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2012.01.31 17:23 invno1 a place with a mall

Lynnwood, Washington is a commuter city/bedroom community. A northern suburb of Seattle, WA and at the same time a southern suburb of Everett, WA. It is most notable for the Alderwood Mall, the largest (and we would argue *best*) mall in the area. Lynnwood is only about 4 miles from the Puget Sound and about 70 from great skiing, hiking, and other outdoor activities in the North Cascades.
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2012.01.31 23:15 It's an Edmonds kind of sub

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2023.03.23 09:22 gnarly_whips If I loan my company(LLC) money and in the agreement states that they won't take a profit until the loan is paid off. Will my company still have to pay taxes? For ex, I loan my company 400k to purchase a house to rent out but they have to pay me first before collecting profits which can be long

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2023.03.23 09:15 maplemeadow WIBTA For Not Paying My Parent Over 1K in Rent

I (25 F) was recently asked by my dad (55 M) to pay rent of about 1.2k to 1.5k to help cover house mortgage, as he wants to house to stay with one of his 3 kids. FYI: I only make about 40k a year and last year broke my left knee, so have been losing money due to paying for appt, surgeries, missing work for PT, etc. I hardly have 1k in my checking by the end of each month, and that’s without paying other bills first. I pay for car, all medical bills, my dog, and on occasion house. He had a bad accident in 2016, of which he got 1.5M (and retired with) and put 150k to the house, 20k to bros loans, 40k to house repairs, and 400k to his home in his native land. He says he’s running outta money. But I don’t feel like it’s my place to put more than he or my mom. Esp as I’m still recovering. WIBTA for offering 500-700 for the time being, as I navigate recovery and finding a better get job?
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2023.03.23 09:13 ZestyTests43 My nMom's forcing me to abandon my sick kitten. I'm heartbroken, she makes me suicidal and I can't cope.

I really, really just need any form of support or kindness. I'm so tired of this life. It's been years of being worn down, and I try so hard to be resilient, but no matter what I am pushed into constant unhappiness because of my family.
Last year I had a seven year old cat who got diagnosed with cancer in August. I have barely any money, I still live with my nMom because I can't afford to move out and I pay her my share of rent, and through this entire time we've had arguments so bad she's tried to throw me down the stairs and she's locked me outside (and then called my relatives saying I'm abusing her). The police once came and I tried telling them how she treats me but she began crying in front of them saying that she can't cope with me and I'm horrible, and they believed her and asked me to stay in my room and then left without talking to me.
I spent all I could on his vet fees but he only deteriorated and passed away in November. It was so traumatic. It was vet visit after vet visit and nothing but worse news. He died horribly because my nMom refused to drive me to the vet to have him put to sleep in his final week.
All December she kept telling me I should get a new kitten because 'I deserve some happiness' and she kept sending me advertisements of them on second hand websites. She kept talking about being excited for one, that we need a source of happiness, and how much she loves animals.
Long story short, I got a kitten because she surprised me by driving me to some ladies house to pick one. Long story short, he's really sick. I don't know what it is exactly but I've found blood in his stool, he's losing weight, drooling heavily, not eating, and he can barely keep his eyes open (he's about four months). Because my Mom is the only person who drives, I told her I need to take him to the vet and she began absolutely screaming at me until her voice was raw.
She called me a fcking btch for getting her involved in my problems. She said it was my choice to get him (when I feel she coerced and supported me in doing so as it wasn't even my idea). She says I should have been prepared for him being sick (of course I have money for vet bills but I didn't imagine a brand new kitten would be so seriously sick just after losing a cat to cancer which cost me well over a thousand), and she began mocking me every time I spoke. Whatever I say, she says I'm too stupid to understand what I'm saying, and she says I'm making her life a living hell. She says it's not her responsibility to be involved in the slightest because it's quote 'my f*cking mistake'.
She then chased me upstairs to continue arguing and when I told her "I don't want to continue this conversation because it's only going to escalate" she screamed so hard her voice broke and she said "How fcking dare you tell me about this and then leave me with it, you fcking b*tch". I didn't mean to leave her with it, I don't know how else to exit the situation.
I feel so upset and confused. Of course I feel awful for asking her to take him to the vets as I don't drive, and I know any animal might need vet bills and I'm willing to pay, but she's acting like I chose for him to be sick and that I'm being malicious by asking her help. I feel like she pushed me into getting him and is now pretending like I was the one who did. She's angry at me for him being sick which I can't control.
I told her I don't know what to do if I can't treat him and she told me verbatim "Now isn't the time to pretend to be moral, throw that f*cking thing out like a normal person. No one else would care but you."
This is ONE snippet of how everything in my life goes. Being born into this family has ruined me emotionally.
I'm locked in my bedroom while she paces around downstairs muttering the word f*ck and cursing me loud enough I can hear it. I can't do this.
Edit: She always tells me I can rely on her and tell her anything but any time I actually do she says I'm making her life hell. If I talk about my emotions on any basis she claims I'm making her life horrible. All I do is keep to myself, but apparently my genuine existence is just enough to make her life the absolute worst.
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2023.03.23 09:12 sph_ere How to disclose a possibly strange fixture?

I co-manage a four story, 2b2b house located in prime real estate in a large city. The listing has been up for two months, and we have hosted +10 groups and have a 5.0 rating with 6 reviews. All is going well. However, a couple experiences with this one and others I manage have left me rattled and thinking of ways to waterproof my listing and communication strategies as much as possible.
Now, the house has a feature that may come across as strange to guests. It is a large wooden altar on the fourth floor, same floor as the rooftop and laundry. There is also a much smaller version in a small alcove on the first floor that is visible when you first walk in, we put a plant in front of that one. The house is in a Southeast Asian country, and we get mostly international guests that may be unfamiliar with this type of thing. Every house and business in the country has some variation of altars somewhere, but I'm not sure how common it is in Airbnbs. This one's not in use or anything, house is rented out full time. Altar is not in a closed room per se, it is not possible to make it entirely inaccessible, but we have put the whole space it's in behind thick curtains. We do not currently have photos or any mention of it in the listing or communications.
Its never come up so far in reviews or messages that I know of. Should I even try to mention it somewhere in the description? If so, how? I feel that this is a cultural aspect that people should respect, and that I can try and play up almost like a feature. But unfortunately my experience with many travelers being not as understanding with (to me minor but I recognize they may think differently) local and cultural quirks as I would wish for, has led me to this point of feeling the need to warn people. Competition is huge in the local market, prices are super low, and theres not much margin for even the smallest dissatisfaction from guests. Thanks in advance!
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2023.03.23 08:59 IndependentOk9710 LPT Request

How to divide rent for me and my girlfriend
So I have been living with my girlfriend and 2 other guys for the last 4 years now. We are all moving into a new house together in a couple of months.
The new house is much bigger and has a empty room. Initially we wanted to convert the spare room into another bedroom to get another tenant in to reduce our rent. However the landlord does not approve. So the 4 of us said we would just split the room and use it for whatever we please. The 2 other guys think that we should all split the rent evenly which my girlfriend and I feel is very unfair as we will be sharing a bedroom and won't want to use the spare room.
However I think the fairest solution is for us all to pay the same rent but me and my girlfriend get the spare room aswell as our bedroom. My girlfriend is an artist and she would love the room. I feel like we are going to be taken advantage of if we agree to split the rent 4 ways and we all have to share the spare room.
Am I missing something or does this sound fair? And also if it is fair how do we go about suggesting this idea to the 2 lads?
Thank you :)
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2023.03.23 08:57 IndependentOk9710 How to divide rent for me and my girlfriend

So I have been living with my girlfriend and 2 other guys for the last 4 years now. We are all moving into a new house together in a couple of months.
The new house is much bigger and has a empty room. Initially we wanted to convert the spare room into another bedroom to get another tenant in to reduce our rent. However the landlord does not approve. So the 4 of us said we would just split the room and use it for whatever we please. The 2 other guys think that we should all split the rent evenly which my girlfriend and I feel is very unfair as we will be sharing a bedroom and won't want to use the spare room.
However I think the fairest solution is for us all to pay the same rent but me and my girlfriend get the spare room aswell as our bedroom. My girlfriend is an artist and she would love the room. I feel like we are going to be taken advantage of if we agree to split the rent 4 ways and we all have to share the spare room.
Am I missing something or does this sound fair? And also if it is fair how do we go about suggesting this idea to the 2 lads?
Thank you :)
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2023.03.23 08:56 Looopdeloop JNMIL forgets her pyjamas

On my mobile please forgive formatting, long time lurker (and have learned a lot from this sub!)
DH (32M) and I (31F) have been together since we were 20 and married since November (after a lengthy engagement and multiple covid related set backs) MIL has been a BEC and JNMIL on and off for the entire time I’ve known her. She is very intrusive, judgemental and says some of the most vile things I’ve ever heard. The first thing that she said to me was whether I had a good recipe for curry (I am of Sri Lankan descent) and asked me if I had an Australian passport before DH and I went on our first overseas trip (I was literally born here wtf). At first I (naively) thought I could have a good relationship with her, but eventually have come to realise that she is just fucked in the head and as such, we have little to do with her.
MIL has two sons and DH is unfortunately the favourite. She has an extremely uncomfortable fixation on both her boys and is seemingly incapable of seeing them as adults. She also has a good going Jocasta complex and seems to have no idea how fucked up the stuff she says about her sons is.
DHs brother (BIL 36M) and his girlfriend (will just say SIL for ease 28F) have just had their first kid and MIL has really escalated in her intrusiveness and is, quite frankly, unhinged.
SIL told me that she came over almost every. single. day. in the first two weeks of her sons life and stayed for hours!!! When she comes over she doesn’t help, she just cuddles the baby while SIL has to make meals, clean up and do all the housework. All this while getting ‘tips’ from JNMIL about how to parent well. Sure sis, because you did such a great job with your sons… Also this is the same SIL who was told ‘well you’ll need to loose a bit of weight if you want to have a baby’ by JNMIL when they announced that they were going to start trying…
Anyway, JNMIL came over and stayed with us for a few days recently because she needed a medical procedure (we live in the city and MIL and BIL live 2 hours out) and maaaaan was I reminded why we try and see her so rarely.
Girlie absolutely waltzed into our house and sure had a lot of opinions. The house that we bought in January. After renting for ten years, we have been enthusiastically and lovingly appointing and renovating to our tastes.
She promptly announced that she has forgotten to bring her pyjamas and needs to borrow one of DHs T-shirts to bed. I say she can borrow a pair of my PJs. She says ‘no need’. Smash cut to
JNMIL comes out of the shower wearing DHs T shirt, no bottoms and just sits on the couch to watch TV…. Baby girl was dressed like she’d just been dicked down and not like she was staying in someone else’s house. I’m sorry but, this was clearly pre-meditated. She specifically didn’t bring PJs so she could wear DHs t shirt to bed and pretend to be his girlfriend. Why not borrow a pair of my PJs?
Anyway, I have just discovered I am 6 weeks pregnant and just…. Don’t know what to do moving forward…. Seeing what SIL went through with a partner who never stood up to MIL is making me very worried for what lies ahead. Of note, she is much more attached to DH than she is to BIL and she clashes much worse with me than she does SIL. DH is much better at standing up to her than BIL is but regardless, I don’t think we’ll be in for a good time My other concern is that any children we have will be mixed race and I have serious concerns about how she might treat them because of this.
Thank you for reading my rambling post! But mostly thank you all over the years sharing your stories and showing me how it’s done!! You are all an inspiration to lurkers like me.
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2023.03.23 08:47 r-i-v-e-t Urgent repairs not being done for nearly 2 years, need to know my rights

please let me know if this is not the right subreddit for this;
i have been renting my unit (in NSW) for 2 years now (lease commenced in may 2021) and there are major leaks in the roof of every room in the house that had been alerted to my real estate agents within the first month.
they had been alerted many times about this within these 2 years with no actual commencement of repairs. every time i was told to "leave it with us" and to have builders get in contact with us but there had constantly been radio silence.
the leaks have only gotten worse in this time. in december my room's light started sparking and buzzing which i contacted them again about the repairs needing to be done ASAP. they promised they would get them done. but yet instead an electrician isolated the light instead, with no contact from any builders as i patiently waited.
then 2 months ago our lounge room light had actually caught on fire due to the leaks. i called up obviously very angry about their negligence thinking that they'd finally do something due to it now being a very real possibly life threatening thing. i was instead met with condescending words and them essentially lying to me saying that they have "constantly tried reaching me in an attempt to organise repairs". this clearly wasn't the case.
yet again they came to isolate the light and no repairs were done even on that week.
they had builders come to look at it a month ago (and work on the neighbouring roofs, which i have been alerted are owned by the same landlord), it has not been fixed and the leaks are arguably even worse with the supposed reinforcement that they put in.
i want to pursue some sort of tribunal or legal action as repairs have not been done and it is proven to be an actual life threatening fire hazard.
i just wanted to know what my rights are in this situation, who i should approach and how i should approach it. i know the tribunal is appropriate in this situation but i don't know if i have total grounds for it and am apprehensive about going through the process on my own with my housemate.
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2023.03.23 08:42 macho_viking Is Clarehall, Belmayne, Balgriffin safe?

Planning to buy a house soon but the only houses I can afford and that I like at the same time are in Clarehall, Belmayne and Balgriffin. I read conflicting opinions about these areas on boards.ie. I’ve been to Clarehall shopping center area in the day time and it seemed fine. But the social housing atlas shows the entire area including Belmayne has social housing and is next to Darndale which has more social housing. Balgriffin seems fine but is still surrounded by these deprived areas.
Are these good areas to live in and buy a house? For context I’m a non-white foreigner and racism has been a traumatic experience for me in the past in other countries. I’m currently renting at Clontarf which is safe and grand but I can’t find a house in my price range here.
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2023.03.23 08:32 Jagtom83 Yes, the 1.5 million Australians getting rent assistance need an increase, but more public housing is the lasting fix for the crisis

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2023.03.23 08:30 Defiant-Phone My moronic and problematic roommate adopted a homeless ham planet who is now the most obnoxious person in our household without even paying any bills

So a little bit of backstory. My roommate is probably the most idiotic guy I’ve ever met. I can’t figure out what his deal is but he has a kid that he basically lost custody of (in another colorful plot twist, the baby mom was/is also homeless, but she literally told him she’d rather be homeless than be with him and ran off with the kid to a shelter). So he “adopted” another woman less than 24 hours after his baby mom told him off, and let her move into our house basically immediately. Even giving her her own key! I figure this guy really has some kind of complex where he wants/needs to feel needed and therefore rescues random people. But I really hate that we have to adopt these people (lord knows where they came from) and give them keys to our house which is a whole separate issue. But his new girlfriend is a ham planet and probably the most obnoxious roommate we have, even though she’s not paying rent at all. I’ve been trying to figure out how she manifested so perfectly as this person who sits at our house all day with no job, and my roommate thinks it’s perfect because there’s someone sitting at home all day to “watch the dog”. But she regularly blasts obnoxious music, takes over the shared bathroom for 3 hours at a time to do her makeup (why? You have nowhere to go 😭) , and is generally loud and obnoxious. I also think it’s hilarious because we have a spare bathroom downstairs that doesn’t have a shower, and it would be less inconvenient for everyone if she would just use that one. But she won’t go downstairs at all 😭 if someone is in the upstairs bathroom she’s like “wow I don’t feel like walking downstairs”. (I bet you don’t). But that leaves the one shower that’s supposed to be shared by 4 people (!!) monopolized by her for hours. I had to leave for work early yesterday because I didnt even want to be at my house because she was doing this , and also blasting the most aggravating mainstream rock music (think, songs that are aggressive but not good) at a volume I couldn’t hear my TV over. The whole time she doesn’t even live here. I hate having to fight to use my bathroom with someone who doesn’t even pay rent but the entitlement is real 😭
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2023.03.23 08:17 CarelessHumanity Does my personal charger for my Phone need PAT tested to be used at work?

The boss has just went on an rampage of giving people wrong for not having PAT tested equipment, we no longer have heaters in the canteen and we can’t charge our phones incase of an emergency.
I swear the rules on personal items means they don’t need tested as long as the employers canteen and other appliances are tested
It falls under the rule that’s similar to if I was to rent out a house, the land lord would need to test all their electrical items but the person renting wouldn’t.
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2023.03.23 08:08 naree123 AITAH for demanding my friend takes a day job

This is going to be a long one..
Three months ago my friend (F 27) called me crying about her relationship. It had become very toxic, Abusive and later she admitted violent. I offered to give her and her son (M 10) a place to stay and to help her get back on her feet. This meant me (F 27) and my partner (M 27) drove four hours to pick her, her son and whatever belongings she had up and took them back to our home in another town.
My partner and I offered to help her where we were able to get back on her feet. This included, not charging her for rent until well after she had a job and was sorted out financially, occasionally taking care of her son when she found a job (in her own words, only temporarily and only occasionally, maybe a Saturday here and there), we helped her get what she needed for her job (shoes, shirts whatever) and also her sons schooling supplies for his new school. Advising she could pay us back when she was back on her feet.
She ended up finding a job that was offering her night packing at a supermarket. She admitted it was temporary, and it would only be a few nights a week and maybe every second Saturday. Me and my partner don’t have any children so we changed our lifestyle a lot to accommodate her and to take care of her son. For us this was a huge change but one we were ok with since it wasn’t forever and it was only a few nights a week. We were happy for her and celebrated this.
Our little unit had become too small for everyone so my partner and I started looking for a bigger home (we were going to look for another one anyway so this wasn’t a huge deal)
After about a month of her being at the house, we had asked her if she had any luck finding a day job to suit her sons school hours more. She replied no, and basically said that she was fine doing what she was doing and that my partner and I could handle it. I told her that my partner and I work 10 hr days in high stress jobs that require our entire attention and we’re starting to feel exhausted and struggling at work. I also told her that I had already spent most of my life raising someone else’s child and didn’t want to repeat that again (I adopted my younger brother when I was 18 but had been his full career since 16 and been his financial caretaker since 13, she knew this about me) she changed the subject. By this point we were taking care of her son every day, and on the days she was home she wasn’t paying any attention to him and was more concerned with talking to boys on tinder and Snapchat, so we were also picking up the slack on those days too.
Another month later I brought up the day job and she admitted she had applied for jobs but has been declined by all of them. I thought this was strange since the town we lived in didn’t have enough people for the work currently available, my partner and I receive job offers at least twice a week and so does my brother. Again we spoke about how my partner and I are not doing ok. Again the conversation got dismissed.
Another month later and my partner and I found a bigger home to accomodate everyone and one we could still afford if she decided to leave. We organised the move, the paperwork, paid the deposits for the house and moved everything ourselves while still working 10hr days and looking after her son. She made complaints that she was too tired and even came home early one night explaining she was exhausted… meanwhile my partner and I didn’t get to even sit down for 5 minutes in the course of 5 days.
By this point my partner is done. He is over it, can barely concentrate at work and has lost his happy go lucky personality. He barely smiles and doesn’t even have the energy to talk most days. We read to her son, teach him to cook, play the Xbox and footy with him. Encourage him to socialise, have him showered, fed and homework done. And don’t get me wrong, we love doing it. But my friend only sees her son a handful of hours a day, and she doesn’t acknowledge him in those hours. He tells us how he wishes his mum was around more often and it hurts us to hear it knowing he is hurting.
So I spoke to my friend again. Telling her, we are not ok. She replied that if she starts working days she will lose out on money. I told her that either way she was going to because we were going to have to start charging her for taking care of her son. She stormed off.
She came home today and told us that she changed her work hours and we thought “great! Finally! We can have a minute to recover our energy and batteries” and then she told us that her hours would be changed so she would be home right on his bedtime but would be home less hours with him, meaning not only are me and my partner are still doing all of the parental duties for him while taking care of our home duties but also my brother would have to watch him while he waited for us to get home from work and before he went to his own job. Meaning now my brother is upset because he works split shifts and can’t sleep either between shifts.
AITAH if I tell her to grow up and get a job that accommodates her son and us or to move out?? I have known her my whole life but I have also never experienced a friend that is so selfish and has taken my generosity and friendship for granted. It hurts my heart but I feel like I don’t have another choice at this stage.
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2023.03.23 08:04 model-slater #GE9 [Wairarapa] model-slater chats environmentalism and housing in Waipukurau

#GE9 [Wairarapa] model-slater chats environmentalism and housing in Waipukurau
model-slater and his team show up to help out in Waipukurau's community garden, where a small group of people have arrived.
model-slater helps outs and fills in around a tree!
Hello to you all! It’s a pleasure to be here, and help out! It's always inspiring to see people band together and contribute to projects like this in the community. There are real benefits of transforming this community garden into more than just a garden, but a community hub. Communal, environmental spaces, especially in towns like Waipukurau serve a common good for so many. Coming together, and building a unified community approach to projects is critical in addressing the many issues that face our modern society today.
This brings me to the battle we currently face against climate change. Being a farming based community, Wairarapa has, and will continue to suffer from the destructive consequences of climate change. Together for All plans to address this. While on a local level, we have small community projects contributing towards efforts against climate change, we also exist in a global community. No singular country can solve climate change, and it would be naive to assume so. That being said, as a comparatively wealthy and populous country in Oceania as Aotearoa is, we owe it to our whānau in the Pacific to combat climate change. This is why Together for All plans to create a "Healthy Transition Fund". In this Healthy Transition Fund, this will allow us to subsidise renewable energy projects across the Pacific, ensuring that we can turn the Pacific into a world leading example of renewable energy. How will this bring benefits to us in Aotearoa though? The clean energy economy is perfectly poised to be a thriving industry, and Aotearoa has a chance now to seize, alongside the Pacific islands, to create economic prosperity across the region, reducing inequality and doing our part to reduce climate change. We have already suffered through droughts and floods, and it is projected to worsen unless as a community, we can address this together. Action on climate change is only one facet of Together for All’s environmental plans. Currently, Aotearoa has corporations wishing to destroy our beautiful natural environment for profit. Together for All will not stand for the destruction of our land for corporate greed, and will end all forms of mining on conservation land. I’d also like to talk about our future with an increasingly worrying issue - housing. Housing unaffordability is becoming a pressing issue for many Kiwis. Around 50% of our homeless population is under 25. Our government is failing to provide the basic human right that is shelter. This is grotesque negligence. And beyond that, this lack of support results in abuse, exploitation. The current laws against sleeping rough and begging have done nothing but criminalise people needing support and it is atrocious. There aren't even sufficient resources to connect with all of the young people who are homeless, let alone house them, and this must be rectified. Together for All will set a goal of constructing 30,000 new public housing units per year, as well as strengthening tenant protections against landlords, by ending no fault evictions and providing timely, cost-effective dispute resolution for tenants who have been unfairly evicted. This is not the end of action but will ideally begin to create changes in the lives of thousands across Aotearoa. Thank you all for having me! Let’s get planting.
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2023.03.23 08:01 rickstaaar What might this really be? I’m a bit suspicious…

Hey everyone,
I have been on the search for an apartment in Berlin for a couple of months now since I’m beginning my studies in April and damn it’s been tough. I eventually founded a start-up WG on wg-gesucht which has 3 rooms for students only. It is a bit expensive (700€ per fully furnished 17m2 room all inclusive plus 400€ deposit with no extra costs) but honestly at this rate I’ll take anything as I currently live in Düsseldorf and have got classes starting April 4th.
I contacted the ad and the guy replied saying that there’s an online viewing and we agreed on that. I provided my phone number and was called on the planned date. 2 guys (late 20s I would say) introduced themselves and told me they are helping a friend that lives in Switzerland to rent his apartment. They showed me the whole apartment via video call and everything looked great. They also said that Anmeldung is possible but I wouldn’t be able to have my name on the doorbell and at the end of the call they were happy to offer me a contract. All I had to do was to send my ID.
They then sent the contract to me and I was kinda shocked. It was very shallow comparing to my current contract with almost 30 clauses; this one only has 7. The landlords address was nonexistent. Just a name and basic information about the apartment. The tenancy is first limited for 6 months with an exclusion of termination. After 6 months an extension would be possible by arrangement and thereafter the notice period is one month after receipt of the notice to end of the month… The ad also stated that no extra costs would be charged! However, on the contract it said that “in case of any excessive consumption of heating or electricity the rent will be increased according to the consumption (base value: 85 kWh of heating per month per room maximum, 110 kWh of electricity per month per room maximum)” which I totally doesn’t make sense to me.
How the rent would be paid was also missing. I then asked the guy how the rent will be paid and why it is not stated on the contract… He said that the first month rent and deposit would be paid in cash until the landlord (in Switzerland) decides to either create a new bank account just for the rent or his own bank account. I found that a bit strange which is making me have some doubts. I told he guy I hope that there'll be a bank account provided before the contract begins to pay for the rent and deposit.
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On the other hand, I asked to meet at the apartment today for a physical viewing as I will be in Berlin and they agreed! Appointment is at 6pm... What has gotten me confused is the fact that they are even willing to let me see the house in person, neither asking for any money upfront nor saying they will send the keys per post. I would appreciate any advice :)
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