker Blue” of our email template series. This is the premium blend for more advanced marketing palates. All pulled straight from my highest-performing launches for industry titans like Amy Porterfield, Todd Herman, Traffic & Funnels, and Copyhackers. What you’re getting are 13 advanced email templates that you can use in a pinch when you need to write a standalone sales email, a webinar invitation, a post-webinar replay, downsell, or flash sale. To be clear, these aren’t those sketchy and lifeless “swipe and deploy” templates you may have seen swimming around the shadier parts of the online marketing cesspool. These are loose, flexible templates that guide you through deep-dive masterclasses teaching you the advanced psychology behind each one. Meaning, you actually understand WHY they work, and are fully empowered to engineer them to best serve your audience. Program #5Minimum Viable Launch 2.0(to quickly rock profitable and lean email launches)We’ve taken the single most impactful part of 10x Launches; the part that countless students have credited with producing game-changing ROI in record time… And given it a fresh-for-2022 facelift. Not only will you be getting access to a stack of NEW templates that we’ve added to the stack based on repeated tests and real-world results. But we’ll be offering you the one-click automation uploads to bring the whole sequence straight into your ActiveCampaign to save you and your team about 5+ hours of heavy-duty integration time. Program #6Application Funnel Amplifiers(for creating powerful pre-call enrollment experiences)Fact: The enrollment experience begins the moment your prospect books a call. If you mail it in for those 12-72 hours between when they book the call — and show up to it, you’re missing a golden opportunity to begin coaching the necessary transformations. In this brand new program, you’ll learn how we to consciously engineering your entire application experience to pre-empt objections, create magnetism, and stack the odds in favor of having a successful enrollment conversation You’ll get practical answers to:
Program #7Next-Level Automation & Optimization Stack(upcoming and ongoing automation tutorials)As the CTC Membership evolves, our resident Wizard, Philip Powis will be actively adding a library of importable one-click automations (into ActiveCampaign), leveraged software playbooks, and a running list of the most advanced (and cost effective) tools and systems that he recommends for fast-scaling course and coaching businesses. Courses proof (screenshots for example, or 1 free sample video from the course) are available upon demand, simply Contact us here |
2023.06.09 16:46 Ghostepeppermint Today I probably ruined my life.
I'm 24M who grew up in a fairly wealthy family for my country's economy, i have to admit i'm very immature, do to many things being solved for me, which im not proud to say.
I was holding a job that i didn't really like, the work enviroment at first was great but it slowly worsen, if you're curious to know i'll explain. I volunteered my house for a party and some of the attendees trash my house, i was suposed to cook some meat bbq style which is tradionally done on social gatherings in my home country.
However i was doing everything by myself, the rain came pooring down on me like the november rain music video and everything was ruined, i did my best and cooked the meat half drunk on a stove top and oven wich didn't turn out great.
Next day work's group chat everyone was upset at me because i didn't cook the meat on time. I asked for help multiple times ans nobody helped, i got insulted on a personal and profesional level.
I didn't think much of it until monday came and everyone was distant to me. I felt really isolated and uncomfortable and i decided to quit yesterday. The eviroment was getting to hard for me to handle, and i only took the job to save some money to move away to a new country in the first place.
I was suposed to be leaving in july 6, so it was basically just a couple of weeks. However i decided i needed a break from my coworkers and work.
To clarify i still live with my parents, wich to some of you in america might look really bad bud trust me, here down in south america is nothing but common, i was saving to move away like i said.
I woke up today and my parents where yelling at me very nasty things kinda reminded me of that twisted sister video where the father yells at his son. But it was not normal yelling, they were calling me very abusive names, and basically treating me like garbage, the nail on the coffin was when they called me a disgrace and a mistake. That how can i at my age not graduated from college already and achieve everything on life.
This really hurted me because i have very strong complexes do to me being adopted. They kept on telling me how much of a disgrace and shame i'm to family and how i make them look bad as parents. This is not the first time they've done this. They always use verh hurtful words or physical violence to prove a point. I know this might sound weird to you up north but it's very common and normal to beat up your kids in third world countries.
I grew up suffering from bullying, and being told by many teacher's im a failure and i'm going to hell, for my music, my haircut and my personality. I'd like to clarify im not a college dropout, i stop studying law school to pursuit and culinary carreer my parents where very supporting i really appreciated that however, they always make horrible comments about me not being a doctor like them or my other family members.
After 2 hours of being yelled at, my mom threatened to throw my drums away and kick me out of the house and stop supporting me in me moving away. And yes, im not ashamed of telling you all that my parents where supporting me on moving out of the country, it's never easy. Anyways they said they will no longer help me do to me being a quitter and a loser and disgrace and all of that.
So i just walk out of the house, with some of my stuff. I told them i will no longer need their money or help, that im not moving away and that i'll pick up my stuff next week.
I have no where to go, im literally wearing basically my pjs on a wendy's as i'm typing this. I know i sound very inmature but dealing with bullys and abusers all my life has taken a toll on me.
This is also a very tough decision for me do to having a long distance relationship of three years with a wonderful woman i met online. And we've been visiting each other for the past three years. I was very happy to finally close the distance, however that wont be posible for at least a couple of years from now, do to the recent events on my life.
I feel lost and i feel like i have nowhere to go.
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I was holding a job that i didn't really like, the work enviroment at first was great but it slowly worsen, if you're curious to know i'll explain. I volunteered my house for a party and some of the attendees trash my house, i was suposed to cook some meat bbq style which is tradionally done on social gatherings in my home country.
However i was doing everything by myself, the rain came pooring down on me like the november rain music video and everything was ruined, i did my best and cooked the meat half drunk on a stove top and oven wich didn't turn out great.
Next day work's group chat everyone was upset at me because i didn't cook the meat on time. I asked for help multiple times ans nobody helped, i got insulted on a personal and profesional level.
I didn't think much of it until monday came and everyone was distant to me. I felt really isolated and uncomfortable and i decided to quit yesterday. The eviroment was getting to hard for me to handle, and i only took the job to save some money to move away to a new country in the first place.
I was suposed to be leaving in july 6, so it was basically just a couple of weeks. However i decided i needed a break from my coworkers and work.
To clarify i still live with my parents, wich to some of you in america might look really bad bud trust me, here down in south america is nothing but common, i was saving to move away like i said.
I woke up today and my parents where yelling at me very nasty things kinda reminded me of that twisted sister video where the father yells at his son. But it was not normal yelling, they were calling me very abusive names, and basically treating me like garbage, the nail on the coffin was when they called me a disgrace and a mistake. That how can i at my age not graduated from college already and achieve everything on life.
This really hurted me because i have very strong complexes do to me being adopted. They kept on telling me how much of a disgrace and shame i'm to family and how i make them look bad as parents. This is not the first time they've done this. They always use verh hurtful words or physical violence to prove a point. I know this might sound weird to you up north but it's very common and normal to beat up your kids in third world countries.
I grew up suffering from bullying, and being told by many teacher's im a failure and i'm going to hell, for my music, my haircut and my personality. I'd like to clarify im not a college dropout, i stop studying law school to pursuit and culinary carreer my parents where very supporting i really appreciated that however, they always make horrible comments about me not being a doctor like them or my other family members.
After 2 hours of being yelled at, my mom threatened to throw my drums away and kick me out of the house and stop supporting me in me moving away. And yes, im not ashamed of telling you all that my parents where supporting me on moving out of the country, it's never easy. Anyways they said they will no longer help me do to me being a quitter and a loser and disgrace and all of that.
So i just walk out of the house, with some of my stuff. I told them i will no longer need their money or help, that im not moving away and that i'll pick up my stuff next week.
I have no where to go, im literally wearing basically my pjs on a wendy's as i'm typing this. I know i sound very inmature but dealing with bullys and abusers all my life has taken a toll on me.
This is also a very tough decision for me do to having a long distance relationship of three years with a wonderful woman i met online. And we've been visiting each other for the past three years. I was very happy to finally close the distance, however that wont be posible for at least a couple of years from now, do to the recent events on my life.
I feel lost and i feel like i have nowhere to go.
2023.06.09 16:12 Simian_Stacker The Fed's CBDC will be the last nail in the coffin of what remains of our "liberty." Embrace your lifetime of serfdom, Millennials & Gen-Zs.
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2023.06.09 16:10 proximuse my sister keeps saying she wants to kill herself but i know as well as anyone that i can't call 911 for her or admit her to a psych ward that's just going to make it worse
i'm 23, my sister is 30. i live in europe and she lives in the north-east of the US and there's very little i can do from here.
first off i don't blame her. from living paycheck to paycheck to handling everything about adulthood on her own with people who don't give a shit about her, she's been passively suicidal for pretty much her whole life, but over the past few years she's lost so much. two of her childhood pets that were the only things that gave her true comfort, about whom she joked a whole lot in their old age that she'd kill herself when both of them died.
well, last year was the year it happened. this was after already losing a close friend she was on bad terms with at the time to a housefire, and after losing our cousin to a brain hemorrhage. among others. but she hung on. she was posting about missing them daily, and that remained her coping mechanism. and in the middle of that existing grief, her best friend, the only friend she had that was loyal enough to drop everything on a dime and be with her in person when she needed it, the only friend that truly listened, suddenly died in a motorcycle accident.
one after the other after the other, before she could ever recover from the previous deaths. she's dealing with not only grief, but guilt that she could've been there and done something to save her. this is the last nail in the coffin. my mom, who moved back to the state to be with her in her grief, says she talks about killing herself every day. when i checked in with her, the first thing she said to me was "honestly sissy, i just want to die." when i asked her to promise me to at least hold on until i could come visit her later in the summer, she said "i'm sorry, but i can't. i can promise i'll try. but i can't promise. i'm tired. it's too much."
and i don't blame her. she's been fucked over by so many people, and she's lost countless others. the society she lives in doesn't make it any better.
and here's why i decided to post this in this sub rather than in off my chest or any other mental health community: no matter who i vent to about this, they all say the same thing. call 911. get her involuntarily committed, she's a danger to herself. she needs professional help.
she's been 51/50'd before, and it didn't fucking help. she maintains to this day that she's grateful to absolutely no one for "saving her life" at the time, because the way they treated her in that glorified prison ended up making shit worse for her. the entire 72 hour hold she just wanted OUT and eventually she played the game of pretending she felt better so they stopped surveying her like a hawk.
she also cannot financially afford to be locked up and drugged like that against her will. the police don't know how to handle suicidal people besides handcuffing and treating them like criminals, which is what happened the last time someone called 911 for her. while i can admit that some psych wards are better than others, the ones in her vicinity are all abusive and do more harm than good.
so i'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. she says she needs IN PERSON comfort. talking about it or having calls with loved ones does nothing, and she's being overworked to hell at her job and gets max 4 hours of sleep per night with a 4 hour roundtrip commute.
i'm trying to come to terms with the fact that it's her life and she's autonomous when it comes to what she can or can't handle. i've seen first hand how bad luck has targeted her and if i were in her position i probably would've offed myself a long time ago. but now it feels like i'm existing on an inhale, expecting that at any moment i'll get a message or a call that she's gone.
all i can do is scrounge up enough money over the next few months to come visit so i can be with her physically (which is the only thing she needs right now), but i don't know if she has that much time. with her job keeping her away from home 18 hours a day, i feel all it takes is one more thing to go wrong for her to impulsively swerve the wheel during the commute and it'll be over. i can't be present to make sure that doesn't happen.
so i don't know. i've had this sick feeling for a long, long time that i can't see her making it past 35 and i'm pretty sure she feels the same about herself. i'm stuck between respecting her decision if she goes through with it and anticipating a crushing guilt that there's something i could've done to prevent it. but there's nothing else to do that won't make it worse. i feel so horrible for her. and so helpless
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first off i don't blame her. from living paycheck to paycheck to handling everything about adulthood on her own with people who don't give a shit about her, she's been passively suicidal for pretty much her whole life, but over the past few years she's lost so much. two of her childhood pets that were the only things that gave her true comfort, about whom she joked a whole lot in their old age that she'd kill herself when both of them died.
well, last year was the year it happened. this was after already losing a close friend she was on bad terms with at the time to a housefire, and after losing our cousin to a brain hemorrhage. among others. but she hung on. she was posting about missing them daily, and that remained her coping mechanism. and in the middle of that existing grief, her best friend, the only friend she had that was loyal enough to drop everything on a dime and be with her in person when she needed it, the only friend that truly listened, suddenly died in a motorcycle accident.
one after the other after the other, before she could ever recover from the previous deaths. she's dealing with not only grief, but guilt that she could've been there and done something to save her. this is the last nail in the coffin. my mom, who moved back to the state to be with her in her grief, says she talks about killing herself every day. when i checked in with her, the first thing she said to me was "honestly sissy, i just want to die." when i asked her to promise me to at least hold on until i could come visit her later in the summer, she said "i'm sorry, but i can't. i can promise i'll try. but i can't promise. i'm tired. it's too much."
and i don't blame her. she's been fucked over by so many people, and she's lost countless others. the society she lives in doesn't make it any better.
and here's why i decided to post this in this sub rather than in off my chest or any other mental health community: no matter who i vent to about this, they all say the same thing. call 911. get her involuntarily committed, she's a danger to herself. she needs professional help.
she's been 51/50'd before, and it didn't fucking help. she maintains to this day that she's grateful to absolutely no one for "saving her life" at the time, because the way they treated her in that glorified prison ended up making shit worse for her. the entire 72 hour hold she just wanted OUT and eventually she played the game of pretending she felt better so they stopped surveying her like a hawk.
she also cannot financially afford to be locked up and drugged like that against her will. the police don't know how to handle suicidal people besides handcuffing and treating them like criminals, which is what happened the last time someone called 911 for her. while i can admit that some psych wards are better than others, the ones in her vicinity are all abusive and do more harm than good.
so i'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. she says she needs IN PERSON comfort. talking about it or having calls with loved ones does nothing, and she's being overworked to hell at her job and gets max 4 hours of sleep per night with a 4 hour roundtrip commute.
i'm trying to come to terms with the fact that it's her life and she's autonomous when it comes to what she can or can't handle. i've seen first hand how bad luck has targeted her and if i were in her position i probably would've offed myself a long time ago. but now it feels like i'm existing on an inhale, expecting that at any moment i'll get a message or a call that she's gone.
all i can do is scrounge up enough money over the next few months to come visit so i can be with her physically (which is the only thing she needs right now), but i don't know if she has that much time. with her job keeping her away from home 18 hours a day, i feel all it takes is one more thing to go wrong for her to impulsively swerve the wheel during the commute and it'll be over. i can't be present to make sure that doesn't happen.
so i don't know. i've had this sick feeling for a long, long time that i can't see her making it past 35 and i'm pretty sure she feels the same about herself. i'm stuck between respecting her decision if she goes through with it and anticipating a crushing guilt that there's something i could've done to prevent it. but there's nothing else to do that won't make it worse. i feel so horrible for her. and so helpless
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2023.06.09 15:39 Alexa-endmylife-ok People who use Python for data analysis are morally superior than people who use R.
I just want to start by saying this isn't meant to personally attack anyone, it's just my opinion.
Python mercilessly trumps R when it comes to data analysis - leaving it in the dust of irrelevance. Python's general-purpose nature, backed by POWERFUL libraries like Pandas & NumPy, combined with its adoption in various industries solidifies its superior over the antiquated R language.
First. Python's general-purpose/wide capabilities nature gives it a massive edge that R could only dream of. Sure - R may have been designed SPECIFICALLY for statistical computing, but this just goes to show how morally corrupt people who claim it is better than python analytics actually are. Python effortlessly handles not just data analysis, but also a vast array of other tasks. This means Python's versatility says you can work on data manipulation, machine learning, web development, or even a robot army - all within ONE language. People who limit themselves to the wishy-washy R language do not have a conscience & truly wish to make the world harder for everyone else.
Second. Python has extensive libraries like Pandas & NumPy. These deliver knockout blows to R's feeble attempts to keep up. Panda offers an extremely powerful & intuitive framework for data manipulation/analysis. This makes doing complex tasks a breeze. NumPy, while extremely efficient for numerical calculation, leaves the SLOW & SLUGGISH R's calculations trailing far behind. These libraries, combined with a massive growing ecosystem of tools & packages, alone, proves that people who prefer R are just naysayers & wouldn't know a good idea if it hit them in the head.
Last. Python's widespread adoption in the data analysis industry is the final nail in R's coffin. Looking at startups to tech giants - Python dominates the data analysis landscape. Data scientists, developers, & researches all consistently use python analytics to perform their daily work. Ask yourself. Why would these experts in these fields be using Python rather than R? It's a silly, rhetorical question clearly (I don't expect R users to know what rhetorical means - it means I am not actually asking a question).
Choosing R is like willingly isolating yourself on a desolate island, refusing to use even a rock attached to a stick because it is too advanced technology.
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Python mercilessly trumps R when it comes to data analysis - leaving it in the dust of irrelevance. Python's general-purpose nature, backed by POWERFUL libraries like Pandas & NumPy, combined with its adoption in various industries solidifies its superior over the antiquated R language.
First. Python's general-purpose/wide capabilities nature gives it a massive edge that R could only dream of. Sure - R may have been designed SPECIFICALLY for statistical computing, but this just goes to show how morally corrupt people who claim it is better than python analytics actually are. Python effortlessly handles not just data analysis, but also a vast array of other tasks. This means Python's versatility says you can work on data manipulation, machine learning, web development, or even a robot army - all within ONE language. People who limit themselves to the wishy-washy R language do not have a conscience & truly wish to make the world harder for everyone else.
Second. Python has extensive libraries like Pandas & NumPy. These deliver knockout blows to R's feeble attempts to keep up. Panda offers an extremely powerful & intuitive framework for data manipulation/analysis. This makes doing complex tasks a breeze. NumPy, while extremely efficient for numerical calculation, leaves the SLOW & SLUGGISH R's calculations trailing far behind. These libraries, combined with a massive growing ecosystem of tools & packages, alone, proves that people who prefer R are just naysayers & wouldn't know a good idea if it hit them in the head.
Last. Python's widespread adoption in the data analysis industry is the final nail in R's coffin. Looking at startups to tech giants - Python dominates the data analysis landscape. Data scientists, developers, & researches all consistently use python analytics to perform their daily work. Ask yourself. Why would these experts in these fields be using Python rather than R? It's a silly, rhetorical question clearly (I don't expect R users to know what rhetorical means - it means I am not actually asking a question).
Choosing R is like willingly isolating yourself on a desolate island, refusing to use even a rock attached to a stick because it is too advanced technology.
2023.06.09 15:38 Iamfedora420 Pisces Scorpio compatibility
I'll keep this brief(ish). Long story short, I (25m) had a multi-month fling with a scorpio woman (33f) and it's been hot and cold ever since. She and I seemed to have some kind of psychic connection that was almost unexplainable. She has been out of state for some time due to work, and it has seemed to fizzle. Initially we were texting every day and it turned very one sided (on my end) and now I have stopped initiating conversation all together only to be met with weeks of silence.
I'm a pisces sun, aqua moon, and Virgo rising. She is a friend of my mothers and was staying with my family for some time and we kept things secret initially. It was fun, very fun. Now I feel that she was more interested in the situation than me, and that I was dillusional to think it could have actually turned into something real. This may be my pisces talking, but it seemed like I had finally found someone that I could confide in and truly open up to, and maybe have the chance to really let my love flow into them. That seems further in the past day by day.
Any scorpios out there that can put the final nail in this proverbial coffin? Or maybe a pisces with a similar experience that could share some desperately needed wisdom?
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I'm a pisces sun, aqua moon, and Virgo rising. She is a friend of my mothers and was staying with my family for some time and we kept things secret initially. It was fun, very fun. Now I feel that she was more interested in the situation than me, and that I was dillusional to think it could have actually turned into something real. This may be my pisces talking, but it seemed like I had finally found someone that I could confide in and truly open up to, and maybe have the chance to really let my love flow into them. That seems further in the past day by day.
Any scorpios out there that can put the final nail in this proverbial coffin? Or maybe a pisces with a similar experience that could share some desperately needed wisdom?
2023.06.09 15:34 Jizzbart Misinterpretation of neuronal fusion study
There’s been a few articles about the recent neuronal fusion study being shared and generating some fear. The researchers themselves have also been in the media doing some pretty irresponsible extrapolating from their result as well. There are some major flaws with the idea that neuronal fusion is responsible for Long Covid brain fog:
While the findings in the study are worth noting/exploring, they’re not something i would spend any time worrying about.
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- The study used mouse brain tissue and synthesized human brain tissue (organoids) in petri dishes. This does not replicate what the virus actually does in the human body. Another study subjected brain organoids to covid and found something completely different (microglial synapse elimination). Findings from these kind of in vitro studies should be interpreted as “we found a possible clue that can only be verified with a lot more research and in vivo findings” not “we solved the puzzle.”
- This is the biggest flaw and the nail in the coffin in terms of the idea that this is responsible for the type of brain fog that the vast, vast majority of Long Covid patients suffer from. In both mouse and human brain tissue, the neuronal fusion had already occured 72 hours post infection. This would mean the damage would already have been done within three days of acute infection. This does not track with the typical onset of brain fog, which often takes a month or more to present after infection.
While the findings in the study are worth noting/exploring, they’re not something i would spend any time worrying about.