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Did Ross and Rachel ever really break up?
2019.07.08 09:28 substance_d Did Ross and Rachel ever really break up?
*The One Where Ross And Rachel Take A Break* might be the name of the episode, but yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.
2020.06.24 20:32 ItsANeetYeet GachaUnityRiseUp
i swear to god this sub is still on, but people forgot about its existence (༎ຶ ෴ ༎ຶ)-
2014.12.19 08:01 Don't text your ex, post here instead!
Sometimes, the hardest part of a break up is losing that person you can share anything with. Did you see or hear something funny and you want to tell someone? Did you try a new food or drink that you thought your ex would enjoy? Did you accidentally do something that reminded you of them? It's awful losing that. Even if you've never had it - if you want to share a part of your day that you can't really tell anyone else, this is the place!
2023.03.23 09:37 mcaulayculkin-milf woke up during an endoscopy.
Hi everyone,
I had been struggling with severe acid reflux over the past few years. I was prescribed a few different medications to try with no relief so my gp had referred me to a surgeon to get an upper endoscopy. I refused at first, due to fear, but after an especially bad night with heartburn and burning, I decided to at least go in for a consult. We ended up scheduling the endoscopy 3 weeks in advance.
Leading up to the appointment, I was terrified. I spent a lot of nights crying and debated cancelling more times than I could count, but in the end I had heard many many success stories and told myself “it can’t be that bad”. I was wrong.
I had never been sedated, given an IV, or had any procedure done up until this point. I have severe anxiety surrounding hospitals and sedatives so as you can imagine, I was a reck the morning of.
Once I got there, I felt okay. I’d really allowed myself to relax. The IV was easy peasy, I felt calm and comfortable. I was brought into the OR and it went well. They gave me medication and I don’t even remember falling asleep but I definitely did. I don’t remember anything until I suddenly came back to consciousness while the tube was being inserted.
I was gagging so badly that I had thrown up. My brain didn’t even register what exactly was happening, I was overwhelmed by pain and the sensation of choking. I even remember reaching out trying to grab the tube and rip it out of my throat. I had to be held down. Luckily, I fell back asleep and don’t remember anything else from the procedure. What happened to me was enough to ruin the entire experience for me.
I’m now laying in my bed, many hours after the procedure, and I’m constantly having flashbacks to that terrifying moment when I opened my eyes. I feel like, had I been awake from the beginning, it would not have affected me the way it did. I was laughing about it to my friends, my parents, and it wasn’t until I told my girlfriend that I realized I’m actually not okay with what happened. It was one of the scariest experience of my life and the rawness of my throat is just reminding me of what I felt at the time. To preface, I have a phobia of choking AND of vomit. I’d never even been able to swallow a pill before, for those reasons, but they told me it would be fine. I just truly hope I never have to do that again. I don’t think I would be able to.
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I had been struggling with severe acid reflux over the past few years. I was prescribed a few different medications to try with no relief so my gp had referred me to a surgeon to get an upper endoscopy. I refused at first, due to fear, but after an especially bad night with heartburn and burning, I decided to at least go in for a consult. We ended up scheduling the endoscopy 3 weeks in advance.
Leading up to the appointment, I was terrified. I spent a lot of nights crying and debated cancelling more times than I could count, but in the end I had heard many many success stories and told myself “it can’t be that bad”. I was wrong.
I had never been sedated, given an IV, or had any procedure done up until this point. I have severe anxiety surrounding hospitals and sedatives so as you can imagine, I was a reck the morning of.
Once I got there, I felt okay. I’d really allowed myself to relax. The IV was easy peasy, I felt calm and comfortable. I was brought into the OR and it went well. They gave me medication and I don’t even remember falling asleep but I definitely did. I don’t remember anything until I suddenly came back to consciousness while the tube was being inserted.
I was gagging so badly that I had thrown up. My brain didn’t even register what exactly was happening, I was overwhelmed by pain and the sensation of choking. I even remember reaching out trying to grab the tube and rip it out of my throat. I had to be held down. Luckily, I fell back asleep and don’t remember anything else from the procedure. What happened to me was enough to ruin the entire experience for me.
I’m now laying in my bed, many hours after the procedure, and I’m constantly having flashbacks to that terrifying moment when I opened my eyes. I feel like, had I been awake from the beginning, it would not have affected me the way it did. I was laughing about it to my friends, my parents, and it wasn’t until I told my girlfriend that I realized I’m actually not okay with what happened. It was one of the scariest experience of my life and the rawness of my throat is just reminding me of what I felt at the time. To preface, I have a phobia of choking AND of vomit. I’d never even been able to swallow a pill before, for those reasons, but they told me it would be fine. I just truly hope I never have to do that again. I don’t think I would be able to.
2023.03.23 09:36 whatisloveooohbaby High tea and merigoround thoughts
Merigoround and never thoughts cross my mind. Dream states and wishful thinking, about right! Feeling like we turn in circles over and over again, sensing the thoughts of what will be.
Living life in a clouded state of misjudgement and confusion, holding down my drink, well hopefully and then telling myself sweet, sweet lies … me and my arms hold up the ups and downs of sweetness.
A degree of regret of what will be. The worry of our hearts being torn, evidence of the never and then being convicted of that very crime. Behind the bars, I serve the drinks and look up at those very stars.
Well … yeah bad mistakes get made and yes both heads and hearts hurt. That is the burden it in our hands.
In the end, autumn leaves fall, ever wished was what was. Did you ever wish ? I ever wished once that you would know.
Life is tough and unfair. I make the best because, well brave is how I feel. Yeah I miss you but I don’t know who you are or if you ever existed.
Oh yeah da fuck, fwiw probably not much) ❤️ love the wind howling in my face through the window and the bitter taste of the cold and I’m a bad boy!
P.s. your a good girl 👧 free!
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Living life in a clouded state of misjudgement and confusion, holding down my drink, well hopefully and then telling myself sweet, sweet lies … me and my arms hold up the ups and downs of sweetness.
A degree of regret of what will be. The worry of our hearts being torn, evidence of the never and then being convicted of that very crime. Behind the bars, I serve the drinks and look up at those very stars.
Well … yeah bad mistakes get made and yes both heads and hearts hurt. That is the burden it in our hands.
In the end, autumn leaves fall, ever wished was what was. Did you ever wish ? I ever wished once that you would know.
Life is tough and unfair. I make the best because, well brave is how I feel. Yeah I miss you but I don’t know who you are or if you ever existed.
Oh yeah da fuck, fwiw probably not much) ❤️ love the wind howling in my face through the window and the bitter taste of the cold and I’m a bad boy!
P.s. your a good girl 👧 free!
2023.03.23 09:36 Mysterious_Sugar7220 Leaving kids with narcissistic dad
No idea what to do...
Basically I'm a single parent of a 5 yo, 1.5yo and newborn. Ndad who I'm very low contact with wants to take the two older kids (whom he knows, they're fine with him) for the weekend to a big family event.
I'm now no-contact with all his side of the family due to emotional abuse (I was the scapegoat).
I am EXHAUSTED. Like sick with tiredness. I need a break. Can't get a weekend off any other way.
I know it will be a huge 'win' for him if he shows up with them. Tons of gossip and bullshit. He's been sending me messages asking for me to let them come, saying 'please think of the children,' 'don't deprive them' etc.
It's the typical stuff he used to manipulate me with, like saying stuff like 'You're insane' and 'It's terrifying to listen to you' to make me too scared to become independent.
But...I really need some time. I'm burnt out.
What do you guys think? I posted this question on another mom group and was just attacked, people saying I was equally abusive if I let them stay with him, if it were them it wouldn't matter how tired they were. Easy to say!!!
I'm so conflicted.
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Basically I'm a single parent of a 5 yo, 1.5yo and newborn. Ndad who I'm very low contact with wants to take the two older kids (whom he knows, they're fine with him) for the weekend to a big family event.
I'm now no-contact with all his side of the family due to emotional abuse (I was the scapegoat).
I am EXHAUSTED. Like sick with tiredness. I need a break. Can't get a weekend off any other way.
I know it will be a huge 'win' for him if he shows up with them. Tons of gossip and bullshit. He's been sending me messages asking for me to let them come, saying 'please think of the children,' 'don't deprive them' etc.
It's the typical stuff he used to manipulate me with, like saying stuff like 'You're insane' and 'It's terrifying to listen to you' to make me too scared to become independent.
But...I really need some time. I'm burnt out.
What do you guys think? I posted this question on another mom group and was just attacked, people saying I was equally abusive if I let them stay with him, if it were them it wouldn't matter how tired they were. Easy to say!!!
I'm so conflicted.
2023.03.23 09:36 yeeter_19 I am a very hopeless case and I am going crazy
I have memories and more and more memories keep coming up and freaking me out and questions keep coming up and it's getting more and more real.I can't process why this happened to me and even if I don't want to think about it, it's still in my head all day.It's breaking me down and the guilt and anxiety of why this and similar things happened
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2023.03.23 09:35 CardiologistOk2408 Should I -(35M) fight for her (32F)?
I have been dating this girl since 8 years and know her for almost 10+ years. Everything was going fine, ups and downs in a usual relationship which were handled and solved. We got engaged but unfortunately i lost my job within few months after that. I was unemployed for a year and then got a job through her dad’s reference. I was excited to join the firm and ready to work so I could get married to her in the future. However when i joined the firm, i was assigned on a project that was 80% over and i had to fill in on information with a deadline given without knowing what the project was about and i had go through everything with time. Pressure of the work was not the issue but i blank out regarding the work given and i did not know how to complete it and was not given any guidance as the manager and the partner were not in office most of the time and were wfh(working from home). So i asked the manager if i could work from home, he said yes. But i could not do the work because i did not know what to do so i started making excuses not to go office and do the work which backfired on me. I had lied at home that i was working from home, but was supposed to go office, as i dint and with time the company decided to terminate me. ( I did not tell anyone about it) So my future father in law got to know about this and told my dad that i was lying about going to office regarding my attendance and my fiance was really furious and wanted to call it off. I got scared and made a story to both the families that i would handle the situation by going office and talking it out, but i did not do it but was looking for another job. So i told everyone that i went to office ( i did not go) but i caught got regarding that as well and confessed it all. I got terminated anyway but i lied to both families and messed things up. I lied and wasnt truthful regarding my work thing but it has reached to a call off because i lied regarding work and they don’t trust me. She has kinda called it off but i still love her and want her back. Im going thru therapy to improve myself for the better so i could get her back.
I messed up, but did not commit a crime or cheat or do any fraud :(:( Any help guys :(:(
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I messed up, but did not commit a crime or cheat or do any fraud :(:( Any help guys :(:(
2023.03.23 09:35 lukegraus Tomatoes in oil gone gross?
I tried (and clearly failed) to dry cherry tomatoes in the oven, then chucked them in oil in a sealed jar, following tips from some website. Now the oil seems to be like half melted butter, not as thick, but that's what it looks like. If that makes sense.
What did I screw up?
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What did I screw up?
2023.03.23 09:35 Deimne22 MWO: Returning player after 11 years, where to start?
I've been playing Mechwarrior 5, and that kind of re sparked my interest in MWO, along with having a gaming rig again that is capable of playing at great resolution, and a bit more free time again to actually play.
I played MWO a lot up until my son was born, and obviously my priorities changed because we moved cities and I was a father. The last thing I did before I packed up my PC to move was play one last match of MWO because I knew it would be the last time for quite a while.
I was a legendary founder, loved MWO, and played on the regular when it was a much simpler 8v8 game. I had a blast running my Atlas AS7-D(F), and had a boom cat that I ran in a group when it was ridiculously overpowered.
Last night, I browsed through my profile, reinstalled the game, logged in and I'm completely lost. The skill system looks insane, I don't know where to spend XP, there seems to be a lot of different kinds of xp and so. As a player returning after 11 years, where should I start?
Here is what i have to work with:
Banked Premium Time: 5,596 Hours General XP: 322,416 Loyalty Points: 40 MC: 10,633 CBills: 3,691,943
Any advice is super appreciated!
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I played MWO a lot up until my son was born, and obviously my priorities changed because we moved cities and I was a father. The last thing I did before I packed up my PC to move was play one last match of MWO because I knew it would be the last time for quite a while.
I was a legendary founder, loved MWO, and played on the regular when it was a much simpler 8v8 game. I had a blast running my Atlas AS7-D(F), and had a boom cat that I ran in a group when it was ridiculously overpowered.
Last night, I browsed through my profile, reinstalled the game, logged in and I'm completely lost. The skill system looks insane, I don't know where to spend XP, there seems to be a lot of different kinds of xp and so. As a player returning after 11 years, where should I start?
Here is what i have to work with:
Banked Premium Time: 5,596 Hours General XP: 322,416 Loyalty Points: 40 MC: 10,633 CBills: 3,691,943
Any advice is super appreciated!
2023.03.23 09:35 M0sD3f13 Good concise summary of lab leak by Dr Wilson
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SlZBkG2K91I&feature=youtu.be
The news media is hilariously bad at reporting on complicated topics. Lab leak is a great example they have been months behind the eight ball and completely devoid of nuance and complexity in their reporting the whole time. As he says in the video they want flashy and salacious simple stories not confusing complicated evidence being debated by expert virologists.
For those that want more detail check out
[Decoding the Gurus] Interview with Worobey, Andersen & Holmes: The Lab Leak #decodingTheGurus https://podcastaddict.com/episode/154426016 via @PodcastAddict
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O4qFTMcvWFY
Also see links in doctor Wilson's video description, and there is some really good virology blogs and podcasts such as TWIV out there that have been doing a great job of breaking covid down for laymen for years.
I found it amusing how far this went over Sam's head on his recent podcast and then he opened up his next podcast with a rant about how we should be deferring to experts on complex topics we aren't trained to understand. I agree Sam WE SHOULD
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The news media is hilariously bad at reporting on complicated topics. Lab leak is a great example they have been months behind the eight ball and completely devoid of nuance and complexity in their reporting the whole time. As he says in the video they want flashy and salacious simple stories not confusing complicated evidence being debated by expert virologists.
For those that want more detail check out
[Decoding the Gurus] Interview with Worobey, Andersen & Holmes: The Lab Leak #decodingTheGurus https://podcastaddict.com/episode/154426016 via @PodcastAddict
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=O4qFTMcvWFY
Also see links in doctor Wilson's video description, and there is some really good virology blogs and podcasts such as TWIV out there that have been doing a great job of breaking covid down for laymen for years.
I found it amusing how far this went over Sam's head on his recent podcast and then he opened up his next podcast with a rant about how we should be deferring to experts on complex topics we aren't trained to understand. I agree Sam WE SHOULD
2023.03.23 09:34 theonerr4rf TIFU by trusting a shock collar and getting atacked.
Tldr trusted an invisible fence and got attacked by a pitbull, but my pit saved the day.
This was a week ago im fine also mobile formatting. I 14 m spent spring break with my biological father, he has two pit bulls a pit bully mix lulu and a pit lab mix bosco.
Bosco likes to jump the fairly tall fence, so we got a shock collar for when he tries to jump.
well it didn’t work…
(side note that thing is strong as all hell. I accidentally shocked my fingers and was on the ground.)
well this happened at around 6 am. i let the dogs out and thought i had brought both in.
(at this point its worth noting the neighbors across the street have a pure bread pit in they’re backyard, and an open gate.)
i go back to bed and wale up to bio dads wife in a tizzy because bosco, (who she hates more than anything) was gone. i go out front and look for him, i see him and the neighbors pit, and call bosco, bosco runs up to me…
so does the neighbors pit.
bosco keeps running in front of me slowing me down. the neighbors pit is gaining on me. i scream like a little bitch and full sprint.
the neighbors put jumps at me.
and Bosco realizes what’s going on and turns around then bites the shit out of the other pit, who only scratched me.
In my panic i open our fence gate and close it.
Bosco and the other pit go to the neighbors driveway, after talking i go back over there boscos running around and the neighbors pit bit a fedex driver who called the cops nothing was made of it.
IM FINE ALL ANIMALS ARE FINE
TLDR trusted an invisible fence and got attacked by a pitbull but my pit saved the day
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This was a week ago im fine also mobile formatting. I 14 m spent spring break with my biological father, he has two pit bulls a pit bully mix lulu and a pit lab mix bosco.
Bosco likes to jump the fairly tall fence, so we got a shock collar for when he tries to jump.
well it didn’t work…
(side note that thing is strong as all hell. I accidentally shocked my fingers and was on the ground.)
well this happened at around 6 am. i let the dogs out and thought i had brought both in.
(at this point its worth noting the neighbors across the street have a pure bread pit in they’re backyard, and an open gate.)
i go back to bed and wale up to bio dads wife in a tizzy because bosco, (who she hates more than anything) was gone. i go out front and look for him, i see him and the neighbors pit, and call bosco, bosco runs up to me…
so does the neighbors pit.
bosco keeps running in front of me slowing me down. the neighbors pit is gaining on me. i scream like a little bitch and full sprint.
the neighbors put jumps at me.
and Bosco realizes what’s going on and turns around then bites the shit out of the other pit, who only scratched me.
In my panic i open our fence gate and close it.
Bosco and the other pit go to the neighbors driveway, after talking i go back over there boscos running around and the neighbors pit bit a fedex driver who called the cops nothing was made of it.
IM FINE ALL ANIMALS ARE FINE
TLDR trusted an invisible fence and got attacked by a pitbull but my pit saved the day
2023.03.23 09:34 curliaf NY bar exam third time retaker - what course provider to choose?
For context, I had signed up for Barbri to take the July 2021 and Feb 2022 exams and did not pass. This time around for July 2023, I have decided to use Adaptibar for the MBE. I have my course materials from Barbri for the previous exams; but I am not sure whether much has changed in the rules/sub-topics. If there are any retakers, how are you planning to study the substantive law (i.e, course provider) as I don’t want to sign up with Barbri again?
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2023.03.23 09:33 liansu Dealing with guilt after a break up
So I (22F) broke up with my ex gf (21F) after almost two years of relationship.
I do love her, but she’s dealing with mental health issues (social anxiety and depression) and even if i was really understanding all this time i kinda need time for myself.
It’s just as if taking too much care of her and her feelings all the time made me forget about my own feelings. I too deal with some mental issues (generalized anxiety and adhd) but i just felt like my feelings had to be on a second place.
Recently i started to feel more like her friend than her 2year girlfriend. She hasn’t come out to her family yet, so they think im just a really good friend. For me family is really important, but i tried to not say anything about this since it’s her decision after all. The thing is that even if all my family knows about her, she never wanted to go to my family gatherings, parties, etc. I always dream about spending holidays with a partner, but it also didn’t happen.
She met my friends a couple times but every time i suggested it, it was a really stressful request? I met two of her friends like 2 times each in a 2 year period.
Adding up, we barely had any form of intimacy, no sex (which wasn’t a problem), barely any kissing. Pretty much only hand holding and hugging.
I really miss her already and im scared to death about having made this decision, but i feel like i need time for myself to heal this and really think about where im standing atm. Im trying to have the smoothest break up possible as i still love her, but the guilt is eating me alive.
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I do love her, but she’s dealing with mental health issues (social anxiety and depression) and even if i was really understanding all this time i kinda need time for myself.
It’s just as if taking too much care of her and her feelings all the time made me forget about my own feelings. I too deal with some mental issues (generalized anxiety and adhd) but i just felt like my feelings had to be on a second place.
Recently i started to feel more like her friend than her 2year girlfriend. She hasn’t come out to her family yet, so they think im just a really good friend. For me family is really important, but i tried to not say anything about this since it’s her decision after all. The thing is that even if all my family knows about her, she never wanted to go to my family gatherings, parties, etc. I always dream about spending holidays with a partner, but it also didn’t happen.
She met my friends a couple times but every time i suggested it, it was a really stressful request? I met two of her friends like 2 times each in a 2 year period.
Adding up, we barely had any form of intimacy, no sex (which wasn’t a problem), barely any kissing. Pretty much only hand holding and hugging.
I really miss her already and im scared to death about having made this decision, but i feel like i need time for myself to heal this and really think about where im standing atm. Im trying to have the smoothest break up possible as i still love her, but the guilt is eating me alive.
2023.03.23 09:33 elegantsshadow38 Dedsec International revisited
 | Ok rather than saying how bad the story from Legion I kinda want to revisit the Beta concept of Dedsec International and my take on how Dedsec International would work. submitted by elegantsshadow38 to watch_dogs [link] [comments] Role of Dedsec Dedsec from Watch Dogs 1 and 2 have become global. In my mind begs the question who makes sure that Dedsec as a whole is on the up and up? From what the Beta wiki and u/HeySlickThatsMe had uncovered from the Legion's beta was that there was supposed to be Dedsec International made up of people around the world. My idea was that Dedsec international was a governing body that made sure that the individual Dedsec branches are held accountable and did not go rogue. Another idea was that there are different groups that report to Dedsec International depending on what's needed. Dedsec International:
Harriet Park was an operative in Section 3 before transferring to Section 9 https://preview.redd.it/pb8m1frhzfpa1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=d741ab724a906827bfa56eabb179696e139182de
Members of Dedsec International Section 9 AKA Phantom Unit * |
2023.03.23 09:33 DMWv1 The day my MIL crossed the line
So this week for me was a very hard week and very anger induced week. Please pardon my language, I am Afrikaans and English is my second language so apologies in advance for any spelling errors.
I (30 Male ) and my wife ( 24 Female ) have been trying to have another child, we have 1 little girl ( 4 ) and now are awaiting to see if my wife is pregnant again ( so far all the signs are there ). On Monday there was a protest action in South Africa about our electricity being in loadshedding ( where they turn off the power in area's for a few hours to "help lift the strain on the power grid" wish is just bullshit ), so with this protest action I went home after work, and my MIL said that the protest action is just a pain and she does not understand it. ( side note, I hate being interrupted or cut off in conversations, I find it very rude and disrespectful )
Here is the convo between me and MIL.
MIL: How was the road? Any problems?
Me: No nothing but I think they might be just getting ready for a bigger protest action and-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Oh thats good, I think this protest action might get worse
Me: please let me finish what I was saying, as I wanted to say, this protest action might be just the beginning, last year's action was same as this year and-
MIL ( cutting me off again ): No I dont think so, they are doing it wrong
Me getting irritated: As I said it might get worse, all the risks are there and all of the signs are there as well, I tried to calculate it and-
MIL ( cutting me off AGAIN ) No one can calculate the whole thing
Me getting very pissed off: Please STOP interrupting me, I do risk analyzing for a living you know???? As I TRIED to say, this might get worse, they might be targeting the lower income places first to get more people to join them and then take this protest action to the next level, hens why I am working from home next week, our CEO believes that-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Oh he thinks it will get worse as well? But that is your job to analyze these-
Me cutting MIL off: This conversation is over.
Its at that time that I turned around and walk away, my wife just glared at her mother.
The next day I was off from work and had a peaceful day till my SIL came and visited. This was where the baby talk came in, I was busy playing on my phone and replying to emails when they asked me a question I did not hear, so my wife got my attention by lightly tapping my foot ( this is her way of saying hey please pay quick attention here ),I looked up from my phone and ask.
Me: Hi yes what did I miss?
SIL: So what is your plan with wife during her pregnancy?
Me: Well going to try and pamper her as much as possible, helping more around the house and-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Why? Dont you pamper her enough?
Me: Let me finish talk, AS I was saying, ofcourse knowing wife she will do alot of things around the house as per normal but I am going to try and-
SIL ( cutting me off ): wait you just said that you going to try and take over? That is really just not right, you going to soft for a man.
Me now irritated: This conversation is done thank you.
SIL doing a temper tantrum: Well I will be going home then. Bye
MIL: OP that was rude
Me now very pissed off: Rude??? Says the person that keeps cutting me off the whole time, even after REAPING MYSELF TO HAVE IT STOPPED, so the person to blame here is you MIL, for your own actions has caused this to happen, you keep trying to be a smart ass about everything, being rude, disrespectful and always trying to stick your nose where it does not belong and for that-
MIL ( cutting me off and very pissed off ): DONT YOU DARE BLAME ME!!!!! HOW DARE YOU DO THAT????
Me very pissed off: YOU JUST DID IT AGAIN!!!!! THIS CONVERSATION IS DONE
I turned around and just walked off, later the day both my wife and SIL ( after being explained why I snapped ) took my side and just went off on MIL, hell even my FIL took my side. MIL did eventually apologies but to little to late I think.
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I (30 Male ) and my wife ( 24 Female ) have been trying to have another child, we have 1 little girl ( 4 ) and now are awaiting to see if my wife is pregnant again ( so far all the signs are there ). On Monday there was a protest action in South Africa about our electricity being in loadshedding ( where they turn off the power in area's for a few hours to "help lift the strain on the power grid" wish is just bullshit ), so with this protest action I went home after work, and my MIL said that the protest action is just a pain and she does not understand it. ( side note, I hate being interrupted or cut off in conversations, I find it very rude and disrespectful )
Here is the convo between me and MIL.
MIL: How was the road? Any problems?
Me: No nothing but I think they might be just getting ready for a bigger protest action and-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Oh thats good, I think this protest action might get worse
Me: please let me finish what I was saying, as I wanted to say, this protest action might be just the beginning, last year's action was same as this year and-
MIL ( cutting me off again ): No I dont think so, they are doing it wrong
Me getting irritated: As I said it might get worse, all the risks are there and all of the signs are there as well, I tried to calculate it and-
MIL ( cutting me off AGAIN ) No one can calculate the whole thing
Me getting very pissed off: Please STOP interrupting me, I do risk analyzing for a living you know???? As I TRIED to say, this might get worse, they might be targeting the lower income places first to get more people to join them and then take this protest action to the next level, hens why I am working from home next week, our CEO believes that-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Oh he thinks it will get worse as well? But that is your job to analyze these-
Me cutting MIL off: This conversation is over.
Its at that time that I turned around and walk away, my wife just glared at her mother.
The next day I was off from work and had a peaceful day till my SIL came and visited. This was where the baby talk came in, I was busy playing on my phone and replying to emails when they asked me a question I did not hear, so my wife got my attention by lightly tapping my foot ( this is her way of saying hey please pay quick attention here ),I looked up from my phone and ask.
Me: Hi yes what did I miss?
SIL: So what is your plan with wife during her pregnancy?
Me: Well going to try and pamper her as much as possible, helping more around the house and-
MIL ( cutting me off ): Why? Dont you pamper her enough?
Me: Let me finish talk, AS I was saying, ofcourse knowing wife she will do alot of things around the house as per normal but I am going to try and-
SIL ( cutting me off ): wait you just said that you going to try and take over? That is really just not right, you going to soft for a man.
Me now irritated: This conversation is done thank you.
SIL doing a temper tantrum: Well I will be going home then. Bye
MIL: OP that was rude
Me now very pissed off: Rude??? Says the person that keeps cutting me off the whole time, even after REAPING MYSELF TO HAVE IT STOPPED, so the person to blame here is you MIL, for your own actions has caused this to happen, you keep trying to be a smart ass about everything, being rude, disrespectful and always trying to stick your nose where it does not belong and for that-
MIL ( cutting me off and very pissed off ): DONT YOU DARE BLAME ME!!!!! HOW DARE YOU DO THAT????
Me very pissed off: YOU JUST DID IT AGAIN!!!!! THIS CONVERSATION IS DONE
I turned around and just walked off, later the day both my wife and SIL ( after being explained why I snapped ) took my side and just went off on MIL, hell even my FIL took my side. MIL did eventually apologies but to little to late I think.
2023.03.23 09:32 sunflowersofi He had another girl this whole time
I’d been with him for quite a while now and we were close enough that he could ask me for favors and I would more than happily oblige. One of these things included giving him head in the mornings since he personally mentioned it was one of his favorite things he’d look forward to after waking up, and of course I provided him with that. We wouldn’t always do it, but when I had the time and my classes weren’t until the afternoon, I’d gladly suck him off. As of recently though, he started asking me to give him morning head without brushing my teeth first, which was odd to me since I always brush before going down on him so that it would be hygienic. Well, the following morning I did what he asked and I gave him head almost straight after waking up, and the smell was so bad. I could easily smell my saliva causing an odor while sucking him off, but I pushed through it until he finished. I asked him if I should clean his thing because it was literally coated in my morning saliva but he said it was fine, and he got ready went off to work.
Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
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Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
2023.03.23 09:32 d3teri0rat1ng my pt : part 2
i did well in school until 5th grade but even then it never felt enough mostly because i didnt feel like i did enough like my sister. she got multiple rewards during ceremonies and there was this one part of the ceremony where the really good kids got to go on the stage and be knighted by a knight. id always wanted at least that. i never did though and i really tried. but i watched my sister get that, i wanted to cry i was a good kid and had many friends and even had well bonds with all of my teachers and even the principal. why wasnt i good enough like her. but she wasnt. we got into fights alot which she obviously would win, she hit me and left marks and scar on me from her nails. my mother stuck up for me about half the time but it wasn't enough to prevent it from happening again. anyways, eventually during my 5th grade yeari had been transferred to another school which had devastated me. it wasnt hard to gain friends but i had lost so many and it wasnt a good school for me, the student were somewhat toxic and so was my teacher. i was doing so poorly and that wasnt like me at all i always got at least mostly a's and b's but i couldnt catch up i felt so left behind and when i would ask her for help it was like being ignored or like i didnt even matter that much to put effort into helping.
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2023.03.23 09:32 pizza-peter-parker was this actually abuse?
when i was a kid (ages ???-13) my sister (five years older than me) made me do whatever she wanted me to do and she would say things like “I will never talk to you again” “I won’t be your sister anymore” “how could you be so fucking mean” whenever I sheepishly said no to what she asked. She did this every single day and I always 100% believed her and cried my eyes out to my mom, hyperventilating and sobbing because i “selfishly said no and now my sister is so hurt”. I felt so evil and I truly believed she would hate me for the rest of my life. (idk if this is why, but i am autistic so maybe that’s why i believed the same guilt trip over and over again?)
mostly she would just tell me to sit in her room, on her bed, while she was on the computer doing her own thing. hours just sitting there. it was horrible and i could only occupy myself for so long. Eventually I learned how to get out of there. after an hour of sitting there, i would finally muster up the courage to tell her “I’m going to go pee” then when i left the room I would never come back. I would hide by my mom because she didn’t say anything horrible when our mom was around.
the next day, surprise, she acted all sweet and “asked” me to come to her room. i felt relieved that she didn’t actually hate me, but felt that “trapped” feeling and anxious because I was about to waste hours of my day doing nothing that will end in sobbing because “of my selfishness” to want to be away from her
anyway. before i thought about all of this a lot, whenever it was brought up I would try to laugh it off but i always had tears well up in my eyes.
i feel stupid for classifying this as abuse. but i still feel that pit in my stomach when my sister nowadays “guilts” me in any way. (Nothing like before) or i feel that trapped feeling and anxiety when she asked to hang out.
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once when I was 10 and she was 15, we were role playing characters she liked from a show. She liked to ship the characters we were being. she told me her plan that she would grab my shirt collar and say something (in character) and i would then have to kiss her by her mouth to defuse the situation. I expressed that I was uncomfortable with that and she got annoyed. Because I was scared of saying no to her, I agreed.
immediately she yanked me by my shirt collar so hard i fell to my knees. I didn’t expect to be grabbed that hard. I felt my shirt come up over my chest and felt very very embarrassed. I tried to tug it down but nothing budged. She was still in character and glared at me from above and the only thing I knew to stop this was to do what she wanted me to do.
(for more context, at the time, she liked an incest pairing involving a child character and his older brother.)
im not sure what to even call this indecent. only recently i recalled it. it definitely disturbs me
would it even be considered abuse? would any of this?
thank you for any thoughts you might have on this. just been thinking about these things lately
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mostly she would just tell me to sit in her room, on her bed, while she was on the computer doing her own thing. hours just sitting there. it was horrible and i could only occupy myself for so long. Eventually I learned how to get out of there. after an hour of sitting there, i would finally muster up the courage to tell her “I’m going to go pee” then when i left the room I would never come back. I would hide by my mom because she didn’t say anything horrible when our mom was around.
the next day, surprise, she acted all sweet and “asked” me to come to her room. i felt relieved that she didn’t actually hate me, but felt that “trapped” feeling and anxious because I was about to waste hours of my day doing nothing that will end in sobbing because “of my selfishness” to want to be away from her
anyway. before i thought about all of this a lot, whenever it was brought up I would try to laugh it off but i always had tears well up in my eyes.
i feel stupid for classifying this as abuse. but i still feel that pit in my stomach when my sister nowadays “guilts” me in any way. (Nothing like before) or i feel that trapped feeling and anxiety when she asked to hang out.
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once when I was 10 and she was 15, we were role playing characters she liked from a show. She liked to ship the characters we were being. she told me her plan that she would grab my shirt collar and say something (in character) and i would then have to kiss her by her mouth to defuse the situation. I expressed that I was uncomfortable with that and she got annoyed. Because I was scared of saying no to her, I agreed.
immediately she yanked me by my shirt collar so hard i fell to my knees. I didn’t expect to be grabbed that hard. I felt my shirt come up over my chest and felt very very embarrassed. I tried to tug it down but nothing budged. She was still in character and glared at me from above and the only thing I knew to stop this was to do what she wanted me to do.
(for more context, at the time, she liked an incest pairing involving a child character and his older brother.)
im not sure what to even call this indecent. only recently i recalled it. it definitely disturbs me
would it even be considered abuse? would any of this?
thank you for any thoughts you might have on this. just been thinking about these things lately
2023.03.23 09:32 Crobbers Ask yourself this question: do you really wanna her back if she hooked up with a another dude?!
So my girlfriend of 6 years broke up with me 2 weeks ago. I’m 30 she’s 28.
I cannot blame her. Seriously. Owning your mistakes and being honest to yourself makes you stronger.
I completely slept on our relationship for at least a year. I did nothing but doing stuff for university or honestly just be lazy and do nothing with her.
On top of that I was pretty obnoxious for the last couple of months which ultimately led her to leaving me.
She just wasn’t attracted to me anymore.
She also took me for granted a bit but tbh if we lay it all out in front of us it’s clear that I screwed the relationship up.
Okay. So.
Guys.
That’s what it is now. Trust me I had the worst 2 weeks of my life. 2 months ago my father passed away and it felt like nothing compared to what I’m going through right now.
I cried. I begged. I cried again. I tried to talk her out of the decision. I went no contact for a few days and got weak.
The last couple of days, after weeks of abysmal sorrow and regret, I started to feel a change.
I think I’m accepting what is happening.
And on top of that I start to feel like I don’t even want her no more.
The thoughts of her booking up with another dude are enough for me to realize: I don’t want this anymore.
Not necessarily bc of jealousy but more because to me our relationship was sacred and for her to do all this: for her it’s not sacred anymore.
Why would you want that? Seriously. Aka yourself that. I get it. You love her. You screwed up. I know.
But even then. THERE IS NO WAY BACK. We gotta understand that it’s their decision. Life is macabre but that’s what happens in ~80 yrs of lifetime.
Just logically speaking: it can’t go round the entire time. And considering this fact being in a relationship for 6 years straight is already a huge chapter of my life. We tend to think like “our life just started, we had so many more years and memories ahead.”
Like - no.
You HAD many years and you screwed up. You have to learn from it and move on. You have to put faith in the next years and try to enjoy the process.
LET HER GO.
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I cannot blame her. Seriously. Owning your mistakes and being honest to yourself makes you stronger.
I completely slept on our relationship for at least a year. I did nothing but doing stuff for university or honestly just be lazy and do nothing with her.
On top of that I was pretty obnoxious for the last couple of months which ultimately led her to leaving me.
She just wasn’t attracted to me anymore.
She also took me for granted a bit but tbh if we lay it all out in front of us it’s clear that I screwed the relationship up.
Okay. So.
Guys.
That’s what it is now. Trust me I had the worst 2 weeks of my life. 2 months ago my father passed away and it felt like nothing compared to what I’m going through right now.
I cried. I begged. I cried again. I tried to talk her out of the decision. I went no contact for a few days and got weak.
The last couple of days, after weeks of abysmal sorrow and regret, I started to feel a change.
I think I’m accepting what is happening.
And on top of that I start to feel like I don’t even want her no more.
The thoughts of her booking up with another dude are enough for me to realize: I don’t want this anymore.
Not necessarily bc of jealousy but more because to me our relationship was sacred and for her to do all this: for her it’s not sacred anymore.
Why would you want that? Seriously. Aka yourself that. I get it. You love her. You screwed up. I know.
But even then. THERE IS NO WAY BACK. We gotta understand that it’s their decision. Life is macabre but that’s what happens in ~80 yrs of lifetime.
Just logically speaking: it can’t go round the entire time. And considering this fact being in a relationship for 6 years straight is already a huge chapter of my life. We tend to think like “our life just started, we had so many more years and memories ahead.”
Like - no.
You HAD many years and you screwed up. You have to learn from it and move on. You have to put faith in the next years and try to enjoy the process.
LET HER GO.
2023.03.23 09:31 sunflowersofi He had another girl this whole time
I’d been with him for quite a while now and we were close enough that he could ask me for favors and I would more than happily oblige. One of these things included giving him head in the mornings since he personally mentioned it was one of his favorite things he’d look forward to after waking up, and of course I provided him with that. We wouldn’t always do it, but when I had the time and my classes weren’t until the afternoon, I’d gladly suck him off. As of recently though, he started asking me to give him morning head without brushing my teeth first, which was odd to me since I always brush before going down on him so that it would be hygienic. Well, the following morning I did what he asked and I gave him head almost straight after waking up, and the smell was so bad. I could easily smell my saliva causing an odor while sucking him off, but I pushed through it until he finished. I asked him if I should clean his thing because it was literally coated in my morning saliva but he said it was fine, and he got ready went off to work.
Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
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Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
2023.03.23 09:31 Accomplished_Fun_708 unbalanced power dynamic in friendship - what should i do??
I (19f) have noticed some unbalanced power dynamics in my friend group of two other girls, we’ll call them Trinity (19f) and Kate (18f). For some quick context, we’ve been friends for about 8 years and are in our first year of college at different universities, but same state.
Kate is a very driven person, she likes to grind and gets stressed when she’s not busy. This Spring Break she came back to our hometown and has been working the whole time and when she’s at school she’s very much an overachiever and me and Trinity have a much more balanced relationship with school/work. This can leave her feeling physically and emotionally drained. She has recently learned about boundaries within the past year or so and has been big on setting them, which I think is awesome, but most of her boundaries feel like they’re pushing me and Trinity away.
For example, she’s recently started this boundary where if she doesn’t feel up for something after work or school, she’ll cancel. So she’s canceled on me to hang out two times this spring break because she needed a rest day. I haven’t seen her at all this spring break. This, among some other reasons, made me feel like she was avoiding me and purposefully creating distance, but we talked it out and this wasn’t the case. We’re supposed to hang out tomorrow, but she leaves the next day, and I’m feeling really anxious that she’s going to cancel. She’s one of my best friends, it’s really important to me I get to spend time with her. Another example is we three try to facetime about once a week and she’s started a boundary that she won’t plan to join, just join if we’re already calling and feels up for it.
I think there’s some value in this, obviously she should feel free to rest every once in a while when she needs it, but i feel like its over half the time now. At Trinitys birthday we were supposed to have a sleepover the night before and she canceled because she didn’t have the energy (we did have another one the day of but it wasn’t our original plan).
I feel as if this has created an unbalanced power dynamic between the three of us where me and Trinity overly value her presence. It has become a rare privilege, It doesn't feel like she puts much effort into spending time with us, but we put in all the effort we can to spend time with her. I don't trust her to keep plans hardly ever anymore and that's not a good feeling, it feels a little disrespectful to us and our time. I also think me and Trinity have some anxious attachment styles.
I don't really know how to proceed with all of this. I really value our friendship, but I foresee this becoming even more of an issue. I'm not sure how to set a counter boundary or what that would even look like, especially because I can tell she is so emotionally drained and ahhh again when shes not too emotionally drained to spend time with us I feel lucky and I don't want to risk her not wanting to spend time with us even more. I don't want to add to her stress by telling her her boundary is hurting us.
Any ideas what I should do or how I should navigate this?
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Kate is a very driven person, she likes to grind and gets stressed when she’s not busy. This Spring Break she came back to our hometown and has been working the whole time and when she’s at school she’s very much an overachiever and me and Trinity have a much more balanced relationship with school/work. This can leave her feeling physically and emotionally drained. She has recently learned about boundaries within the past year or so and has been big on setting them, which I think is awesome, but most of her boundaries feel like they’re pushing me and Trinity away.
For example, she’s recently started this boundary where if she doesn’t feel up for something after work or school, she’ll cancel. So she’s canceled on me to hang out two times this spring break because she needed a rest day. I haven’t seen her at all this spring break. This, among some other reasons, made me feel like she was avoiding me and purposefully creating distance, but we talked it out and this wasn’t the case. We’re supposed to hang out tomorrow, but she leaves the next day, and I’m feeling really anxious that she’s going to cancel. She’s one of my best friends, it’s really important to me I get to spend time with her. Another example is we three try to facetime about once a week and she’s started a boundary that she won’t plan to join, just join if we’re already calling and feels up for it.
I think there’s some value in this, obviously she should feel free to rest every once in a while when she needs it, but i feel like its over half the time now. At Trinitys birthday we were supposed to have a sleepover the night before and she canceled because she didn’t have the energy (we did have another one the day of but it wasn’t our original plan).
I feel as if this has created an unbalanced power dynamic between the three of us where me and Trinity overly value her presence. It has become a rare privilege, It doesn't feel like she puts much effort into spending time with us, but we put in all the effort we can to spend time with her. I don't trust her to keep plans hardly ever anymore and that's not a good feeling, it feels a little disrespectful to us and our time. I also think me and Trinity have some anxious attachment styles.
I don't really know how to proceed with all of this. I really value our friendship, but I foresee this becoming even more of an issue. I'm not sure how to set a counter boundary or what that would even look like, especially because I can tell she is so emotionally drained and ahhh again when shes not too emotionally drained to spend time with us I feel lucky and I don't want to risk her not wanting to spend time with us even more. I don't want to add to her stress by telling her her boundary is hurting us.
Any ideas what I should do or how I should navigate this?
2023.03.23 09:30 sunflowersofi My (22F) BF (23M) had another girl this whole time
I’d been with him for quite a while now and we were close enough that he could ask me for favors and I would more than happily oblige. One of these things included giving him head in the mornings since he personally mentioned it was one of his favorite things he’d look forward to after waking up, and of course I provided him with that. We wouldn’t always do it, but when I had the time and my classes weren’t until the afternoon, I’d gladly suck him off. As of recently though, he started asking me to give him morning head without brushing my teeth first, which was odd to me since I always brush before going down on him so that it would be hygienic. Well, the following morning I did what he asked and I gave him head almost straight after waking up, and the smell was so bad. I could easily smell my saliva causing an odor while sucking him off, but I pushed through it until he finished. I asked him if I should clean his thing because it was literally coated in my morning saliva but he said it was fine, and he got ready went off to work.
Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
Tl;dr - Bf cheated on me with another girl for however long now, and he’d ask me to suck him off in the mornings just so she could taste me on him when she gave him head later.
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Well, fast forward a couple of weeks, and we get into a big argument which led to him leaving to go to god knows where, while I went into the bedroom and just sat there. A few hours passed and we hadn’t spoken, but I receive a text message and check my phone. It was a video of another girl sucking him off that he recorded, and my heart immediately sank. I watched the whole thing for some reason, but what made it worse was that the girl was talking in the video, almost like she knew it was for me, and she’d say things like “I can smell your stinky spit on his cock” and then she’d look to him and go “I can taste her on you”. I had to close out of the video and honestly just put my phone down after watching it, I had never felt so heartbroken and violated.
I don’t know what was worse, the fact that he blatantly cheated on me, that he’s been doing it for a while now, or that he’s been letting another girl suck him off for however long now, but he’d also let her taste me too from the morning blowjobs I gave him. It also clicked that the whole reason he wanted me to give him head without brushing was so that my “smell” would be lingering on his cock for whoever this new girl was to be able to smell and make fun of me. I’ve obviously broken up with him and haven’t contacted him since, but i don’t know what to do. Should I get revenge? Just let it go and move on?
Tl;dr - Bf cheated on me with another girl for however long now, and he’d ask me to suck him off in the mornings just so she could taste me on him when she gave him head later.
2023.03.23 09:30 Embarrassed_Fun_3505 I'm (22F) considering an open relationship with my BF (24m) of 2 yrs - pros and cons?
Can I get some advice from people who have tried this and what came of it? The best way to start the conversation etc.
Basically we used to be a perfect couple but now he can't fulfill my needs sexually as he isn't willing to put in the effort to stay attractive for me like I do for him with diet and exercise.
Breaking up isn't an option for all the pessimistic people (we are very happy together other than this issue which affects me much more than him). He is committed to me we are getting engaged.
So I'm considering opening the relationship so my needs can be met physically.
And no this isn't so I can sleep around I would likely find one guy to have this relationship with and would keep everything transparent with my bf
Edit: he may be open to it but not sure, he said he would be happy for me to screw one of his friends who is a girl when I told him I was bisexual to fulfill my needs but this was over a year ago
No hate please, just advice would be appreciated.
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Basically we used to be a perfect couple but now he can't fulfill my needs sexually as he isn't willing to put in the effort to stay attractive for me like I do for him with diet and exercise.
Breaking up isn't an option for all the pessimistic people (we are very happy together other than this issue which affects me much more than him). He is committed to me we are getting engaged.
So I'm considering opening the relationship so my needs can be met physically.
And no this isn't so I can sleep around I would likely find one guy to have this relationship with and would keep everything transparent with my bf
Edit: he may be open to it but not sure, he said he would be happy for me to screw one of his friends who is a girl when I told him I was bisexual to fulfill my needs but this was over a year ago
No hate please, just advice would be appreciated.
2023.03.23 09:30 lexychu_ Crush on my co-worker
Yeah so I have a crush on my coworker, not the best situation I got myself into but I have been in worse 🤣
Anyways, when I first started my job I thought nothing of him. Actually, he kinda annoyed me! He’s really social and I’m a natural introvert , so I would kinda avoid him but his energy felt good natured so I didn’t mind his conversation.
One day at work, I was waiting to clock out and he saw me waiting and came and sat across from me and started spilling his whole life’s story. He shared a lot of personal things with me and I was taken aback because he was so open with me.
I did tell him that something about his aura or energy was attracting me. I have a natural tendency to help and listen and I just felt he just needed to be heard. So I listened to him and he told me he was naturally attracted to my energy too, which is why he opened up to me. So boom. That was the start.
Time goes on, I catch myself feeling some feelings every time I see him at work. I was like : “what’s going on with me?” I would feel weak in my knees and wouldn’t even want to look at him because I would catch myself smiling when I did .like a fool. 😂
Well my feelings got the best of me and maybe about 4-5 months ago I told him I had a crush on him. His response was “I mean who wouldn’t” and I was like okay whatever he doesn’t feel the same way and I stopped pursuing and just chilled out on the whole idea.
Then I stopped reaching out to him and I avoided him , not out of spite just because I wanted to do myself a favor and not put myself in a position that was pointless.
One day we were working on the same unit together and he said he missed me and I don’t text him anymore , I didn’t respond to the comment. But we had other friendly banter throughout the day. Like I said I been cool about my feelings towards him. I like him but I’m not desperate, you know?
Then yesterday he text me and asked me if I wanted to get lunch with him so I said yes bc I didn’t make a lunch and coincidentally he didn’t either. Initially I was thinking that it was a little strange . He knows I have a crush on him…right ?and he could’ve just got food on his own without me or even with someone else we work with. Like I said he’s social and knows a lot of people at our job . But I agreed . So we drove to a Wendy’s and we had a good time!
After work I told him I had fun and he said he did too so we agreed we do it again soon. I just need some advice or a different perspective. I feel a little foolish typing this but am I looking into this too much? I left out some details because he does little things like text me goodnight , he’ll come up to me and rub my arm when he’s leaving to say goodbye and when we don’t work on the same unit he’ll tell me he misses me and wish he was working with me . So there’s all of that.
Pls help. Any insight is appreciated ♥️🙏🏻
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Anyways, when I first started my job I thought nothing of him. Actually, he kinda annoyed me! He’s really social and I’m a natural introvert , so I would kinda avoid him but his energy felt good natured so I didn’t mind his conversation.
One day at work, I was waiting to clock out and he saw me waiting and came and sat across from me and started spilling his whole life’s story. He shared a lot of personal things with me and I was taken aback because he was so open with me.
I did tell him that something about his aura or energy was attracting me. I have a natural tendency to help and listen and I just felt he just needed to be heard. So I listened to him and he told me he was naturally attracted to my energy too, which is why he opened up to me. So boom. That was the start.
Time goes on, I catch myself feeling some feelings every time I see him at work. I was like : “what’s going on with me?” I would feel weak in my knees and wouldn’t even want to look at him because I would catch myself smiling when I did .like a fool. 😂
Well my feelings got the best of me and maybe about 4-5 months ago I told him I had a crush on him. His response was “I mean who wouldn’t” and I was like okay whatever he doesn’t feel the same way and I stopped pursuing and just chilled out on the whole idea.
Then I stopped reaching out to him and I avoided him , not out of spite just because I wanted to do myself a favor and not put myself in a position that was pointless.
One day we were working on the same unit together and he said he missed me and I don’t text him anymore , I didn’t respond to the comment. But we had other friendly banter throughout the day. Like I said I been cool about my feelings towards him. I like him but I’m not desperate, you know?
Then yesterday he text me and asked me if I wanted to get lunch with him so I said yes bc I didn’t make a lunch and coincidentally he didn’t either. Initially I was thinking that it was a little strange . He knows I have a crush on him…right ?and he could’ve just got food on his own without me or even with someone else we work with. Like I said he’s social and knows a lot of people at our job . But I agreed . So we drove to a Wendy’s and we had a good time!
After work I told him I had fun and he said he did too so we agreed we do it again soon. I just need some advice or a different perspective. I feel a little foolish typing this but am I looking into this too much? I left out some details because he does little things like text me goodnight , he’ll come up to me and rub my arm when he’s leaving to say goodbye and when we don’t work on the same unit he’ll tell me he misses me and wish he was working with me . So there’s all of that.
Pls help. Any insight is appreciated ♥️🙏🏻